It seems that through what happened, the mother-in-law's impression of her children has also changed greatly. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 info And my impression of my in-laws' family has changed a lot.

Originally, I had the best impression of my eldest sister, and I always felt that I was no different from my own sister in front of her, and I was not distracted at all. Because she has two children, and she has no job, she only relies on her eldest brother-in-law to work alone to support the family, and her life is inevitably poor.

After my own financial conditions were better, I tried my best to do something for her, and my compassion was overflowing, and whoever was in a bad condition made my heart uncomfortable. But the eldest sister said everything to me, which made me want to share it for her.

The children of the eldest sister's family are not good at studying, and then the daughter went to a preschool normal school without grades, and her daughter can be said to be born beautiful, with big eyes like watery black grapes, round face, sexy lips, and really beautiful kind. Although the height is not high, the places that should protrude are tall and noble, and the thin waist is like a willow in the wind.

The girl grew up gradually, but the eldest sister was very strict. I remember that when the child was just looking for a job, she worked as a kindergarten teacher in the kindergarten of her second sister, and she had classmates who were developing in Beijing and wanted her to go with her, but her mother said that she would not let her. I spent more than an hour on the phone.

"Let's let her go to a big place, what can we do in a small place over there? It's hard to find a decent boy with good family conditions! There are fewer and fewer people there, maybe even the population will be sparse in the future, let her have a long experience outside, maybe she can meet a boy with good conditions, that is better than nesting in a ravine! ”

In short, I said all the good things: "You are always reluctant to let your children go out now, and they don't even have the ability to adapt to society in the future, can you take care of her for the rest of your life?" It's not a bad thing to let her exercise properly! You don't have to keep it in your mouth all day. ”

She always had a thousand reasons to overturn me: "You don't know, the girl who let her go is not safe, I'm afraid what if something happens to the child there?" It's too late to regret it! ”

Since she said this, I naturally can't persuade any further, in case the child breaks in by himself because he listened to my words, and if something really happens at that time, won't I have to blame it? The eldest sister is more precious than her own life!

The eldest sister's son is still a mess in his studies, although she is heartbroken, and she is making up classes and begging grandpa to tell grandma, there is no way for the child not to go to school, the eldest sister has made a long-term plan for the two children, she begged her son to go to a technical school, counting on a stable job after graduation.

Later, the eldest sister's eldest brother's daughter found an officer, and through this relationship, she became clearer about the affairs of the army, so she persuaded her son to become a soldier.

The son was persuaded, but he had a very harsh requirement, he had to be a special soldier, and he was affected by watching "I Am a Special Soldier" on TV.

His brother-in-law, who was an officer, really agreed. His brother-in-law also asked for people, so the premise of the soldier was to speak with money. Of course, I couldn't stand idly by, so I took the initiative to call: "Sister, you don't have to be polite to me, just squeak if you lack money, I'll call you right away!" ”

The eldest sister on the other end really wants to be grateful: "I'm worried that I have no place to make money, or you are intimate, I don't know how to thank you!" I'll have to pay it back in a year or two. ”

"Don't worry, I don't have a place to use money, you just use it first, don't be in a hurry to take him seriously, if you have money in the future, forget it if you don't have money!" I comforted her. In fact, it is not so easy to lend money, especially relatives, she has you can say that you use the money, she doesn't, do you still have to chase her? Isn't that persecution? No matter if I can't do it, I don't want to ignore family affection because of money, because of things outside my body.

But it backfired, he didn't become a special soldier, but went to the city to become an ordinary soldier, so the eldest sister asked someone to ask for a relationship to get her son back.

Later, I heard the second sister say: "The eldest sister will be poor in one day, and when she uses the money, she either borrows it from you or asks me to give it, and she takes money in my hand at every turn, how much has she taken in total, does she count?" Why didn't she borrow any money from her mother-in-law's side? I borrowed money from us and didn't tell my eldest brother-in-law, but I didn't let him know about it behind my eldest brother-in-law's back, for fear that he would know that he would get angry, and I didn't know what the eldest sister thought? So far, she owes us a total of 100,000 yuan, and the eldest brother-in-law doesn't know about it at all, how can you say she will pay it back? ”

Once the second sister was very angry: "You say, how can anyone do this like the eldest sister?" I obviously have money in my hand, but people say that the deposit is fixed, and the interest is thrown away in vain as soon as I take it out, so we don't have to pay interest on our money? What's going on? ”

I want to laugh when I hear this, my mother borrowed money from me and deposited it in the bank, for the sake of high interest, it turns out that my mother is not the only one of the scorpion baba? There are really like-minded people like my mother!

The matter of his son's joining the army has also stabilized, and it seems that everything is back on track. One day, my husband suddenly received a call from my eldest sister, saying that she wanted to scrape together enough 200,000 yuan to buy a fixed kindergarten teacher job for her daughter, and asked her husband to prepare at least 80,000 yuan for him anyway.

I called me before, it is related to the major events of the child's life, of course I can't say anything else, just ask her if she can rely on it, don't spend the money when the time comes, but she can't do it. If she does want to buy the job, I can help make it up.

My husband doesn't care about that: "Sister, I really don't know what to say about you?" She's a girl, let's not talk about whether this job is real or not, even if it's true, you spent 200,000 yuan to find a job for her, and she got married after two days of work, can she pay back the 200,000? Don't you know what you're doing? Now without these 200,000, you will have a butt of foreign debts, plus these 200,000, I don't think you will be able to turn over in your life! Besides, if you spend the 200,000 yuan, people do let you go to work, but after working for a period of time, they say that you are not competent, and you will not be able to do it? We are not a rich family, it is not appropriate to take the 200,000 yuan at all, our eldest brother-in-law usually sells coolies in the labor market alone, how many years do you have to earn 200,000 yuan? You guys should sum it up, you can think about what I say! ”

The next day, the eldest sister called: "The money is gone, the child himself said that he can't go!" As soon as I heard this, I knew that my husband's words were hurtful! Originally, people love to be poor and love more, and my husband's words are so straightforward, what is the difference between saying directly: I will lend you money again and I am afraid that you will not be able to pay it back? My husband almost said: You owe me tens of thousands of yuan for so many years, and you can't pay it back, are you embarrassed to borrow it again?

I didn't borrow the money, but I found that when I met again, the eldest sister and her daughter lost their original enthusiasm and nature, and they must have had a mustard in their hearts.

And because my eldest sister didn't let me buy a house next to her house, my impression of her was not as good as before, and there was no longer the original harmony between them. The relationship between people is like a layer of paper, too thin and too thin, once this layer of paper is broken, it can never be restored to its original state!