Chapter 70: What is Marriage?
The school was still open in the sixteenth year, Xu Herer ran back to Shanghai in the fourteenth year, let go of the heavy stone in her heart, she felt relaxed all over her body, and saw that Chen Xukun was no longer so burdened, and smiled very brightly. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Chen Xukun was a little surprised when he saw her new hairstyle: "Why did you cut your hair short?" ”
"I'm still not used to having that long hair, but now it's good, easy to manage, and it looks younger!" ”
Chen Xukun touched the tips of her hair, a little dissatisfied: "You look small enough, and now you look more like a minor." ”
Xu Herr spun around with a grin: "It's more than enough to pretend to be a freshman!" ”
Chen Xukun's smile was full of tenderness: "I feel that you have suddenly become a lot more lively, did you encounter something good during the winter vacation?" ”
Xu Herer touched his face: "It's not a good thing, but it's just relieved." I cut my hair, my head was much lighter, and many things were much lighter. ”
Chen Xukun put his arm around her shoulders and said as he walked, "Then in order to celebrate your relief, how about inviting you to dinner?" ”
Xu Heer shook his head: "I'll invite you to eat, although it's not a high-end restaurant, but I've been to Yang Fan, and the taste and hygiene are pretty good." ”
Chen Xukun did not object: "Listen to you." ”
The two had a full meal at the food stall near the school, Xu Herer had been in a good mood because he had put down the big things in his heart, and he didn't notice any change in Chen Xukun's attitude towards her, but being able to get along with Chen Xukun so comfortably made her feel very comfortable and cherished very much.
But the frequent correspondence between the two still attracted Cheng Qinglian's attention and gossip, she noticed that every time Chen Xukun called, Xu Heer had a smile on his face, just like the wind in this spring, more and more warm and soft, and even with a hint of shyness and ambiguity, she was sure that this girl unconsciously opened her heart to Chen Xukun, and Chen Xukun stepped into at least one foot. But this is a good thing in her opinion, Chen Xukun is indeed a good love partner.
As for Cheng Qingpian herself, after she stinked Tang Jishen's reputation, her reputation was also in jeopardy, although she had a certain relationship with Tang Jishen, a rotten person, but the most important thing was that she turned into Zhou Junzhen's rumored girlfriend! It's all because she drank too much that night, and was picked up by Zhou Jun, but she was seen by others, in short, it became like this.
Tang Jishen didn't come to her, and apologized and hoped that she would delete the posts on the forum, but Cheng Qinglian didn't accept either, and even threatened him in turn that if she harassed her again, she would expose more insiders, and she wouldn't mind stabbing her a few more times if she tore her face anyway.
Cheng Qinglian has now become a famous eldest sister in their college, the boys retreat, the girls stay away, and no one easily offends her. Xu Herer saw that his friend was forced to be raised to this point, and felt a little sorry for her, it was obviously Tang Jishen's fault, Cheng Qinglian just fought back, and now it is rumored to be like this!
Cheng Qinglian doesn't care, she had predicted the current situation before she was ready to fight back, not to mention that they only had half a year to study, and they were interning everywhere in their senior year to find a job, who cares about this. After Yang Fan heard about this, he admired Cheng Qinglian's bloodiness very much.
After April, the grass grew and the warbler flew, Xu Hel and Chen Xukun got along more and more harmoniously, but Xu Hel didn't expect her mother to return to Shanghai again, back to the Chen family's old house!
After receiving a call from her mother, she ran all the way out of the school gate, and regardless of the high price of taxis in Shanghai, she stretched out her hand to hail a car and went straight to the Chen family's old house.
Meng Fangtian was a little surprised to see her daughter come over so suddenly, but she was more happy, she always felt that her daughter had been very cold in the past two or three months.
Xu Hel stared at his mother and asked, "Why did you come back?" ”
Huang's mother on the side heard that Xu Heer's voice was wrong, so she left to leave their mother and daughter to talk.
Meng Fangtian frowned slightly, but still explained kindly: "Hongmei got started quickly, and your grandmother also said, while I can still do it, let me save more money for the elderly, she can help your sister-in-law take care of the child." Actually, it's right to think about it, I'm not even 50 years old, I can't let your brother raise him so early, he will have to bear two children in the future, and the responsibility is quite heavy, so it's good to relieve him of a little pressure, not to mention that I don't like to reach out to him for money. ”
Xu Her's brows tightened, she didn't believe that this was the reason why she came back: "Is it really because of this?" This Shanghai is so unbearable for you? Do you have to come back? ”
Meng Fangtian was stunned by her question, and asked with concern, "What's wrong with you?" Suddenly such a big temper? ”
Xu Hel smiled distorted and painfully: "Shouldn't I lose my temper?" I ......"
"Mother Meng is back!" Just when Xu Heer wanted to confess to Meng Fangtian, Chen Xukun came back, deeply made her swallow her words, turned her face sideways and quietly wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes.
When Meng Fangtian saw Chen Xukun, he smiled softly: "I'm back this morning, Ah Kun got off work so early today!" ”
Chen Xukun stood beside Xu Heer and said, "There is nothing wrong with the company, so I will leave first." I'm going to a friend's engagement party and come back to change clothes! As he spoke, he turned his gaze to Xu Hel and asked, "Since Hull is here, do you want to accompany me?" ”
Xu Her lowered his head slightly: "I still have classes in the evening, I'll go first!" With that, he turned and ran out the door, his movements light and swift.
Chen Xukun looked at her back and couldn't help but feel a little strange: "Hull doesn't seem to be in a good mood today!" What happened to her? ”
Meng Fangtian's expression flickered, as if he had thought of something, but he still shook his head: "Maybe there is something unpleasant about the school!" ”
Chen Xukun didn't think about it, hurriedly went upstairs to change his clothes, and went out again.
After Xu Herer ran out of Chen's house, she walked to school while crying, she really didn't know what to do, as long as her mother was in Chen's house for a day, she was uneasy, she could be found by her that night, and she would also be seen by others, is it really more important than morality and responsibility?
The sky is gradually dark, the lights are on, the city is not lacking in liveliness, Xu Hel sat on the garden bench, not far away a group of energetic old men and old ladies dancing a cheerful square dance, the sound was very loud, but she couldn't hear it at all, the whole person seemed to fall into another world.
I don't know how long it took, the square dance Divine Comedy finally stopped, and the surroundings began to become quiet, Xu Hel rubbed his crying red eyes, got up and walked out of the park. She asked for a fried bun and duck blood vermicelli soup at a nearby fried bun shop, and the heat of the soup stained her eyes and made her almost cry again.
After eating for a while, there was a person sitting across the table, wearing a white suit that was very dazzling. Xu Heer glanced up, her red eyes were round, she didn't expect to meet him here.
Zhou Jun asked for the same food as Xu Her, and then looked at her with a smile: "What a coincidence of a junior girl!" It's so far away from school, and you still come here to eat raw fried food? With such red eyes, bullied? Ever cried? Who bullied it? Ah Kun? ”
Xu Herr silently rolled his eyes: "Senior, you talk too much!" ”
Zhou Jun crossed Erlang's legs and looked at her with a smile: "Tsk, your temper is so big!" Not going back to school so late? ”
Xu Heer drank the last mouthful of soup in the bowl, got up expressionlessly and said, "I'll go back now!" ”
Zhou Jun grabbed her in time: "The junior sister is really rude, I'm your senior brother anyway, I care about you and ask you a few more words, why are you so impatient!" ”
Xu Herer bit her lip and lowered her head and didn't speak, which made Zhou Junyi suddenly feel that she was a little pitiful, maybe something had happened, otherwise this girl would not be so rude.
Zhou Jun pressed her back to her seat and sighed: "I'm not in a good mood today, so accompany me!" ”
Xu Heer raised his head and looked at him, a little puzzled, it stands to reason that he should be studying in Hong Kong now, and it is indeed a little strange that he suddenly ran back without a festival.
Zhou Jun smiled: "Looking at my dress today, you should have guessed what activity I was going to participate in!" Ah Kun was also there, and we attended Xue Yan's engagement together! ”
Xu Heer was surprised, Yang Xueyan was only a junior like herself, and she was engaged so soon? No, this is not the point, the point is that she remembers that Yang Xueyan likes Chen Xukun, how could she get engaged to someone else?
Zhou Junyi continued: "She is engaged to be Xie Chengzhao, the CEO of Orange Tang, a man in his thirties! ”
Xu Heer blinked, a little unable to react, how did Yang Xueyan and Xie Chengzhao get in touch? A childish college student and a decisive social elite, isn't the difference too big!
Seeing her expression, Zhou Jun couldn't help but smile: "Xie Chengzhao used to be Xue Yan's tutor, when he started his business, the Yang family gave a lot of support and funds, and it can be said that his current success is inseparable from the Yang family." Xue Yan's grandfather admired him very much, so he married his only granddaughter to him, which can be regarded as a business marriage to a certain extent! ”
Xu Herr felt a little strange: "Didn't Yang Xueyan resist?" Xie Chengzhao is so much older than her, and she shouldn't like him either! ”
Zhou Jun shook his head gloomily: "Xue Yan really didn't like him when he was a child, but now Xie Chengzhao is very different from him at that time, and Xue Yan's heart is inevitable." I heard that he gave a lecture at the Faculty of Arts at the end of last year, and you didn't feel at all when you saw him? ”
Xu Herer carefully recalled the scene at that time, and was a little embarrassed: "At that time, I was temporarily helping by his side, which was really attractive, but what was more obvious was that he was very different from us, and he didn't feel like us girls who were not very mature at all." Yang Xueyan ...... Well, although he always behaves generously, he is similar to us on the inside! ”
Zhou Jun shook his head: "Seeming and liking are two different concepts, Xie Chengzhao is willing to marry Xue Yan, not only because he is grateful to the Yang family for helping him at the beginning, but also because Xue Yan's overall image is very suitable for him as a businessman's wife!" ”
Xu Heer felt a little weird: "Then Yang Xueyan is not very pitiful?" ”
Zhou Jun smiled: "I know how cold and warm I am!" Although she is not mature enough, she will naturally think of anything you can think of, and even think more, so since she accepted this marriage, she naturally accepted all the reality! ”
Xu Heer nodded: "So senior brother, you said that you are not happy, because you feel sorry for Yang Xueyan?" ”
Zhou Jun was a little stunned: "Maybe!" Then he looked at her again and asked, "What about you?" What happened to you? ”
The topic suddenly turned to herself, which made her a little at a loss, so she just asked: "What does senior brother think about marital cheating?" ”
This time it was Zhou Jun's turn to be surprised, he didn't expect the question of the elementary school girl to be so exciting, and he couldn't help but say cautiously: "There are two definitions of cheating, one is mental derailment, and the other is physical derailment. There is also a subspecies that is both mental and physical cheating, if it is double cheating, then it is possible to divorce, and then the cheating parties get married, so that it is better for both the cheating party and the cheating party. Of course, there will be such a thing as mental derailment, both husband and wife will have it, as long as they can sober up in time and not indulge in it, they should be able to continue to maintain their marriage, as for whether they are happy or not, it depends on how both parties operate. Many girls hate physical derailment even more, because mental derailment is more difficult to identify, but physical derailment can bite to death as long as the evidence is caught, but in fact, the hidden dangers brought by mental derailment are greater and more terrible than physical derailment. ”
Xu Herer had some questions: "If it is a double derailment, isn't it double harm to the derailed party?" ”
Zhou Junqi smiled faintly: "You are right, but on the other hand, such a double injury is easier for the cheating party to die for their marriage, and then completely leave the cheating party to avoid being hurt again and again in the future!" Many studies have proved that there are two things like cheating, and if you succeed once, you will want to do it a second time. ”
Xu Heer nodded thoughtfully, but was still puzzled: "But I don't understand why I cheat!" If you don't like the person you marry, don't get married, and if you get married and live a good life, can't people settle down? ”
Zhou Jun smiled: "You're right, people really can't be separated!" It's like the wind, if the wind settles up, it becomes biogas! People are impulsive creatures, keen on adventure and challenge, some people cheating may not be dissatisfied with marriage, just purely looking for excitement, if people really have no impulse, this society will not change so much. ”
Xu Her sighed: "Human nature is really complicated! ”
Zhou Jun nodded: "Any creature is complicated, but what we know the most is ourselves." So are you crying because of who cheated? As far as I know, you don't need to get married yet! ”
Xu Herr smiled reluctantly: "No one, just a little curious about cheating!" ”
Zhou Junqi didn't ask, only comforted her: "Marriage, it's very complicated!" Cheating is one sign that something is wrong in your marriage, but it's not the only one. None of us are married, we don't know anything about it, and all we see or understand is someone else's marriage. ”
Xu Hel asked: "Will the senior really want to get married?" There are so many complex and uncertain factors that affect marriage! ”
Zhou Jun smiled: "I don't plan to get married very early, but it is still necessary to get married, otherwise it will be quite boring." You shouldn't be scared by cheating and then don't plan to get married, right? ”
Xu Hel replied blankly: "I don't know! ”
Zhou Jun sat down beside her and took her into his arms: "Before you have experienced it yourself, don't close the coffin and make a conclusion, the good and the bad are the same." If you feel sad, cry and start again! ”
Xu Her buried her head in his chest, she couldn't help crying, she was already much calmer, she didn't like to cry since she was a child, but paradoxically, she had a lot of tears, making many people mistakenly think she was a crybaby.
Zhou Jun hugged her and pressed his chin against the top of her hair, his heart was like a crack, knowing that he and Yang Xueyan were already impossible, but he really died today, and the person he had been chasing for so many years finally belonged to him. He and Xu Herer can be regarded as warming each other!