"Mr. Xu, there is a wedding in the village, and it will be held tomorrow, how did you arrange it?"

Xu Xiaoxian was busy all day, and as soon as she was resting in bed, Dong Yun came to her dormitory. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

If it weren't for the secretary's reminder, Xu Xiaoxian really forgot, the village chief was invited that night, and later because of the filming of "Tu Yinji", this matter was handed over to her to solve.

"Village Chief Yang came to ask?" Xu Xiaoxian asked Dong Yun first, if it was because he hadn't given a word, the village chief came over to ask clearly, and it was easy to arrange.

"No, I inquired, the wedding took place at the same place where the party was held that night. Weddings in the village are generally there, and there are few outsiders who participate, and anyone can go.

According to the villagers, people passing by can also participate, and the wedding will last until the night. In the morning, some customs will be held in the village, and at noon, the dinner will start to go to the party that day, there are no rules, the food will be served until the night, you can play as you want, and the main theme is still to be lively around the wedding. Dong Yun told what he knew.

Marriage customs in rural areas are different, and they vary greatly from place to place, and even more so when it comes to ethnic minorities.

"What about the gift money? Is there anything special about it? Xu Xiaoxian continued to ask.

"There are their genealogies in the village, all of which are based on generation, because it is a family wedding, and there is no outsider in the whole village, so it does not matter whether it is near or far. As for outsiders, they are guests when they come, just say a blessing, there are no other rules, look at the guests themselves, and give them at will.

Only one-tenth of the gift money received by the newlyweds will be left, and most of it will be handed over to the family to help special people in the family. Take this wedding as an example, almost all of them are family-owned, and the same is true for other people to get married, just like the era of eating a big pot of rice. The difference is that the family will not ask you for your personal belongings, and each family lives its own life, what do the rules say? It's quite old-fashioned, but there are also a lot of places that are quite humane, and it will definitely be a mess when you put it outside. Dong Yun said with some complexity.

She has learned a lot about Tsing Ma Village recently, some things and things are collective, some are private, and it is difficult for people who do not live here to figure it out, and many things are confused. The family is more like a high-level state, managing everything in the villagers, arranging weddings, funerals, etc., and each family has the same specifications, even the patriarch also acts according to the rules.

Collective activities and labor income belong to the family, and if the villagers own their own labor income in their spare time, their ability to unite is very strong, and the rules are also very rigid. For example, if you do not participate in collective labor, and you go out to work, you must pay the money in proportion to the proportion every year, and your labor fee does not completely belong to you. If you break the rules, you will be kicked out of the family tree, the benefits of the family will be withdrawn, your hukou will still be here, and you will be ostracized by the family if you have your land and house.

It's not that the village hasn't been kicked out of the family, it's basically difficult to survive in the village, you can continue to use some things in the village, and you can also enjoy the benefits brought by the national policy, and you can't enjoy what the family owns. In such a remote place, many things were created by the family, and the country took care of your small village, so the family who was kicked out basically moved away.

The interests of the family are higher than the state, and even the family rules are higher than the law, and the villagers almost all agree that after all, their ancestors have lived like this for generations.

"In this way, taking 100,000 yuan to them is regarded as the blessing of all the crew members to their newcomers, and those who are okay can go if they want to, save a single person, and take more and take less to worry too much. We are filming here, and the villagers have also helped a lot, so you just need to notify me. Xu Xiaoxian listened, thought about it and said.

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At seven o'clock the next morning, the wedding began, and many outsiders did not understand whether they were married to the same village or the same clan. In many places in China, there are close relatives getting married, including cousins getting married, don't be surprised, there are really many such places.

The kinship between the couple is relatively selective, according to the generation, the boy calls the girl aunt, and the girl is a generation older than the boy. After marriage, it is not counted according to the family tree, and the generation is based on the male or the relationship, and their children will also be ranked according to the man.

Xu Xiaoxian was a little uncomfortable about participating in this kind of wedding, fortunately she was not a close relative, when she was in water polo, she didn't eat the first time she attended a close family wedding, which was her classmate's cousin who married a classmate. At the wedding, she was always uncomfortable in her stomach, and she could definitely vomit after eating, and if it wasn't for the good relationship with her classmates, she wouldn't have gone to participate.

Now she can accept this, after all, the relationship between the newcomer in front of her is far away, and it is within her tolerance.

Before marriage, the bride and groom will be carefully dressed, and it is also one of the happiest moments in life.

The sedan chair is still used for marriage here, which is carried by manpower, the dragon is more for the male protagonist, and the phoenix is for the heroine. In the past, when I got married, the sedan chair was not a dragon and phoenix, which was changed later, because there was no emperor, and the design of the sedan chair was also improved.

On the first day of marriage, the woman's rights are greater than the man's, according to the custom here, the woman is afraid of being wronged when she marries, so she belongs to the woman, and the first day of the marriage is over, there is no such attention.

The man can choose to take a sedan chair or ride a horse, there are more than 50 horses in the village, if it weren't for the horses, the crew would have to go to other places to buy horses and transport them to film. Horseback riding is rare elsewhere, almost everyone knows how to ride here, and every family has a horse for transportation.

Xu Xiaoxian and a few people followed the groom's team, looking at this kind of wedding, if it weren't for the fact that many people were wearing modern clothes, they would have thought that they had traveled to ancient times. Many children ran around in the crowd, and no one hated them for making trouble, and they thought that it was good luck as good luck as possible.

"Quick, be sure to shoot it, especially the whole wedding process, be sure to shoot it comprehensively." Xu Xiaoxian shouted loudly at the cameraman.

Last night, Xu Xiaoxian was lying in bed, thinking about the wedding, unable to sleep, got up and took people, found the patriarch and the bride and groom, and got their consent. I notified the crew overnight, transferred three cameramen, and told them my thoughts, so that today's scene was born.

She plans to post this on the Internet, as a special publicity, remove the cost, and then give a part of the income to the villagers of Tsing Ma, of course, in the case of profit, how to distribute it between the specific family and the bride and groom's family, she doesn't care. If it was just an ordinary wedding, Xu Xiaoxian would not be idle about these, because it was different, distinctive, and felt that there was potential for fire, so she was so concerned.

"Please get off the sedan chair and take the bride home!"

When he came to the door of the bride's house, the person in charge of presiding over shouted loudly, his voice was very loud, and the people around him heard it clearly.

The person in charge of lighting the firecrackers lit all around the bride's house, and the firecrackers rang out in unison, and for a while the sound was more like fried beans, crackling and crackling. (To be continued.) )