"Jiang Kai, you said so much, I didn't hear that this Du Guoqing has any special relationship with the humanoid doll in the Yinxingyuan community!" Li Zhiming listened and asked impatiently:

"Yes...... Great relationship. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info" Jiang Kai pondered for a while and said: "Du Guoqing has a sister who wants azaleas, and as early as three years of natural disasters, this azalea disappeared!" ”

"Missing...... Is it difficult to ......" Li Zhiming faintly felt that some Du Guoqing and this puppet incident began to be more or less related, so he suddenly realized:

Jiang Kai glanced at Professor Ai Shijiao, Professor Ai Shijiao nodded, motioned for Jiang Kai to continue, Jiang Kai took another sip of tea, lit another cigarette, took a puff and said, "Yes, Zhiming, you must have guessed it." After Du Guoqing's sister disappeared, the whole family searched for no result, and later learned that the slaughterhouse had slaughtered children, and the family ran to the slaughterhouse, looking for the trace of the azalea, but unfortunately, the azalea was not found, only found the azalea's favorite, the inseparable doll, and discarded it in a corner of the slaughterhouse, due to the long time, the puppet was already dirty and not good, or Du Guoqing was careful, saw the puppet, felt that it was his sister's, after cleaning the puppet, it was true, The word 'Azalea' was written on the puppet's arm, so it was judged that the azalea should have been killed by this slaughterhouse! However, due to the failure to find the body, it is still missing at the legal level, Du Guoqing kept the puppet of this sister, and the younger sister Cuckoo did not have her own grave because she was only missing. Until Du Guoqing's parents died one after another, Du Guoqing was still looking for his sister. It's good for yourself. Parents too. Sister azalea should be the most painful thing in the Du family's life, as time goes by, Du Guoqing also accepts the fact that his sister has died, there is no bones, so he can only use the only relic of this sister before her death - a doll to build a clothed mound, and this mound is designed by Du Guoqing himself, located on the high platform of the fan room! ”

Li Zhiming suddenly realized: "Oops...... I see, I finally got it! Dare to love is such a thing! ”

Professor Axier said lightly: "If there is a supernatural, there must be a story. This is an unspoken truth in the supernatural world, but we have to find out it with unusual eyes, find out the cause, and solve the root cause, so that the supernatural will not confuse the people, and let everyone talk about the spiritual change. This is also the meaning of the existence of our Psychological Crisis Intervention Department II! ”

Li Zhiming nodded, and then said slowly: "Unusual eyes...... Unusual eye ......"

Seeing this, Jiang Kai added on the side: "Zhiming." I forgot to tell you here: Professor Axier is a Sky Eye! ”

"Sky Eye? Is it the eyes that are often mentioned in movies and television, that you can see another world? Li Zhiming looked at Jiang Kai in surprise, and then stared at Professor Ai Shijiao's eyes and asked:

Professor Axier was "indifferent". Straight to drink tea by himself, but Jiang Kai continued to explain on the side: "Yes...... It is precisely because of Professor Ashframe's eye that he has seen the world that we ordinary people can't see, so we have the theory of the supernatural, and there are also a lot of props to deal with the supernatural, the supernatural theory has armed us with the strategic policy of the second psychological crisis intervention, and the supernatural props are to make us more fearless and invincible in the face of supernatural events! And the puppet incident of the azalea I just talked about was discovered by relying on Professor Ash's heavenly eye! ”

Li Zhiming looked at Professor Ai Shi excitedly, and said a little incoherently: "Ai Shi...... Professor Ai...... This one...... Nadu National Day...... No...... It's a doll event with azaleas...... How did you find out? Tell me about it. You know, I came out of that neighborhood and was most sensitive to what was going on in that neighborhood! ”

Professor Ashframe snorted at Jiang Kai, meaning that Jiang Kai should talk about this matter......

(At the request of readers, continue to insert tidbits, the author's previous case notes, if the author remembers correctly, this tidbit should be the story of the third psychological case.) ）

Sunday morning is so pleasant, open the curtains, a little dazzling sunlight immediately spreads the whole living room, after a cup of coffee, stand by the window, listen to the harmonious birdsong, watch the people who exercise in the morning. Suffice it to say, I'm going to be in a good mood today.

Turn on the computer and want to take advantage of the rare Sunday to play online games wantonly. But over the years, I have developed the habit of looking at the mailbox as soon as I turn on the phone. This time was no exception, and I opened my email to see if there were any unread emails. Three unread emails, all sent late last night, 1 is a group purchase advertisement, and 2 are psychological counseling emails, I read these two emails carefully, one email is nothing special, that is, my child is very rebellious, how to deal with the consultation? I replied to an email with advice on how to communicate with my child. Another email signed by Yl caught my attention, and the general content of the email was about a little sister of the sender Yl, who had been tricked into bed in the process of applying for a job. After this happened, the little sister and her beloved boyfriend broke up, causing the little sister to give up on herself now, and she doesn't know what to do? Then I left my contact information at the end of the letter, hoping that I could contact her as soon as possible to help her little sister. The reason why this case caught my attention was that according to the logic of this email, the girl who was deceived in her job search broke up with her boyfriend and began to give up on herself, which at least shows that this girl should love her boyfriend very much. So why give up the bottom line of morality and go to bed with a stranger? Is this job important to her? With such doubts in mind, I dialed the contact information left at the end of the email.

The yl on the phone knew that it was me who called, and was a little excited. Later, in YL's "messy jumping" introduction, I knew some information: the name of the deceived woman in the job search is ZYY, who is a good sister of YL and a native of Wuxi. Since breaking up with her boyfriend, she has become more and more depraved. Every day, I will find some so-called familiar male friends to ask for a hug.

"Lack of security" is my first psychological judgment of this zyy impression.

Yl on the other end of the phone pleaded, "Doctor Jiang." We finally found your email address, please help Zyy, no matter how much you are paid, we are willing to pay. ”

I sincerely admired YL's affection, but considering that my cases were full this month, so it was inconvenient, so I said euphemistically: "YL, that's it." I'll put you in touch with a psychologist. I think he should be able to help that friend of yours zyy. "How long will it take to get in touch?" YL asked on the other end of the phone:

"In the past two days, as soon as he came back from a business trip, I will help you contact you, do you think this is okay?" I said casually:

"What? How many more days? Dr. Chiang, that sister of mine is now messing around with some so-called friends every day. I don't think I can afford to delay a day, Dr. Jiang, don't you have time now? Can't you take the time to help my sister now? From that end of the phone, it can be judged that YL is already quite anxious.

I'm thinking about today's week, thinking about the case in front of me, and to be honest, I really can't do it if I want to put this case down and play online games with peace of mind. But considering I've had a full schedule of cases this month. I couldn't take another case anyway, so I said to yl on the other end of the phone, "yl." In this case, you can make an appointment with Zyy, I will have an interview with her today, treat the symptoms first, and wait for the psychologist to come back in two days, and then hand her over. Do you think that's okay? After listening to it, YL on the other end of the phone said excitedly: "Thank you so much, Dr. Jiang." I'm going to make an appointment, and after the appointment, will I call you now? "Well, let's make this call!" I said:

After about a cigarette, my phone rang, it was YL calling, and after connecting, YL on the other end of the phone said excitedly: "Doctor Jiang, is it okay to meet at Tianyu Accord Tea House at one o'clock this afternoon?" "I agreed.

I made an appointment at 1 o'clock and ended up being late. When I went, I found that there were two girls standing at the door of Tianyu Accord, both tall and beautiful, one of the eyeshadow pictures was very heavy, I estimated and judged, the girl with heavier eyeshadow should be zyy, and the one next to him must be yl. Sure enough, the two of them were Zyy and Yl. And as I judged, the eyeshadow is heavy on zyy. The reason for this judgment is that there is no doubt that a sad girl has dark circles and deep eye bags, while a girl who loves beauty must cover up the "troublesome" dark circles and eye bags through heavy eye shadow.

After the three of them were seated, YL began to introduce each other. The real zyy is not the image I remember of being hurt and having instinctive resistance. Very talkative. Through my words, I learned that the deep-seated reason why she broke up with her boyfriend was not because she was deceived in her job search, but because her boyfriend was too poor (strictly speaking, he should not be rich). zyy has her own ideas, which is more realistic, and according to the popular saying, she belongs to the typical material woman. But Zyy's own family background is not very good, his parents divorced when Zyy was very young, and Zyy lives with his father. And his father's cowardice made Zyy grow up in a bullied environment since she was a child. So Zyy has had a strong instinct to seek protection since she was a child.

I habitually pulled out a cigarette and prepared to light it for myself, a cigarette that sometimes helps me think. Unexpectedly, Zyy asked me for a cigarette. Although I was a little stunned, I still handed her a cigarette and lit it, looking at her skillful smoking posture, my heart was a little panicked, so I asked her lightly: "Can you tell me about your experience of being deceived in your job search?"

Zyy looked at me fixedly, took a puff of cigarette "elegantly", and said with a smile: "Yes, that happened a month ago, I met a man in a forum section, his name is CHS, according to his own introduction, he is working as a director in an advertising agency, and he needs a graphic model. I was unemployed at the time, so I had to take advantage of this opportunity. So I recommended myself to CHS. As a result, CHS readily agreed, saying that I am of good quality, and once the contract is successful, the stars will be unlimited in the future. So we left each other's contact information and made another appointment to talk in detail. Within two days, CHS called and asked me to go to his office to talk about the signing. So I went. His office is quite generous. CHS talked to me about the good income of graphic models, saying that now I only need to sign a contract. There is a single location shooting business. After completion, you can get an income of 6,000 yuan. I was very happy to hear that. Because I was in need of a sum of money to buy a new iPhone. When CHS clearly knew my intentions, he put his hands on my shoulders and said that there are unspoken rules in this industry, and I must pay something to help me get to the top. I asked him what he wanted to do. CHS brazenly said: "2 choices, either you pay a 3,000 yuan signing agency fee, or you will accompany me for one night?" I didn't want to say 3,000 at the time, even if I made up 300 yuan, it would be a problem. So I didn't hesitate to choose the latter. Stayed with him for one night. After playing with him, he would say that he signed a contract with me as soon as possible, and asked me to go home and wait for news, but I waited for a week, and there was no news, and the phone to call him was turned off, and then I asked yl to accompany me to the office to find him, and the result was that people went to the empty building, and found that the police were over there, and it was said that the chs was a liar. In the name of recruitment, many people were deceived. ”

I extinguished the cigarette butt. After taking a sip of tea, he said, "Then how did your boyfriend know about this?" Zyy sneered and said: "I deliberately told him, just said that I was deceived, the iPhone was not found, let him buy it for me." How could he have such courage, so he broke up! I was a little surprised by this answer, so I asked, "Then why are you sad?" Zyyz looked at me, then at yl, and then said with a smile: "Mr. Jiang, it may be that yl misled you, I am sad not that I broke up with that man, but that I have not been able to find a man who can give me safety so far." ”

"There's no man who can give you security?" I asked, confused:

"Yes, that's been the way it was from the beginning, I like men hugging me, it feels good like that, but men hug me for one purpose, nothing more than to sleep with me, and since everyone takes what they need, it doesn't matter. Men can only make me feel safe when they hug me. It was a really good feeling. Zyy said expectantly:

I was completely speechless, a girl can sell everything for the so-called sense of security, this lack of security will be so serious, it is the most special and serious case I have encountered since I engaged in psychological work. Generally speaking, the case of insecurity is manifested in the father-mother complex, or the range of friends selected in the process of making friends is concentrated in one age group. But there seems to be very little attachment to a specific behavior (such as hugging, holding hands, etc.), at least I haven't encountered it, so is Zyy suffering from other mental illnesses to some extent? But because my cases are full this month, I don't have any more energy to deal with such cases. Although this case is peculiar and challenging. With pity and regret, I can only record Zyy's psychological manifestations in writing, and then transfer it to the psychologist I recommended, hoping that he can handle the case well. I also hope that the psychologist I recommend can share the process and results of his processing. All I can do now is give Zyy temporary help through some behavioral cues, so I said to Zyy, "I'll give you some advice, can you do what I suggest?" Zyy asked with a puzzled look, "What kind of advice?" ”

"Try not to be alone, and often participate in group activities with your friends. You can make some plans for yourself such as traveling, writing, or karaoke practice, and then follow the plan. Can you do proper fitness and try to fatigue yourself, get deeper sleep, eat more desserts that can increase your sense of well-being, etc.? "I suggested:

Zyy nodded, and said with some hesitation, "I should be able to do it." ”

Then, I privately pulled Yl aside and said to Yl: "Before that psychologist officially takes over this case, you need to spend more time with Zyy and try to help her find a job that you can, can you do this?" Yl nodded affirmatively and said, "Doctor Jiang, I will definitely be able to do it, and I sincerely hope that Zyy will come out of the shadow as soon as possible." ”

……

With a hint of sadness, I left Zyy and Yl. Anyway, I have the same expectations as Yl, and I hope that Zyy can have her own sense of security as soon as possible.

A few tips on feeling safe:

1. The lack of security is usually caused by some kind of misfortune in the family background. The lack of security in the workplace is temporary and can change as the work environment changes.

2. There are two aspects of security: the spiritual level and the material level. The material dimension is the mainstream of the lack of security.

3. Lack of security can often be accompanied by anxiety disorders.

4. There are many manifestations of a lack of security, such as wanting to sit in the same position, liking to wear the same clothes, wanting to sleep with the lights on, and liking physical contact like Zyy, the protagonist of this article. (To be continued.) )