First complain, talk about your feelings, and talk about the plans for the future

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However, there is one thing I would like to share with you, and that is my feelings.

My focus may not be the same as yours, my focus is not on how much money I have rolled, let alone how scheming he is, and how many men are there, who can say this clearly except for the parties? No matter how good the girlfriend is, the insider will understand?

My focus is on marital infidelity and Chinese law.

Why do Chinese prohibit cheating in marriage so much? Why is it serious enough to dip in a pig cage? Because it is not a pig cage that is immersed, but the shame of a man, a woman, and two families!

Is it really shameful? Shameful! I usually like ancient Chinese things, and I have heard a lot of official history, and I can guess about ancient times.

It's not that the ancients can't get divorced, and it's not that they can't have other men in their lives, they are divorced, and they want to remarry, why are there so many people who don't remarry, so many widows? Some people are because the woman herself has morality from the beginning to the end, and she has feelings for her husband and her husband's family.

The other part is because of the various propagations of etiquette and religion in the Ming Dynasty, so that the family hopes to get ahead! can make this woman win glory for the family!

That's right, it's to win glory for the family! Because the chaste martyr has a torii. But are there really so many chaste martyrs? No, if it's really so much, then I won't give it to the torii. It is precisely because the society needs such people, and there are few such people, so it will give the torii! And there is a village from the Ming and Qing dynasties to the present, and there is a memorial arch. The current place names (many in the countryside) are called XX square and OO square because there is a memorial arch in the village! It is difficult to enter the Shi and the first, but this is very simple, but it is something that cannot be mixed up in a village for more than ten lifetimes.

In ancient times, people advocated starting from the beginning, so there were torii gates. But people can't do it and don't say anything. Because most people can't do it.

But there is one thing that most people can do, or "been" do. That is, the marriage starts from the beginning.

The first time I left it to my husband, I told him that the first person I had was you, and you were the only one. Still, the husband forbade the woman to do a lot of things.

That is, you can't show your head, you can't dress up too fancy, and you have to avoid guests when they come. Why? To prevent cheating! Because men are true colors, women are lewd. When our physiology tells us to do something wrong, we have to rely on morality, reminders from outsiders, and the limitations of the social environment to pull us on the right path.

In ancient times, women were surrounded by layers, but men were not so particular. Modern women can be exposed, and those who can't be exposed are leaked! said that he showed his charm, but he also put himself in the wolf's den. It's all the man's fault that something happens, and he can't help the temptation, but isn't the person who makes the temptation the source of the mistake?

Men are slowly being labeled more and more, so they also need shirts and trousers in the summer, and it is okay to wear breeches, but wearing shorts is the object of ridicule.

And women can't wait to go out with only underwear, in fact, where are women in summer who wear stronger than underwear? Not to mention that winter doesn't stop.

It's like a revolution is not a dinner party. The reality is also extremely cruel! Marriage is not a dinner party, and a big feast is considered marriage.

After marriage, a woman asks a man to earn money to support the family, because from now on it is a family, and you have to live a good life! No accidents have to live a lifetime.

Not to mention that marriage can be divorced again, it is not a lifelong thing for a long time. Then let me ask you, if you are married from the beginning and divorce after two years of sweet period, then why not just fall in love? Why not simply live together? If you can't live after marriage, you can leave is a relief for both parties and the family, and it is a manifestation of humanity. Rather than being able to divorce, it means that marriage is not a lifelong event, it doesn't matter.

Marriage is a responsibility, and since you are together, you have to do what you have to do. Providing for the family together, raising children together, and the so-called sex is just something attached to marriage. If marriage is just for sex, then can it be said that it is good to find a ****. What to do when you get married, you don't have to think about each other, and you don't have family ties.

Why can't cheating in marriage exist, why can't it be forgiven, why do you dip in the pig cage. It can be understood in this way: you planted three acres of land, which is just enough for a family to eat, and the family is harmonious and beautiful, and when it is ripe, it is all taken away, think about it, what do you think?

Your things, the fruits of your labor, your wholehearted dedication, your hopes, and your family's harmonious and prosperous life are gone, and everything has become a dream. No one will have a good time.

This is also why morality resists cheating. Because it really hurts. Does morality condemn something that is not harmful? Apparently not.

Before today, I always thought that the law was sacred, that it could make up for the defects of morality, and that it could not contain morality, but what I see today is not like that.

We exclude what Wang Baoqiang's situation is, just look at the law itself, our law tells me: two people become husband and wife, even if one party cheats, the other party can't bear to divorce, and at the time of the judgment, it is still half of all marital property (the family property is still not earned by the cheating party).

A person hit you for no reason, and you fought back, but the police said that they would pay a fine of 1,000 yuan. Maybe this statement is not quite right, in other words, if someone rapes you, you have to give people money.

And if that's not enough, what does the law tell us when one party transfers property? Recover the property and divide it equally.

Isn't this the same as someone stealing your money and you have to give half to the thief if you want to come back?

You will say, that's your wife (husband) not an outsider!

In fact, the definition of an outsider is not just a title given by the law, but also in people's hearts. When your husband (wife) has no you in his heart at all and is only with you for your money, will you treat him (her) as a wife (husband)?

Yes! Why, because he (she) has done all the things that a qualified wife (husband) should do. Take care of the family wholeheartedly, take care of the children, earn money to support the family, give the other person psychological and physical comfort, etc. In this case, even if you know that the other party is not for love for you, how much does it matter? If you like him or her, that's enough, isn't it?

But when one day you find out that he (she) not only betrays you psychologically, but also betrays you physically. Do you think about the question of whether you are her (his) husband (wife), one person lives with another person, and each other is physically and psychologically with the other person, so is this a husband and wife relationship? There is a marriage certificate that is at most called a family. But what's the point?

If the infringed party is allowed to continue to be violated, then I believe that no one can stand it!

There is a phenomenon in ancient China called monogamy and multiple concubines, men can raise more young ones if they have money, but there is only one wife, and men can find young ladies if they have money, but they can't take them home.

Because he still has this home in his heart.

Now that these privileges are gone, we have to think about what is fair, fairness is not that women can go to the street to catch the junior and beat the junior Some people applaud, and men are wantonly ridiculed after they know that their wives are cheating! It's to let everyone know what marriage is, marriage can be without emotion, or without sex, but not without loyalty!

Now many phenomena are like this, women scold men for having no money, men go out to work to earn money, and women at home on the grounds that their husbands are not at home and don't care about themselves, making themselves lonely, and they are okay with the surrounding gangsters, or the XX next door.

Is this XX gangster next door really better than her husband? Not at all! Because her husband works for her to earn money, and his next door XX will only enjoy her body, and will not even give her a grain of rice, at most one day for the so-called romance to give a rose worth a few yuan.

After the Chinese New Year, her husband came back and needed her company, but she and XX next door continued to frown in a place where no one was. Then her husband wanted to sleep with her, but she pushed back, tired, didn't want to, and thought that her husband must be looking for a woman outside, and he was not romantic at all, and he didn't know how to accompany her.

Then I only did it once a year with my husband, but I sang with other men every day, spent my husband's money, and enjoyed the life of the stars and the moon in my opinion.

Are there many of them? It is common in many rural areas where migrant workers live. What about cities? It is also very common.

Are these migrant workers completely unaware if they don't know? As long as you go home, you must have heard the rumors. But before the veil was lifted, everyone wanted to "face", and for this thing, everyone chose to turn a blind eye. And the face "connection" is precisely what morality gives.

Is Baoqiang an example? Not at all, but a phenomenon.

Here, the fault is not that there is no money, nor that the husband does not accompany him, but the nature of **** and the lack of morality. If she is a moral person, even if her moral literacy is not high, she just has a conscience, she will stick to herself, and her husband will work hard for the family, and she will guard the rear!

There are also some women who say that the reason why they cheat is that their husbands are not good at it.

For this reason, I would love to ask whether man is a human or an animal! Animals only know the instincts of animals, and humans can restrain this instinct. If you want to do it, you can go to an adult product store and choose whatever you want. If you feel that you can't satisfy your physical desires, then discuss, your husband is not a green hat, then leave, then there is no need to hide the essence of animal nature! Play as much as you want.

Women should always remember that the time when human beings only knew their mothers but not their fathers has passed, so don't let yourself not know who the child really is. It's not just you who is embarrassed, it's three families, it's all relatives!

The whining was done for the time being, and I looked at the previous content and it didn't make any sense, so I decided to change it and the plot later, so I made a big change without changing the general direction. Let Liaozhai, Dream of Red Mansions, Journey to the West, and many other educational fragments of classic masterpieces enter our stories. So it may be a little hard to write lately, but the quality will definitely go up. We hope you can support us!

Improving moral cultivation and regaining classical culture starts with me! Rest assured that it will not appear in the form of classical Chinese.

The new plot is still being conceived and looking for excessive points. According to the bytes that have been coded in the manuscript, it was decided that after forty chapters, find an entry point for the story, because a lot of manuscripts have been removed, and there will only be about 10,000 words of manuscripts after being removed, so it will be updated with 2,000 words a day in the future, sorry.

Someone reads it, and no one reads it. Thank you.