After lunch, the group had to go to my mother's house, and I had to drag my husband, I was not happy, and I really didn't want to face my mother-in-law alone as soon as my husband left. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

My husband has been gone for two days and there is no trace, and now I can't help it, I have to go home to see what is going on? I have the impression that my husband is doing things in a measured way, how could he leave me and his mother behind and live happily outside? Something must have happened? The thought of the child having just been born...... I couldn't stop crying......

I got dressed and was about to go to my husband, but when my mother-in-law saw that I was stubborn and had to go, she said, "You wait at home, I'll go find him." ”

My mother-in-law has been to my house twice, and she is an outfield person, she can walk wherever she goes, never scared, unlike me who gets lost at every turn and can't find a home.

My mother-in-law went to my mother's house to find my husband, about an hour later, someone knocked on the door outside, I saw that it was my husband who came back, I was really surprised and happy, and hurriedly opened the door. When I heard that his mother had gone to my house, my husband didn't react much: "It's okay, my mother came to your house, and when she saw that I was back, she came back herself." ”

Sure enough, more than an hour later, the mother-in-law returned. The first thing she said when she sat down made me not know how to answer, and there was an indescribable pain.

The mother-in-law was very surprised and said, "Yan, when did I offend your brother?" He seemed to be dissatisfied with me. ”

I was surprised, could it be that my mother-in-law went this time, what did my brother say to her or do anything rude? I can't think of anything my brother can do? After all, that's my mother-in-law, no matter how dissatisfied she is, she should look at my face, and get by on the surface? After all, he was also in his sixties, and I really couldn't think of what my brother did to make my mother-in-law say that?

I hurriedly asked, "Why do you say that?" ”

My mother-in-law looked at my old son and then at me and said, "I went to your house, and your father said that Chunming had returned, so I hurried back, and your father asked your brother to send me to the highway, and your brother didn't squeak, and no one moved." He must have an opinion about me, otherwise how could he have such an attitude? ”

My house is still some distance from the road, and if I take a car to the road, my brother will send it by bicycle or borrow a tricycle from a neighbor. My brother ignored his mother-in-law, must he still be holding a grudge against the white eyes he received at his mother-in-law's house? I didn't expect my brother to behave so directly because of this, or is he just a simple-minded person with developed limbs?

What can I say? Weakly explained: "My brother is such a person, he has no manners at all, and he can't have a holiday with you at all." "I really don't have anything to say, my brother has already shown me his unique way of dealing with the world on his wedding day, I really have nothing to say. He is the brother of my fellow mother, even if 11,000 are unhappy, what can I do? I can only knock out my front teeth and swallow it in my stomach!

My husband didn't say anything, or even my mother-in-law knew it, right? It's just that some things should not be too obvious, it is better to have a layer of window paper than to directly accept the northwest wind? Even if everyone knew what was going on, would it be better not to tear the dough?

After two days, Mom finally showed up. The child is sleeping sweetly, she looks at the child, plays with the child's face, the child wakes up at once, the mother sees the child peeing at a glance, picks up the child and pees, and mutters: "The child has to develop a habit from an early age." Several people on the side were dumbfounded, how could a child who was not yet a month old know how to pee?

My mother-in-law was cooking in the kitchen, and the child was defecating again, looking at my daughter's feces and pee, my mother covered her mouth and was not a general dislike, I was a little unhappy and hurriedly called my husband: "You washed the meson, didn't you see my mother burying it?" ”

My mother probably found out that I was unhappy, after all, she was the child's grandmother, she felt a little unbearable, and hurriedly said: "What is the child's meson?" Don't bury it! Saying that, that disgusted expression still betrayed her, Mom is a good and clean person, she doesn't eat the food that others have touched, Mom never eats the leftover rice bowls of our sisters, and even Mom doesn't eat the same bowl as Dad, Dad seems to have gotten used to Mom's almost discriminatory behavior.

When I was pregnant, I once prepared a very large sea bowl, and I also told my husband: "When I was confined, I used this big name to have a bowl of millet porridge for each meal." "But it's really confinement, and I haven't seen the bowl or porridge. My mother came, and I cooked rotten millet porridge, I forgot what the dishes were, but I only remember that after having children, it was the fullest and most enjoyable meal.

The milk was enough all of a sudden, and the mother-in-law suddenly realized: "If you are willing to eat millet porridge, say it early!" "It seems that I have the ingenuity to make confinement and eat millet porridge? I've always wanted to ask her how she has served so many confinement days? But I haven't dared, because my mother-in-law is not an ordinary point, and if a word is wrong, it is not an ordinary storm, and I really haven't had a close encounter with her.

Now I realize that I actually blame myself for being too introverted and having poor expression skills. In fact, as long as you say your thoughts about many things, instead of sulking and suspicious in your heart, many misunderstandings will not occur! Or you won't have so many knots yourself.

If you don't say what you want or don't want, how will others know: which ones you like and which ones you don't? Who spends guessing your preferences? If you have that mood, you have to have that time! Who is not the roundworm in your belly, and is it obligated to dig out his mind to please you? Do you think that you are too important to yourself, thinking that you can't live without yourself, and you will reach the end of the world?

My mother stayed for two days and then went back, and soon my husband began to sell meat by himself, leaving early and returning late all day, and only my mother-in-law and I watched the children at home.

At night, I was breastfeeding the child in a daze, and my eyes were as heavy as lead, and I couldn't lift them, and I felt that there were two eyes looking at me in the confusion, and a spirit suddenly got up, and when I looked up, my mother-in-law was staring at me with good eyes on the other side, and when I saw her, she said to me: "I have to look at you, I'm afraid that you will simmer the child to death!" ”

In this way, a month has finally passed in torment and helplessness!

I began to live a normal life slowly, that day when I picked up the rice cooker, angry and angry, the only electrical appliance in the house - the rice cooker, can not say that I saved money to buy the rice cooker, when I bought this pot I cherished the mood at the time, and now I still remember it vividly, I carefully cared for it, for fear of a little scratch, every day after eating, soaked the pot with water, and then gently washed it, with more than a year is still as new as ever.

Unexpectedly, I didn't cook for a month, and when I looked at it again, the original new liner inside was wiped by the pot ball, and it was all scratches one by one! I could only swallow what I wanted to say in distress, and my heart was like an inner tank, and it was also marked one by one.

I don't understand, even if we are two levels of people, there should be a distinction between cherishing things? Is this the generation gap between us? Or are you too cautious? Probably when people are poor, their lifestyles and hearts are distorted, right? Or I'm too narrow-minded.

When I was forty days old, my mother-in-law accompanied me, and the two of us took a taxi to the hospital where my hukou was located to get sugar pills. In the evening, my mother-in-law went home with her: "No, I've been out for more than two months, and there is no one to take care of me at home, I don't know what has happened!" ”

Then she said to her husband: "Our pork over there is expensive, you buy more here, I'll take it back, and the car fare will come out!" "At that time, the price of pork had just risen, and it seemed that my mother-in-law was still quite economically savvy, so I couldn't have imagined such a thoroughness.

My husband bought two bags of pork in a military travel bag, which should be more than 100 catties, and my mother-in-law returned to her home happily. I began to face my daughter alone, and she slept during the day when she was full, and she didn't even cry.

But at night, for unknown reasons, she cried so desperately that she didn't even breathe, and her face was so red and bruised that her whole body was suffocated. I was so scared that I didn't know what to do, and my husband couldn't do anything, I really don't know what happened to this child? How can there be such a big temper?

Two days later, my mother-in-law came back unexpectedly and said that she was not worried about me taking the child. If you don't feel at ease, why go back? Just go home and take a look and send some meat?

Indeed, I originally thought of something very simple, but the child was not angry, and he cried out of the world level, which made me, who was already clumsy and inexperienced, really unable to start, and I cried with the child. Later, I heard that because the house was too dark, my daughter turned black and white upside down. In this way, the father-in-law needs to be taken care of by his mother-in-law, and he is afraid that he will not be able to take care of the children.

The husband said, "You all go home, I'll just be here by myself." ”

So, I followed my mother-in-law back to her house.

It's strange to say that as soon as the daughter arrived at her mother-in-law's house, the problem of black and white reversal disappeared immediately, and she was never seen crying desperately. I still don't know why.

Looking at the child, my father-in-law's eyebrows and eyes were smiling, although he rarely spoke, but chattered in front of me, "Your uncle is here, give you 200 yuan, Xiao Ming's friend is here, what do you give......" "Xiao Ming's unit used to pay as usual, but then the benefits were not good, and the workers were on vacation, and now they are given 60 yuan a month for living expenses......"

I was shocked again, it turned out that since I knew that my husband had a salary here, his family admitted it, but after a short time, he told me that the efficiency of the unit was not good, the workers were laid off, and the salary was not paid. At this time, I heard that my husband was unexpectedly still paying for living expenses, although the money was small, but after all, the facts existed, and this time I was the last person to know.

I thought that this was the first time this kind of thing, and they should also learn their lesson and be more transparent about some things! I guess I don't say anything and don't fight, and I don't squeak when I suffer, so I feel stupid, right? For a fool, it's not necessary to let her know everything? I'm not going to fight for this money anyway, so why don't I even tell the truth? Or are you afraid that I will receive my love after I know? I pretended I didn't know anything.

When my husband came, I told him about it, then looked at him and asked, "Do you know about this?" ”

My husband replied very calmly: "I knew that my salary was pinched, and I really didn't know about living expenses." After speaking, he asked the second sister: "Does the unit still pay living expenses now?" ”

The second sister also replied calmly: "I have a parent of a child, she is in the same unit as you, she can talk, just give 60 yuan a month for living expenses, don't pay on time, sometimes press the moon, I thought you already knew!" ”

I have never started with anyone, and I don't have the ability to be a prophet of the future, how can I know? I can't know what they think, I don't want to know who has what intentions, it's all gone, and the money doesn't help. I didn't get impoverished because I didn't get this money, on the contrary, my life became more prosperous and richer day by day.