119 Buying a house
The first batch of house moves of my mother-in-law was missed, and there has been no news for a long time. She suddenly said to me www.biquge.info "You can buy a house for your mother?" If I sell it when I'm dead, it won't cost much,"
My husband and I immediately went to see the house. I contacted the seller with my husband and saw that the house had been renovated, the floor and area were quite pleasant, and I could move in as long as I moved some furniture. I was going to buy it directly, but when I went home to discuss, the eldest sister quit: "Don't buy a house next to me, let me serve my mother?" How can I have that energy! ”
This sentence completely changed the image of the eldest sister in my mind, it turned out that I always felt that the eldest sister was warm-hearted, straightforward and generous, but I didn't expect her to come to such a mouth at a critical time. With my temper, my mother is yours, you can go if you want to see it, who doesn't want to see who didn't force you, where do you care where I buy a house?
But as soon as my mother-in-law heard this, she stopped doing it: "Don't buy it there, as if I was counting on her to support it, and after a while, a large number of houses will come down, and it will be much cheaper at that time!" ”
I said to my husband: "It's not bad for that money, since her wish is to live in a building (my mother-in-law doesn't really want to live in a building, she means that Buddhism's family has a building, and she can't be worse than others!) In that way, she will not be a dwarf in front of her Buddhist friends. In the final analysis, it is vanity, which means comparing with others. Let's buy it, mom is so old! There is no tomorrow today, don't wait until the time comes, you can't live in the building, you don't regret it! Let's buy it and live in it first! ”
In fact, it's good to buy a house there, and my mother-in-law's wish has come true, at least my daughter has her own place to live every time she goes back, and she doesn't have to suffer! We don't have to suffer in the cold in the bungalow when we go home for the New Year every year, just if I have a separate courtyard over there!
"Forget it, Mom doesn't want to buy it now, and it will be much cheaper when a large number of houses come down in the future." My husband thinks about things more comprehensively, and what he is most worried about is that it is inconvenient for his mother-in-law to live alone in the building, and he is afraid that the old lady will not be able to serve him if he hires a nanny. Under normal circumstances, the mother-in-law is not used to seeing who does it.
Although the matter of the house has been decided to be given to the second sister, the mother-in-law is unwilling when she thinks about it: "Why should my house be given to that dead man?" He's so stubborn, I can't let him get good! You see, after I die, I will scold him in his ear every day, and I can't scare him to death! ”
The mother-in-law said this more than once, and it seems that she has made up her mind to ask her second brother-in-law for what he got after her death. I don't know if I believe or don't believe in this kind of thing. But listening to my mother-in-law say this, I really feel panicked, but don't offend a strong person like my mother-in-law, she will hold a grudge until she dies, and she will come back to retaliate with a ghost, it's terrible!
I always felt that the house was not bought, but then a large number of houses really came down, and the eldest sister's family got another set, and the house was so cheap that it was hard to believe. My husband and I said, "Buy a set, it's so cheap, just buy a fur!" ”
My husband also said: "It's so cheap, if you don't buy a set, it's really unbalanced!" At this time, the eldest brother and his step-wife fell out because of money. The eldest brother has retired, with a pension of more than 2,600 yuan per month, and he gave his salary card to his wife.
He worked as a miner, and when he was tested for silicosis, he received a monthly subsidy of 1,100 yuan. He planned to keep the money for himself, and it was convenient to use the money or something, but his wife said that he would not do anything, so he had to give the money to her. So the two said that it would collapse, but it was over.
The eldest brother asked his husband to move things for him, and the two of them had a breakdown before, and my husband drove to help pull things, and I owed my mouth, so I said to my husband: "You first say something good to persuade you together, see what the eldest brother means and don't want to leave!" It's better to have a home than to be alone. ”
As a result, as soon as my husband said that, the two of them reconciled, which made my mother-in-law unhappy with me! The mother-in-law has always disapproved of the eldest brother being with the woman. The degree of disgust for her should be worse than that of the second brother-in-law. At that time, I always thought that the woman was not easy, and many things were not necessarily her fault, it should be that the eldest brother did not do well enough, or the mother-in-law was prejudiced against her.
This time, the eldest brother was very firm: "But it's okay, I can't say anything!" She doesn't care if I'm sick, what else can I expect from her? If I give her all the money, no one will care about any illness in the future. It's better to leave as soon as possible! ”
The mother-in-law suddenly came to her senses: "Xiao Ming, did you say that the woman who is quite suitable for your eldest brother is looking for someone else?" Hurry up and say peace to your big brother! ”
The old lady thinks about the long term, and she doesn't know what is going on on the human side. I hope that the eldest brother and the woman will be separated from the heart, one is that the woman is really too much, she takes money too seriously, she takes it too tightly, and she doesn't even want face for money, who knows what will happen to such a person in the future and make you helpless? If you don't have any feelings, you just have to deal with money, what kind of marriage do you have?
Second, while the eldest brother is not too old and has a lot of pension, it should not be a problem to find someone who is going through his life wholeheartedly. If you wait until the day when the eldest brother really can't move, it will really be called every day, and the ending will be miserable!
And then there is my selfish heart, I want him to leave the woman and live with his mother-in-law in the house I bought, so that he can solve the problem of the house, and the mother-in-law will also solve the problem of having someone to take care of. It's really a great thing to kill two birds with one stone.
The eldest brother went home alone to get his own things, and the first time he moved back a large box of shoes, his mother-in-law was so angry that he scolded: "This ruined girl!" Raise a Han wife! Too lazy to be like a pig, without a clean pair of shoes in a box, who doesn't clean up their shoes and put them away? I've never seen anything like this. ”
After another move, the eldest brother disappeared, and the mother-in-law did not answer the phone. I said to my husband, "It's the two of them who have reconciled again!" I wondered if he couldn't do something so happily, what did he do without dragging his feet? ”
Sure enough, the next day, my husband called him to come over for dinner, and when he entered the house, he said, "I can't get out, I can't come out, why should I come out when she cries?" ”
The eldest sister and the second sister on the side said angrily: "That girl knows how to do the whole thing, and when she cooks in the garden, she tells us that men rely on coaxing, and the more coaxing, the more obedient they are!" People will. Didn't this coax the eldest brother again. ”
I am concerned about the final result of the cause of the matter, since the eldest brother is soft-hearted and does not come out, it is specified that the struggle has won a certain result. I asked directly: "She doesn't want the 1,100 yuan?" ”
The eldest brother looked at me: "The 1,100 yuan is 600 for her, and I will keep 500."
I almost vomited blood, didn't he just toss around for a long time? What's the difference between this and not having it? He can't insist on the issue of principle, it seems that this person is really hopeless!
The eldest brother looked at me disappreciatively: "She answered this answer, and she will be with me after she dies." She agreed to write with me! ”
It's really speechless, people have their own daughters, she died first, but the eldest brother is in his teens, can you say who will die first? If the eldest brother is gone first, and the mother and daughter move to a place where you can't find it, who knows if you will die or not? Can other daughters not bury their parents together? I really don't know what he's thinking?
Anyway, he didn't take anything serious, so I still don't have to worry about it.