The Syrian poet Adonis once wrote a poem called "My Loneliness Is a Garden"

He fought against power and fashion;

grieved for the suffering of the motherland;

Sigh for not being tolerated by the Motherland. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

Therefore, he used "loneliness" to silently protest against the chaotic society.

Just like the patriotic poet Qu Yuan, "Everyone is drunk, I am sober".

But, I would say that solitude really is a garden.

And not a way of protesting.

Perhaps, many people will voice opposition or even refutation:

There are so many autistic and autistic people in today's society.

You're still advocating loneliness?

Where is the conscience?

But when I say loneliness, I don't mean this obvious pathological loneliness.

It's a norm that almost everyone has.

To say that "loneliness" is just a borrowed technique, in fact, it is a kind of "independence".

For some people with mental disorders, there are often two extremes in social communication.

They are sometimes overly enthusiastic and eager to speak.

Before he fully understands the other person, he is eager to cater to him and compliment him; Even before hearing the words of others, they are in a hurry to express their thoughts.

I am afraid that if I speak slowly, I will be misunderstood as "wooden and introverted" and "not good at words......

At other times, it is unusually quiet and very unresponsive.

They are as uneasy in the face of a little more praise from the outside world as they are in the face of criticism.

It seems that he has lost his independent space, and his emotions are mostly influenced by the outside world.

Therefore, when I say "loneliness", I mean a kind of normal loneliness between "excessive enthusiasm" and "excessive loneliness".

Specifically, it is what I said earlier: when I first met my mother, I was hazy and kept a sense of curiosity and exploration about the outside world.

In short: a sense of intrinsic security.

Only then will he not compromise too much with the outside world and will not be too repulsive.