The peppercorns and wheat both looked up at the cloves that jumped three feet high with a look of astonishment. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Before Wheat's voice fell, the words he wanted to say were choked in his throat, and he was beaten back by Lilac's sudden punch.

swallowed his saliva, but without the slightest displeasure, his eyes locked on the clove with his own assertions.

Unexpectedly, his every move not only fell into the eyes of the clever ghost peppercorn, but also was taken to heart by Lilac.

What he didn't expect was that he had just made a start, and Lilac's reaction was so big.

He's pretty ...... Delighted.

Sichuan pepper was also caught off guard by Lilac's reaction, but what made her even more shocked was Wheat's calmness.

Pepper didn't know what had happened to him in just one night. There is also the helplessness of a person who has fallen into the water behind the scripture of "worrying about the sky" in his opinion.

But Lilac didn't care about the mixed tastes of the two who were about to be petrified.

She also has a belly to say.

It's also the usual habit of reprimanding the fourth cousin and the fifth cousin, and his fingers are about to poke into the forehead of the wheat.

Hating iron, he jumped to his feet and said, "What do you want to get rid of?" Shinong, industry and commerce have to compete for priority, let alone others. I have heard that once you are a slave, you cannot have a certain amount of land, you cannot intermarry, you cannot study, you have no freedom, you are equal to wealth, and you are tied to your master. I don't believe that these people who are dependent on others are willing to be slaves and slaves, and there is no one who does not want to get out of Sochi, does not want to live the life of ordinary people, and does not want to live a better life, how can this be considered ungrateful! ”

also said: "One yard is one yard, Uncle Fang saved your life, and Grandma's family treats you as their own." This is 'kindness', not just 'affection', really speaking, do you think you have reciprocated it in this life? Don't you need to make grass rings in the next life? Since you can't pay it off at all, then don't think about what you don't have. Just remember to be filial to your grandmother and uncle as your own parents, and take care of your cousin and cousin Fang as your own brothers and sisters. Be worthy of yourself, even if you haven't lived in vain in this life! ”

Huajiao stared at the clove who didn't even hit it, regardless of whether she was right or not, whether the argument stood up or not, but such a loud word fell down, and it was already made that the hairs on the pepper were about to explode.

I didn't come back to my senses for a long time.

Wheat was also stunned for a moment, but looking at Lilac, who was panting with round eyes, he soon laughed, nodded heavily at her, and said, "What you said is very true, I have been taught." ”

Lilac was stunned for a moment, and then she realized what she had said, and suddenly she was a little cowardly.

Seeing that Mai was sincerely thanking him, Fang took a long breath in his heart, but there was no leakage on his face. He also waved his hand, pretending to be disapproving: "It's good that you know!" ”

But in the end, it was a little awkward, so he changed the topic and asked Wheat: "By the way, you haven't said it yet, how did the third uncle scold you?" ”

The peppercorns that slowly came back to their senses looked at the cloves that were quite colorful, and then listened to the word "scolding", and couldn't help laughing.

Wheat also smiled: "That's what Mr. said too." ”

It's really nice to be able to laugh.

He has already had a period of light, and even laughing, the smile can't reach the bottom of his eyes.

The four words of ingratitude used to follow him like a shadow, so that he not only couldn't raise his head, but also almost couldn't breathe.

He didn't know that the ghost in his heart would not be able to be shut down and run out to eat people.

Tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow......

Frightened, he found Qin Lianbao and told him.

He had turned bad, he had failed his teachings, he had betrayed Fang Liang's saving grace, and he had become an ungrateful and despicable villain whom he was deeply ashamed......

But Qin Lianbao told him very solemnly after listening carefully to his desperate story.

He wants to get rid of his nationality and regain his freedom, which is a normal thing, and there is absolutely nothing to blame.

Moreover, leaving the country does not mean betrayal, or infidelity, or unrighteousness.

So he definitely didn't get bad, and not only did he not get bad, but he grew into a good boy who made him feel gratified.

Wheat doesn't understand.

How could there not be?

The sage has a saying: Look up to the sky, bow down to people.

But he only thinks of himself, has a bad heart, has a guilty conscience, and is sorry for heaven and earth, and sorry for himself.

But Qin Lianbao's answer was that he had a heart of shame and shame.

Ashamed and ashamed?

The wheat seems to understand, but it doesn't seem to understand anything.

Qin Lianbao told him: "There are thousands of virtues in the world, such as politeness, loyalty, generosity, compassion, modesty, enterprising, gratitude, and cherishing blessings...... These are all virtues. But many people may not realize that shame is also a virtue. In life, you will feel ashamed of your words and deeds, feel uneasy, feel sorry for others, and feel guilty. Whether you are sorry for your wife and children, parents, or your relatives and friends, you can have such a sense of shame, the so-called 'shameful clothes, supreme solemnity', this is the supreme virtue. It is the push of 'do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself', and it is the examination and face of 'I do not want to do to others what I do not want to do to others', and it is the examination and ......face of 'I do not want to do to others three times a day'"

He also said: "So in my opinion, not only are you not an ungrateful traitor, but you are also a good boy who knows how to repay your kindness!" ”

This emotion, Qin Lianbao is from the heart.

Again, some things, for adults like them who have the ability to judge right and wrong, may be just a small matter, but for children, especially at the age of wheat, saying that he doesn't understand, but he also understands what he should understand, and he can say that he understands, but for ignorant children, it may be a big thing.

It also made him realize that the cultivation of children is really a big issue.

Maybe there really are no "bad" children, only "bad" parents.

Wheat was worried, was he really still a good boy?

But the sage also said: The gentleman is frank, and the villain is a relative.

He calculates, suffers from gains and losses, restlessness, and unsteady, how can he be considered a good person!

Qin Lianbao asked him again, who is the gentleman and who is the villain?

The beauty of a gentleman as an adult, the evil of an adult, and the villain as the opposite.

This is also the words of the saints.

That is to say, the beauty of adults is a gentleman, and the evil of adults, that is, the one who harms others and is not good for oneself is a villain.

But has he done anything harmful to others and to himself?

Not only did it not harm others or oneself, but it also took precautions......

In fact, now that I think about it, every word of Qin Lianbao's words is thought-provoking, but what really made the big stone in his heart disappear, and suddenly it became transparent from head to toe, it was still like this: "Not only do you have to get out of the country, but I also hope that your housekeeper and his family can get out of the country and be a good ......."

relayed Qin Lianbao's words to Huajiao to listen to Lilac, and said to their sisters very sincerely: "I used to study and read left, and I always thought I was smart and self-righteous, but now I know that I am just studying fakely, but I don't know why it is." ”

Ding Xiang nodded deeply when she heard this, and said, "It's not too late for Brother Wheat to figure it out now, just change it quickly." ”

Huajiao didn't speak, but the little thought in his heart couldn't help but pop up again.

The more I thought about it, the more itchy I became, and I puffed out my cheeks, and sighed: "The world of my brothers and sisters is so complicated!" Why don't we play a game! ”

The cloves and wheat were stunned, and after looking at each other, they couldn't help crying and laughing.

Lilac bent down and pinched the bulging cheeks of the pepper: "Clever ghost, what a crooked idea you are thinking about!" ”

Wheat immediately said: "What do you want to play?" Brother Mai will play with you, okay? ”

Hua Jiao smiled hesitantly: "Okay, let's have a debate match, okay?" ”

Debate? Also playing?

Wheat thoughtfully.

"Is it a game?" Curious baby Lilac was already curious, and then said, "Is it a competition debate?" Than eloquence? ”

couldn't help but smile and said, "Do you still need to compare?" Who can compare to me! ”

Hua Jiao laughed: "It's hard to say!" ”

I couldn't help but make a grimace at her.

"Oops!" Lilac rubbed her hands: "If you don't believe it, then let's try it." He also asked the pepper: "You say, how can it be compared!" ”

Hua Jiao told her the simple rules in a few words: "Since it is a debate, there must naturally be two sides, then the positive and the negative, and then each side should have two or three people......

Lilac agreed: "Two or three people are indeed the best. After all, if you say one person, it is a two-way discussion, not a debate. But there are so many people that it can't be said to be a quarrel again. ”

The more I thought about it, the more I felt good, slapped my face, and said happily: Then do it, find a few more people, and let's start the game. ”

The first stop is to find fennel and fragrant leaves.

Ding Xiang told them the rules, and Xiangye naturally said well, and hugged the pepper and said: "Then I want to be with the pepper, we are a group." ”

Lilac laughed twice: "That's good, don't cry when you lose." ”

Fennel couldn't stop crying and laughing, and shook her head at them and said, "How come you don't get tired and panic when you chirp like little magpies all day long?" I talked too much carefully, and I wasted all my energy. ”

"How so!" Lilac waved her hand anxiously and said, "How can it be bothering to speak!" Besides, we are not just talking, we are debating, in order to distinguish between right and wrong, distinguish between truth and falsehood, and investigate facts, which is completely different. ”

I went to see the peppercorns again.

Sichuan pepper didn't expect the cloves to enter the state, which has already been argued.

As a second debater, he naturally couldn't drop the chain, and hurriedly added: "That's it, sister, debate is to activate the mind, enlighten the mind, and distinguish between right and wrong, but it is the same as Shuanglu Huarong Nine Chains, which are all games that are beneficial to intelligence." ”

Fennel laughed, teasing pepper and said, "It's also intellectual!" Is it clever words? A sage can say: A gentleman is sensitive to things and cautious in words. ”

"Of course not!" As soon as the fennel said this, the peppercorns didn't do anything, and the cloves exploded.

He also said: "Lao Tzu is against clever words and wisdom, but he only opposes empty words, but he does not advocate that people don't need to speak." Otherwise, why did Lao Tzu leave a 5,000-word "Tao Te Ching"? Why did Confucius travel around the world? ”

As soon as Lilac's voice fell, the wheat also jumped out, but he said: "But it's like Zhuang Zhou Mengdie, let's debate, even if you win me, or I win you, you and I must be right?" Maybe it's all right, or it's all wrong, and who's going to judge right from wrong? How can the judgment be convincing? Isn't it always clear what is right and wrong? ”

Lilac didn't expect that when their little sisters talked to each other, Wheat, who had never expressed much opinion, would suddenly jump out.

She didn't expect that after this banquet could go around to her grandmother's house, she realized that Wheat was actually standing opposite her, and she was in the same group as Fennel, and her eyes couldn't help but stare like copper bells.

Hua Jiao has already said: "But the Mohists also said, 'The husband and the debater will distinguish between right and wrong, judge the discipline of chaos, clarify the similarities and differences, investigate the truth of the name, deal with the interests and disadvantages, decide the suspicion, copy the nature of all things, and discuss the ratio of the group'." It can be seen from this that the Mohists regard debate as a process of clarifying right and wrong and distinguishing between facts, and that it is both a tool and a means. What's more, Confucianism, Law, Taoism, and Mo, when they write books and lectures, and debate with each other, aren't they also debating with different schools of thought? ”

As he spoke, he winked at his brothers and sisters: "Just like we are now!" ”

Debate is a way for their brothers and sisters to communicate and understand each other on a whim.

What the effect will be, although the pepper is not accurate, can be debated itself, one can be used to distinguish between right and wrong, two can be used to exchange ideas, learn from each other's strengths, as for the third point, it can also be used to train the logic and response ability of thinking.

At present, it is, as she just said, a beneficial intellectual activity.

As long as the choice of the debate topic can arouse everyone's attention and resonance, they can engage in ideological confrontation again and again, like a fire knife colliding like a flint to produce sparks, to achieve mutual understanding, understanding and trust, which may also be a means of interpersonal communication.

Hua Jiao looked at his brothers and sisters with crooked eyebrows, and Mai laughed when he saw it.

Fennel Lilac, and Zanye, who had been stunned until this moment, were stunned, and then they realized that they had already had a round of debate.

Lilac was also happy, so she stepped forward and hugged Fennel's arm and said, "Second sister, what do you think?" Isn't that interesting? ”

Fennel was still reminiscing about their comings and goings, and she never thought that her unintentional joke about pepper could lead to a confrontation between her younger brothers and sisters.

What's more, it's not very clever words, but really targeted.

Suddenly, I felt that this little game might be really interesting.

He smiled and proposed: "Otherwise, you can argue whether the debate is not limited to 'clever words'!" ”