122 The Wedding Feast of the Niece
My brother himself often eats big fish and meat, but his parents save money and don't even want to buy vegetables. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info not to mention, he brought home a gluttonous, lazy and unreasonable woman.
This woman is in her forties, she looks okay, has a medium build, pays attention to dressing up, has been in the casino mahjong club for many years, and is very familiar with some social people, so she can be regarded as a social person! As a conservative father, he doesn't like such a woman the most, but he can't decide what happens to his son, so he can only sulk in private.
Even the dirty clothes that I changed had to be washed by my father, who was nearly eighty years old, and I really took it. My brother designated her as a person who had no heart and lungs, and I suspected that the woman had no heart and no liver. If you don't want to get married and live a normal life, just find a man to live a mixed life, but don't you have any people's hearts?
But I also have some sympathy for that woman, if it weren't for the fact that there was really no way, who would want to find a man like my brother, the house is in chaos, and there is a mother who can make people have a nervous breakdown, and he himself does not do his job all day long, and being with such a person, I feel like torture.
The sisters complained a lot about this woman who never stepped forward with anything, and agreed that she was going to her brother's money, because her brother had no money anymore, and he was unwilling to wronged women, so he tried every means to make women happy. What's more, my brother's restaurant later did not hire a chef, but was in charge of the cooking, and he could sell a certain number of boxed lunches every day.
My brother is very busy all day, no one knows how much money he makes, and it is estimated that he himself does not know, the money is kept by the woman, so that he wants to ask his mother for money if he wants to share the gift. Later, my brother's cooking level was really unflattering, and the braised pork he made didn't even eat the dog, I really don't know how the person who bought the boxed lunch at him swallowed it?
Soon my brother's restaurant was replaced with a few mahjong tables, and there was an endless stream of people playing mahjong every day, and it was said that they had to earn at least a hundred yuan a day.
Once, in order to get together, my brother actually found my mother to play, I really don't know if this mother is sharp or stupid, such a big occasion dares to let my mother go, with the degree of slight Alzheimer's disease of my mother, my brother's income in one day is not enough for my mother to lose! Although I was furious, my mother was laughing and happy.
My brother's little life seems to be quite beautiful, and he is also nearly fifty years old, I don't know if he is worried about himself, the family has a headache for him (not including me), and he is disgusted with the woman who is with him for money.
And I seem to belong to the outlier, I hope my brother can find a woman to live a good life and live the rest of his life in peace and happiness. It's not like you can get what you want! In desperation, I can only approve of my brother's way of living, as long as he is happy, he will live no matter what.
Because I know that my brother is also very depressed, he also wants to live a happy life in peace and stability, but firstly, his fate is not good, and secondly, he is also disheartened, he is originally a weak-willed person, and he loses his will after a little blow, and he has no patience and perseverance, he can't endure hardships, and he can't withstand a little blow. I am even more afraid that he will give up the idea of survival, and that he will be pessimistic and misanthropic.
Even if he chooses such a glorious life, as long as he still has attachment to life, can't choose his background, can't choose his parents, of course he has the right to choose his own way of life. I even agree with him choosing any way of life, as for how much money he loses, it doesn't matter, as long as people can live a healthy, safe, and complete life, this is my last luxury for him.
I'm always worried about my brother, so I'm completely different from other people who demand a lot of from him, I just want him to live well.
On the eve of the Qingming Festival, my mother said that my brother was going to hold a wedding banquet for my eldest daughter, so I said to my mother: "You let my brother choose a Saturday and Sunday, so that others don't have time." But don't choose Qingming, my mother-in-law's side has already made an appointment, and Qingming has a lot to do! ”
The next day, my mother called: "The date is set, April 3rd!" ”
I was angry all of a sudden: "I told you not to choose Qingming, why do you still choose Qingming?" ”
"I didn't choose Qingming, the 4th is Qingming!" Mom thought I was mistaken.
I really want to faint: "I just went back to Huludao during the three-day Qingming holiday, you chose the middle day, how can I go back?" Forget it, I'm not going! ”
"His invitations have been sent, and he can't change them!" Mom's reasons are really clever. In one day's time, I'm afraid that she called me after the day was set, and the invitations were sent out after this meeting! As far as I know, my brother didn't send an invitation at all.
I'm really angry, every time the family makes a decision that they never take into account of me, or do they know that I'm going to figure it out, and it's all their business? This is probably the bird that calls to eat, right? If I can really be ruthless, I guess the first thing they think about when they do things again, right? I don't want others to be embarrassed, and I always have to swallow my own bitterness!
The better people talk, the less they are valued, I already know it, and I don't want to elevate my status in their minds, but I have formed this character, and I don't want to change it, since they can't bear it, let them get their way!
I was just angry and said I couldn't go, I immediately called my husband, and then called my mother-in-law's house, my daughter had gone directly from school to her mother-in-law's house, and no one said anything, after all, marriage is a big deal, and I have a lot of mother-in-law's birthday, father-in-law's death day, and old friends who meet every year, all to make way for big things.
Because every time my sisters came home, my husband and I waited for the second and third sisters at Shenyang West Railway Station, and then drove home together.
This time, people took the same shape, because Hao'er of the third sister's family came back from Beijing, and the children of the second sister's family also wanted to go to see their grandmother, and the eldest sister happened to come back from her daughter's house in Dalian and was picked up by me. This counts seven husbands, more than two.
Originally, my eldest sister and I were planned to take the bus, but my husband was worried that we were both road idiots, and I didn't know how to look at the car, so he said ruthlessly: "Squeeze the car!" It's a big deal to punish overstaffing! "This way, my eldest sister and I sat in the co-pilot, for fear of pressing the eldest sister, I could only put a little seat on the tip of my buttocks, and the back was also crowded, but fortunately, I was not found to be overcrowded.
Along the way, they seemed to be discussing how much gift money to spend, especially the second sister's dissatisfaction with her brother was not ordinary, and she was even more worried that her brother would cheat the woman who lived with him if he received the gift money.
"You can't spend more, you can spend as much as you want, and you can get that woman's hand!" The second sister said with great certainty.
The eldest sister and the third sister are also 100,000 dissatisfied with their elder brother, and of course they agree with the second sister's point of view.
When I arrived, everyone in the family was shocked, and they all thought I wouldn't go. It seems that he is really self-inflicted, and it really doesn't matter if he participates by himself or not! I've always been just a little person who isn't taken seriously.
The elder brother said that his niece's wedding was on April 9, and a wedding banquet was held at her mother-in-law's house in Henan, but this time it was only a pre-wedding banquet, and her niece didn't even show her face.
The elder brother asked, "You aunts, who will go that day?" ”
As soon as I heard this, I was angry, if you want your mother's family to go to a few people over there to give your daughter a strong face, why don't you call in advance to discuss? If you take my sister in your eyes, when you know that I have something, I am so angry that I am furious, why don't you call me and tell me: You don't use it if you have something to do, and you just go to your mother-in-law's house on the right day.
If he had called, I would have been happy to attend my niece's wedding. When he said this, I turned around and went out of the house not to hear him again. I'm not bad for money! It's really an errand, if he has my sister in his eyes, I think I will do my best to earn enough face for him, since people are not rare, I don't want to be sentimental!
I don't know if my brother has seen my dissatisfaction, of course, I am not satisfied and he can't care, he has given me too many times over the years, I don't want to pick up the small intestines and care, but it doesn't mean that I can treat those things as if they didn't happen, and forget them all!
It's just that I'm not feeling well, of course he knows me too well, just like he said about his daughter: "This child is too much like her aunt, and she thinks about others everywhere." "I wonder if this kind of person is the spokesperson for the loss?