121 Then to Suizhong
Mom finally returned to her home, and she couldn't see any joy or displeasure from Dad, and Mom and Dad didn't even say hello when they saw each other, or they had already had a tacit understanding in this regard after living together for more than 50 years?
Mom didn't even go home, she was busy going to the neighbor's house to say hello, and she didn't know what she was bragging about with others out of nothing? Anyway, I'm used to my mom showing off everywhere, and in fact what she thinks she's proud of is really nothing to be proud of, it's just that a frog at the bottom of the well sees an extra flower butterfly in the well!
Dad knows Mom too well, he doesn't even bother to get angry, sometimes I really admire Dad, he can live with Mom for so many years, although he doesn't quarrel, scold or talk, after all, so many years, it's too difficult for him!
Looking at my father's obvious aging, his back was already lumped, his dark brown face was full of deep wrinkles, and even his eyes were already dull. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info lived alone for more than half a year, and he always said that it was good, but I could guess that he was alone, and even eating was a burden!
Although he was always lonely, Dad still insisted on moving every day, going to the fish pond to check, or silently tinkering with something he thought was still useful. The elder brother met a young widow who often mingled in the casino through a friend who gambled together, and the woman was inseparable from the elder brother, but the elder brother was lazy and never knew how to wash his clothes, and this woman who lived with him was even more than that.
I don't know how to clean up my living room, and my father has to do laundry and cook for them in the winter, I don't know how to swallow that mouthful of rice in front of the old man who is nearly eighty years old? I don't know if my brother, who meets every day, has found that his father is already an old man, and he is no longer the strong father who shelters him from the wind and rain!
Sometimes, as my sisters say, "I don't like to go home, I'm really too lazy to look at them!" ”
Out of sight, out of mind! Mom's family always makes people feel uncomfortable, how much stronger is my mother-in-law's family?
Because there used to be some distant relatives or something on the in-law's side, in order to move a grave or decorate the house, or something to show off, so as to treat guests and receive gifts and make a small fortune. At the beginning, my in-laws' family put them on for us, and I had never heard of many people, and my husband had never moved, so I spent all the unjust money like this. At that time, the economy was difficult, but fortunately, he said to his mother-in-law: "Don't give us money if we don't show up for this kind of thing in the future, and we won't pay it back!" ”
Later, this kind of thing is rare, but I didn't expect that once I suddenly remembered that I hadn't called my mother-in-law for a long time, so I asked my husband to greet him, who knows when my husband asked: "Mom, what are you doing?" ”
The mother-in-law said softly: "Attend the funeral in Suizhong!" Your sister-in-law is gone! ”
Putting down the phone, my husband told me: "Suizhong's sister-in-law is gone!" ”
I was taken aback, my sister-in-law is the mother of my classmate Mei, she is not very old, why did she leave so early? If it hadn't been for this call, I really didn't know something so big had happened. I really have an unspeakable anger at my mother-in-law's family, and I don't care about it, but my sister-in-law is different, why don't you tell me?
I hurriedly asked my husband, who had already put down the phone, to call again, and I didn't rush to go, so I still showed my heart with the gift table. I really want to tell my husband and let him tell his family, is it not the same thing to do? Isn't there a difference in what is going on? Not letting them advance money just because they are too lazy to associate with those worldly people does not mean that we ignore everyone - especially this kind of people who have a different relationship with others?
Later, on the eleventh two years later, we were celebrating the festival at our in-laws' house, and we heard that there were two gifts in Suizhong, and it was rare for us to catch up, so of course we had to cheer together! The old man took the car to pick up the children from the second sister's kindergarten, and a family of more than a dozen drove to a small village in Suizhong County.
It is a veritable mountainous area, and although there are no majestic or famous mountains, there are mountains one after another, and there are mountains in all directions.
It was in this place that I first met my husband, because I had never seen a real mountain before, let alone climbed it! The mountains are not only curious to me, but also a place that makes me feel special! It's been years since I blinked.
It seems that the intimate feeling in my heart has not faded with the passage of time, there is a familiar and indescribable feeling, and there is a kind of ardent anticipation of wanting to see old classmates. Because the wedding is the son of Mei's own uncle, presumably she should come to the wedding.
The same group of people stood bored outside, gossiping without a word, I don't know how long it took, a car drove to the door and stopped, two men and two women got out of the car, they didn't know each other, and they didn't care, then I don't know who said: "Isn't that Mei and her sister?" ”
Only then did I take a closer look, and after a closer look, it dawned on me that it was indeed Mei and her sister, and although their appearance had changed too much, there were still many shadows of the past.
Mei is still thin and thin, with golden ion perm hair, duck egg face, a pair of bright and expressive round eyes, she smiled before she spoke, she looked elegant and generous, steady and noble, and in comparison, she seemed to have just come out of the countryside.
Especially I'm a clumsy person, I don't know how to talk about family life, although there are unspeakable surprises when I reunite after a long absence, but I don't know where to start? Fortunately, Mei is still so talkative, so lively and vivid.
She talked about many things together, I don't know how I felt, I thought of my brother in the countryside at once, anyway, suddenly I understood more clearly: in the countryside, it is natural and natural for parents to spoil their sons. She also has an unconscious brother in her family, or can she compare it to my brother?
It seems that no matter what you develop, people can never leave the family, especially unable to give up family affection, although there is too much helplessness, but there can only be helpless, there is really no other way!
That time, through the conversation with Mei, and what I saw and heard, I suddenly realized that I was like soaking in a honey pot, I have an understanding, tolerant, and deeply loved my husband, and it turned out that my husband was so outstanding (not appearance), it can be said that he is not only a good man who cares for his family, but also a good husband who is distressed and considerate of his wife, he can not only go to the kitchen, make my favorite dishes, but also earn money outside to support the family, he knows how to warm and romantic mood, and always does everything practically!
Originally, I thought that life was plain and peaceful, but I didn't know that this kind of plain and calm was so enviable and desirable. In any case, I am already in my forties and close to fifty years old, and many things should really be taken lightly.
Now that I have such a happy family, an impeccable husband, and a well-behaved, sensible, motivated daughter with unusual talents, what am I not satisfied with? How many of them can live as I am? Be content! I deserve to be content!
Suddenly, I am very grateful to God, and I am grateful to him for giving me such a good fate, such a beautiful and happy family and life!