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He ran nervously, finally escaping his pursuit......

The feeling after escaping is not only a simple relief, but also a secret joy.

You may think that the description of this dream is so simple and unbelievably simple.

In a few words, he was done.

It's not just this dream, but many of the previous dreams are described in a few words.

There is no such thing as some dream interpretation material, which is abundant.

However, as I said earlier, it is only about pursuing the feelings in the dream, and leaving aside the tedious analysis.

Because the content of the analysis has already been elaborated in the first volume.

So just find memories from dreams that match the analysis.

What's more, psychology is different from other entertainment literature.

There isn't that much saliva to describe a thing at all.

Basically, it is an objective description without much emotion and subjective comments.

Especially after the analysis is done, all that remains is some conclusive language.

It is no exaggeration to say: even if all the psychological conclusions are added together, there will be no more than one chapter.

But why go to the trouble of elaborating on these conclusions?

There are two reasons for this.

First, the problem of positioning.

If it starts with a psychology book that is positioned, not a thesis. Then the description must be extremely detailed.

There is often a confusion that many psychology books can be as rich as novels.

In the eyes of the average person, the argument of this book may be clear in a few words.

However, for people with mental illness, rich descriptions are necessary.

Because their psychological structure has become very complex, many concepts that originally belonged to the subconscious have all poured into the consciousness.

So that some self-evident truths for ordinary people can also be described as a tirade.

The doctrine of general, superficial consciousness is no longer of much use to them.

But for a psychologist.

There is a contradiction that is difficult to reconcile.

On the one hand, like ordinary people, they treat some ideas or wishes that are buried in the subconscious and self-evident.

There's not much to say.

However, as their job responsibilities, they have to present all the concepts that originally belonged to the subconscious and do not need to be explained, which gave some psychological obstacles; Or ordinary people with bad mentality, bad mood, and unstable look; in the form of logic for them to understand; Clear their minds and then return to the subconscious.

Just like a doctor or biologist who is not infected with the virus, but has to come into contact with it.

This requires a psychologist to have a high degree of concentration and the ability to retract and release freely.

Psychologists can't make their readers happy in the same way that they write entertainment literature, with language that is always tickling the shoe.

Then this happiness is short-lived, and does nothing to the reader's own ability to create happiness.

You can only seek some external stimuli to sustain your happiness.

However, it is often this kind of shoe-tickling language that is the most relaxed.

However, it is also useless to show only the ugliness and pain in the depths of the human heart. Because this is only a catharsis, and it has no effect of transforming pain into happiness.

Therefore, psychologists must maintain their own normal happiness while interpreting the pain of others.

But you can't take the discovery of other people's suffering as a kind of "schadenfreude" morbid pleasure.

Otherwise, it is tantamount to "self-immolation".

Because of the love of other people's "disasters" at the moment.

The essence is the cultivation of "disasters".

When the "disaster" befalls you later, it will be extraordinary suffering.

This was described in the previous issue of "Phobia of Aids".

The above is just some "indiscriminate" saliva that contains some value.

Now, back to the topic.

This dream of catching up is actually a way to evoke his memory.

Because, in real life, he did have this experience of being tracked and then evading tracking.

That was when he was studying, because the school system was too strict and students were forbidden to go out.

So, on the only Sunday when he had a half-day off, he would show up in the off-campus arcade as usual.

However, the teacher at that time would always walk through the arcades in the streets and alleys to see if any students were playing games during this half-day break.

If caught, it will be the consequence of summoning the parents.

If he is not caught, he will be very happy and proud, and will take pleasure in it.

This is actually a very typical kind of "regressive satisfaction".

Just like I said before, the S man takes the reader as pain and the holiday as happiness.

And to get the happiness of the holiday, the premise is to accept the pain of reading.

But he forgot about the normal happiness that he had initially resisted when he was studying.

The "resistance" mentioned here cannot be simply understood as "not reading".

Rather, it is a normal level of resistance to "reading".

I will not compromise to the point of taking "reading" as the whole of life.

This compromise is perhaps shared by most ordinary people.

It's like a person who always longs to be recognized and praised, and if he doesn't get it, he will be very low.

Or at work, craving to be appreciated.

There is a desire for parental harmony in the family.

There is nothing wrong with that.

But if the dependence is too high, the happiness of autonomy will be lost.

This dependence is also the most difficult obstacle for people with mental disorders to overcome.

Even if they do their best and analyze it layer by layer, some people still indulge in this dependence.

And I can't find the original happiness of being in harmony with my parents' body and mind.

Over-dependence is actually a form of separation from one's parents.

Because they didn't plant their parents' love in their hearts.

In other words, not having one's body and mind as a parent.

and over-reliance on formal emotional harmony.

That's what this "chasing dreams" means above.

But, as mentioned earlier, dreams are dynamically balanced.

With this "chasing dream", there may be a dream opposite to it.

This "dynamic equilibrium" can also be understood as the self-healing function of the psychological mechanism.

This kind of dream, which is the opposite of "chasing dreams", I believe most people should have done it.

It is a dream that can be called a "imprisoned dream".

In the dream, the dreamer is in a very dangerous environment and wants to escape from this environment.

However, the more he tried to escape, the more his body was imprisoned, as if he had been poured with lead, and he could not lift his legs.

If it is only from the surface analysis.

It is not at all compatible with "dreams are the fulfillment of wishes".

Because since you want to escape, it is the dreamer's desire to escape, but why can't you escape?

Only when combined with "chasing dreams" will he understand: imprisoning dreams is only regaining his instinctive courage and self-confidence - there is no need to flee at all, he will definitely be able to overcome those dangers!

Back in reality, he will not rely on "regressive satisfaction" and pursue his otherwise normal happiness. (To be continued.) )