Chen Jing called on Saturday night to ask Zhao Xiaocui about her impression of her senior brother, and Zhao Xiaocui said very truthfully: "I don't know how he was before, I feel that he is now pressed by the pressure of life and has no energy, his appearance is okay, and he is honest and the rest of the people don't know for the time being." Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo”

"Then what do you think, do you feel the need to see you again?"

"Uh...... This issue has not yet been considered. ”

"Well, I know, just now I asked my senior brother's opinion, he said that you are very lively and your family conditions are good, he is not worthy of you, of course, he also depends on your meaning, that is to say, people think you are good, if you want to, he is willing to have a relationship. Think about it, after all, this is a big deal, and you can discuss it with your parents. ”

"Well, I'll think about it for myself first." Hanging up the phone, Zhao Xiaocui also had mixed feelings in her heart, recalling the whole process of meeting, when she first entered the café, she first felt that this man was a conservative, and after walking into contact, she found that there was no spirit, and after a detailed understanding, she found that he had an unusual background, on the whole, she could only say that she didn't hate it, but she didn't have a feeling or a little liking at all, and it was indeed a big burden to consider his family from a realistic point of view, The younger siblings will get better after graduating from college, but as the eldest son in the family, the problem of parents' pension will surface, especially now that there is no pension in the countryside and the medical insurance is not perfect, in this case, it is conceivable how much pressure he has to bear, thinking of the reality of this layer, Zhao Xiaocui felt a chill down his spine.

Although after analysis, she understood her decision, she still planned to talk to her parents, and the first thing she said after dialing the phone was: "Turn on the speakerphone, there is something to report to the second elder." ”

Mom and Dad eagerly asked, "What's wrong?" Zhao Xiaocui completely described the process of today's blind date, and her parents did not interrupt her in the middle, and after finishing speaking, there was a silence for a while, and then her father said: "What do you think?" ”

"How can you think about it, don't think about it, work, people, and family are all the same, and how can you think about various problems in the future, this is a dead end."

"Well, my parents understand and respect your considerations, after all, marriage is a life, what is the life, what is the life, is the seven things of chai, rice, mail, sauce, vinegar and tea, if you are unwilling at the beginning, then it may not be much better in the future."

"Well, Mom, what do you think about this?"

"I have a similar opinion as your father, the difference between the two people's marriage and family conditions should not be too big, otherwise there will be too many contradictions in life in the future, but there is one thing you have to remember is 'Don't look for those with too poor conditions, Don't look for conditions that are too good, 'too bad in the future, your life is not good, too good people don't take you seriously, life is not good, find a condition about the same, in addition, the most important thing for a man is to treat you sincerely, can love you from the heart, have a sense of responsibility and self-motivation, people have to live a little more, after all, there are many men outside the society, and it is necessary to live a little more. You're not too young, it's time to find a partner, you can go on a blind date, your dad and I are very happy, but don't take care of yourself, don't go on a blind date for the sake of a blind date. ”

"Well, remember. Don't worry. ”

"By the way, girl, Dad has something else to tell you."

"Well, you say."

"Well, that's the case, your mother and I are thinking about buying you a house in Beijing, we can't afford the big one and the small one can still make a down payment,"

"This can't work, how much money can you have, so I don't want to go~~"

"Don't worry, listen to Dad's words, you have been going to school there for nine years, and the possibility of coming back is not great, and now the housing prices over there have been rising, and your mother and I are thinking that even if the family wants to help you pay the down payment, we can't afford it, so I can buy a small one-bedroom apartment while I can still pay it now, on the one hand, you have a nest of your own, and your mother and I have a home, on the other hand, after you get married, we retire, we can still go over every year to help you take care of the children, On one aspect, the girl also has her own assets now, and she will be angry at any time. The family can't help you with anything else right now, so we should have no problem making a down payment and paying off the loan yourself, right? ”

"But where can I get the down payment now? I have a provident fund for the mortgage, and I can afford to pay some by myself. ”

"You don't care about the down payment, we can give you 600,000, so you can look at the house by this number."

"That's not for you to take out the coffin."

"We still have wages, we still have skills to earn, and we will also have wages and insurance in the future. Feel free to watch. ”

"......"

"That's the way it is, you hurry up and see, don't pass this opportunity, the down payment will rise again, and our family won't be able to afford it."

"Well, okay, I'll start looking."

"Don't refuse the blind date, meet if you have the same, and don't be embarrassed to contact more boys." Mom added.

"Mm-hmm, don't worry, I know." After hanging up the phone, Zhao Xiaocui had mixed feelings in her heart, she didn't think about asking her parents to help buy a house, but she couldn't open her mouth, although she didn't think that her parents would pay but borrow money from them, but when she thought that this money might be their life savings, she couldn't bear it, but how difficult it was to buy a house on her own in the huge city of Beijing, since her parents spoke today, Zhao Xiaocui also made up her mind to look at the house, but she definitely had to pay back the 600,000 yuan given by her parents, and the IOU must be written. Otherwise, she couldn't care less in her heart. Although this blind date failed, she knew that her parents knew that she began to take this step, and she was happy for her from the bottom of her heart, and when she thought of having her own house soon, Zhao Xiaocui couldn't help but feel excited, she couldn't help but think of Chen Jing's senior brother, 'Everyone is the same age, but the gap between people is like this, because birth, family conditions, and growth environment are different, and the development trajectory and life experience are also very different. ’