Chapter 3: The Deadly Cold

When a person has a cold or a slight injury, he just feels unwell and does not affect his mood. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

If the mentality is a little worse, the mood will also be slightly affected and become bad.

However, what is less well known is that for patients with mental illness, when they have a headache, dizziness, vomiting, or injury caused by a cold, they will have a much stronger psychological reaction than ordinary people; It can even be associated with death.

Even shortness of breath after strenuous exercise can be associated with death.

If it were to exercise at the behest of others, he would rather give his life to him than bear this breathing difficulty.

If you understand the previous content in detail, you will easily find the answer - the mind and body are connected.

Almost all mental illnesses can be restored to the state of mind of a person when facing the threat of death.

However, Sigmund Freud once said: "Almost all mental illnesses originate from sexual repression." ”

So are these two views different opinions?

Not really, in fact, they are all the same.

As mentioned earlier, if a person's instinctive ability to resist is unexpectedly hindered by the threat of death (usually the mother and child are threatened), he will compromise with those who violate him; Because at that time, all the psychological energy was mobilized to resist the aggressor, but due to an accident, these energies suddenly changed direction, and part of it changed from unanimous external compromise to integration with the other party, and invisibly became internal.

It's like a flying marble, meeting another sticky marble.

If it hits at a fast speed, it will knock back that marble.

If there is a delay in speed due to accidental obstruction, it will stick to that marble.

Back in real life, if a person compromises with his opponent too early, the point of view that would have been opposed to him will mutately turn into acceptance.

People with mental illness accept the aggressor's views too much and prematurely, cling to each other, and forming self-confrontation.

Therefore, those strange thoughts in the minds of people with mental illness are nothing more than infecting others.

And the cause of infection is the accidental obstruction of instinct.

And instinct is the instinct of sex.

Sex here is not sex in the narrow sense of the word.

It is the "breath and the contraction and expansion of the abdomen and buttocks" mentioned earlier. ”

It's an innate instinctive desire.

It can often be seen in babies.

I can also experience it in my earliest memories.

Because of the obstruction of "breathing", it is impossible to burst out with the mouth to resist the invasion.

So, physical ailments, such as headaches, dizziness caused by colds...... It reminds them of death.

Because, poor "breathing" will lead to a lack of oxygen to the brain, which can lead to dizziness and headaches.

Similarly, headaches and dizziness can in turn affect "breathing".

In other words: psychogenic poor breathing will reduce the body's immunity and make it easy to catch a cold; The breathing problems caused by colds will remind patients of the psychological shadow of the past.

Perhaps there is some uncertainty in this statement.

Well, an example might better describe this mind-body transition.

As mentioned earlier, the breath of mother and child is connected. The reason why people with mental disorders are insecure and extremely anxious; It's because of poor breathing, and I don't listen to my own breathing. Because this feeling is the feeling of being connected by breath in the arms of my mother when I was a child; It is also the most primitive sense of security.

Therefore, when the mother is not breathing well, it may affect some people with psychological disorders whose instincts have been accidentally suppressed.

For example, Boy S in the example used to be a very healthy person.

However, whenever he saw his mother's painful expression when she had a headache and dizziness, he wanted to bear this pain for him.

Of course, this is also common in ordinary people.

It's just a different degree.

The boy's desire to bear was so strong that he even felt that it was a sin for his mother to be so miserable and to be so healthy.

Therefore, he will have an inexplicable headache and dizziness in the future, all because of this mother-child connected breathing effect.

And when he and his mother faced the threat of death in the outside world, his mother also had this painful expression.

This series of pulling effects led to his heart-to-body symptoms.

Therefore, some patients with mental illness have basically recovered.

Once he has a slightly more serious physical illness that reminds him of death, he may feel that all mental health is meaningless.

It seems that mental health has strict conditions, and it must be premised on physical health.

Otherwise there is no point at all.

In fact, he has not yet fully recovered to his healthiest state, reaching the unity of body and mind.

The healthiest mind will not have such strict conditions.

Tracing back to this step, the person with mental illness should understand that his next step is to recall how he coped with physical illness in his distant childhood.

It's a tough job.

Look for another similar example.

When a boy was a child, he was out playing with his older siblings and was hit by a car.

If he were placed now, when he was hit by a not too serious impact, he would have exaggerated the feeling that the world was spinning, and he would fall to the ground and never want to get up again, as if he had completely lost the ability to recover his actions and thoughts.

Similar to a phenomenon of "suspended animation".

At the time, he just felt hazy, not particularly exaggeratedly painful.

Because his energy was focused on his mother at that time, he was hazy to the outside world.

And in a later accident, his instincts are suppressed, his connection to his mother is weakened, and the connection with the outside world is strengthened.

If it was in a crowded situation, he could clearly feel the exaggerated voice of the outside world when he was hurt.

And absorbed this evaluation, resulting in an unusually clear and intense feeling of his external calamities and suffering.

When the pain befalls him, he is much more exaggerated than before.

He should also recall the happy self that used to be alive in front of his mother.

At that time, he did not bring out his mother's pain because of his happiness and health.

Instead, it brought joy to the mother.

I will not subconsciously overthink the physical pain of my mother.

And make yourself imitate this physiological pain, which leads to inexplicable headaches and dizziness.

Ladies and gentlemen, this is a description of the connection between headaches and dizziness caused by colds and psychological symptoms.

It seems to be a common cold, but there is a certain psychological factor.

Psychoanalysis should not only eliminate the patient's psychological suffering, but also eliminate the patient's physical symptoms caused by psychological disorders, or a kind of excessive physical restraint.

It makes their body and mind feel relaxed for a long time.

Achieve harmony and balance with the surrounding environment. (To be continued.) )