People are often afraid of some stern people. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

From the previous analysis, it can be seen that the prototype of this fear is the fear of patriarchal authority.

Again, it's a question of degree.

If the level of fear is too high, it will be easy for people to compromise and submit to the majesty of the outside world.

For example, a stern teacher loudly announces in class:

1. You are not allowed to answer questions in class

2. It is not allowed to fail the exam

3. You are not allowed to go to the toilet at will in class

4. Chat is not allowed during class

5. No lateness

These are some of the most common school rules.

However, students have different attitudes towards these rules.

Some well-behaved students will rack their brains to follow these rules:

How do you answer the teacher's questions during class?

Write down what the teacher said word for word?

Write the answers on the desk beforehand?

Find out the teacher's temper and rules, and guess what questions he likes to ask? Which classmates' names do you love? What are the locations of the classmates?

Learn to read words and colors, and guess whose name the teacher wants from every look and tone......

In short, these good students will think very well about the details of things.

The purpose is just to answer the teacher's questions.

Don't underestimate these campus life that seems to be far away.

Many people with mental illness initially develop obsessive-compulsive or depressed disorders when they are studying.

Just as he struggles to think about how to deal with the teacher's questions, he will also compulsively think about a small thing in his later life.

For example, at work, the boss or leader promulgates some systems:

1. It is strictly forbidden to answer the phone at work!

2. It is not allowed to ask for leave at will during important work! Otherwise, the absence of one person will cause the entire workflow to crash.

Third, we must ensure the accuracy of the work! Be careful! You can't go wrong! Failure to do so may result in a loss of XX million.

Fourth, it must be strictly reviewed, and there can be no mistakes and omissions! Failure to do so will result in ...... Consequence.

Once you are caught in these problems, you should think about how to deal with them.

He forgets a kind of leaping thinking that may have belonged to him: why do you have to answer the teacher's question? Why is it necessary to follow these regimes in full?

and become extremely cautious, walking on thin ice.

But the more cautious you are, the easier it is to make mistakes.

It is true that these systems are a prerequisite for ensuring the normal operation of students and work.

However, what I want to say is that these strict words "strictly forbidden" and "not allowed" are just an unconscious "emotional catharsis".

Even if you are now seeing me with a condemnatory attitude when I seem to promote unruly remarks.

I still have to say, "This is just your unconscious emotional catharsis." ”

In practice, this is not the case.

Why?

It's like someone said, "The earth is round."

But some people prefer to say, "The earth is not round."

Because this kind of common sense is too common, people often don't need things that are too common sense, and like to create something new.

Sigmund Freud said, "The repressed is often satisfied."

This means that people tend to forget about something unquestionable or unconditional. And continue to pursue the unknown.

That's why people can't remember those carefree days of their childhood when they can't remember it, because they are successfully suppressed by complete contentment. (Successful repression is completely different from the concept of repression, and true forgetting is not the same as forgetting, and forgetting in general will take another form)

And for those conditional pleasures, they will still remember it vividly.

If you deliberately emphasize the unquestionable and unconditional fact that "the earth is round".

On the contrary, people can't find words that match them in their memory, so they say unintentional words that are contrary to them.

In the same way, the harsh words spoken by people are just an emotional catharsis akin to saying that "the earth is not round".

The subconscious mind has the opposite attitude - they accept the common sense of the rational existence of imperfections and errors.

Unfortunately, people with pathological perfectionist personalities, absorbing this unintentional "emotional catharsis", become extremely harsh on themselves.

In daily life, people may also encounter similar situations:

Filming those tragic car crash scenes, like the "harsh words" above, is a stern warning to people not to break the rules, otherwise the results will be painful.

But, similar to the saying that "the repressed are often satisfied", Freud also said, "Man either does not believe in death, or subconsciously thinks that he is not dead." ”

People often think of "death" as a joke, but in fact, the subconscious does not believe that they will die at all.

This is a very normal human psyche.

Otherwise, a picture of a catastrophe is enough to make a person dare not go out.

If it weren't for this subconscious instinctive belief.

On the battlefield, the warriors simply could not be so brave.

Because of this, society does not rely solely on strict oral or written systems to restrict people's behavior.

It is also because of the loss of this normal subconscious instinct that some vicious criminals always fantasize that people will use this as a warning because of one of his serious acts of violence to satisfy the rules or obsessions they have identified in their hearts.

Of course, if this subconscious belief in immortality is too strong, it is also an abnormal state and stupidity.

As for what is too strong?

It is normal to have an undying belief when fighting back against someone else's attack;

The belief that you don't die when you take the initiative to hurt others is abnormal.