We returned to Shenyang from my in-laws' house, and the children were still there. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info started our cookie-cutter life again, and the scolding of Xue Yan's family can be heard occasionally, harmlessly, without affecting life, and life seems to be calm.

One morning, my husband came to me: "My dad is hospitalized, I have to go back and see!" Would you like to take a leave of absence from your employer? So the two of them hurried to the train station, really caught up with the car, and we went directly to Jinzhou Hospital in the evening of the same day.

The elder sister and the eldest brother-in-law were already in the hospital, and when they saw us coming, the angry father-in-law looked at us lovingly, as if nothing had happened, and not like a patient. He obediently lay on the bed, squinting at his old son and smiling.

My father-in-law had a small intestinal hernia, although it was not a serious illness, but he was a little old and in poor health. That night, everyone decided that the eldest brother-in-law would serve his father-in-law, and the eldest brother-in-law insisted that he had experience in serving the elderly, and his parents were often hospitalized with illness, and most of them were accompanied by him in the hospital.

The mother-in-law was alone at home with her daughter, afraid that she would be in a hurry, and the rest of the people would go home together. Everyone has gone home, I am a little unhappy, I have come all the way, should we stay in the hospital to serve the patients? Why do you want to go home and stay there?

Maybe they also think about us and think that we want to stay with our children more, right?

This time, the daughter's appearance has not changed much, mainly because her temper is more hot than before, and when she is a little uncomfortable, she sits on the ground and lifts her body back, and people cry and cry desperately, which really makes people afraid and hate.

The eldest sister's family has two children, a boy and a girl, who are only two years apart, and the younger boy is only one year older than the daughter, because the eldest sister often comes home and sometimes leaves the girl at the grandmother's house, so the three children are often together. Whenever an adult brings something delicious, it is often one per person, and when the daughter gets the food, she divides it by two, eats it violently, and eats her own share.

Turning around, I found that the eldest cousin's things were still in my hands, I didn't eat at all, she didn't speak, she quietly stepped forward, grabbed the food and then turned around and ate it again, how did the little cousin cry or beat her back weakly with her fist, she finished eating by herself, and then turned around to settle the ledger together, most of which were the little cousin who was beaten!

Fighting brothers, of course the sisters and brothers have to stand on the same front, the daughter doesn't care about thirty-seven twenty-one, a burst of fierce grabbing, the sisters and brothers often have injuries on their faces. With his father-in-law guarding, no one dared to squeak. A few days later, the young lady and brother were scratched again on their faces, and the father-in-law was full of joy: "This is for you to recover!" ”

The eldest sister was so angry that she dared not speak. After a long time, both sisters and brothers are very afraid of their daughter, and their daughter is even more lawless!

Two days later, I heard my husband who went to the hospital come back and said, "My dad is playing in the hospital, and he scolded my eldest brother-in-law!" The eldest brother-in-law is really good, you love to talk and scold, how should I serve. ”

My husband sighed: "It's not to blame anything else, it's just that there is no money." The eldest brother-in-law serves our father, and he can't skip eating, how expensive is it to eat in the hospital? My brother-in-law was distressed about money, so he picked cheap coarse grains to buy, and our father was angry when he saw it! Scolding him: Are you poor and lost? Or have you never eaten it in 800 lifetimes, and you're hungry for it? ……”

The second sister continued: "No, our father has ruined the eldest brother-in-law, and he doesn't even dare to come out!" Why doesn't our dad like his eldest brother-in-law, anyway, what he does is not right. I got it for my eldest brother-in-law, it's no way! ”

My husband said to me very emotionally: "It's really hard to be a big brother-in-law!" I will remember my eldest brother-in-law's kindness to serve my father for the rest of my life. ”

My father-in-law was discharged from the hospital quickly, and we were back in Shenyang soon. After a while, I caught up with the eleventh day, and the unit was on holiday, and my husband was bound to take a few days off (my husband sells meat to private individuals, and the time to take leave every month is really not less than taking Sundays, and sometimes he himself feels uncomfortable. Good thing the owner is very considerate).

My husband borrowed a camera from a friend and wanted to take a family photo with the family. At that time, the camera was still showing film, and my husband took pictures of everyone in the family, especially his daughter, when she was sleeping and awake. I remember we took her to the hill in front of the house, and she fell down while walking, and it didn't hurt, and I watched from the sidelines, trying to get her up on her own, and I didn't even want to walk over and pick her up.

Such an action, when my daughter was six or seven years old, she said to me: "Grandma told me that you don't love me at all, and when I was a child, you didn't even hug me when I fell." Before I was five months old, you left me alone! Hearing this, I felt an indescribable anger in my heart, I didn't expect my mother-in-law to talk to my daughter like this, no wonder my daughter has always hated me and didn't want to accept me!

I suddenly thought of my husband's nephew's evaluation of my grandmother, and her vicious language to my former eldest daughter-in-law, and I knew that she and my daughter had been very tolerant of me when they said this about me, and I even suspected that she had said the same thing about me in front of others. Many people's evaluation of her may not have wronged her mother-in-law at all.

I was very annoyed and said to my husband, "What do you think your mother said? What does she mean? Tell the child that I don't love her, just that she loves the child? As long as the child doesn't cry, does she care about anything else? ”

My husband can't seem to believe that his mother would talk like that? "There's no way my mom could talk like that!" Of course he believed in his mother, because his mother's love for him was so selfless and great, that he could even sacrifice his life to protect his children! She is indeed the most competent mother in the world!

But that doesn't mean she's the best mother-in-law in the world, she's a good person. No matter how cruel I am, I have to strike at my mother-in-law's beautiful image in my husband's heart: "Is the child lying? If your mother doesn't tell her child this, how will your child know about these things? ”

The husband still defends his mother: "She also inadvertently said that she leaked her mouth, specifying that there is nothing bad about it." Besides, my mom is so old, she must be a little confused. "I also believe in my mother-in-law's character, or I am really too suspicious.

She didn't know that I was unhappy because she was too thoughtful for her daughter everywhere, and she did everything that should be done for the child, except for the child to eat and go to the toilet. Every action she does for the child is so unacceptable in my eyes! For a while, I really didn't want to see her.

In my heart, I hope that my daughter is not so pampered, I hope that the least thing in life can be done by herself, I hope that my daughter will be self-reliant since she was a child, and get up wherever she falls, instead of encountering a little setback, she will know that she is dependent on adults, and she does not even have the most fundamental ability to survive life. Can you take care of her for the rest of your life? Will you always be her umbrella for the rest of your life?

In the eyes of my mother-in-law, I still love my children, but I really can't get used to it, I want my daughter to taste the hardships in life, know what is difficult, what is failure, and what needs to rely on herself! However, I found that our thinking was incompatible, and we could not communicate with each other about our children's problems, and I resented myself even more, regretting that I should not have left my daughter with my mother-in-law.

I really took a family photo that time, but I had to look at two photos to see all the people! Because there must be someone with a camera to take pictures of everyone, so my husband and I took pictures with our families separately, and we had to see my husband and I in two photos, and these are the only two family photos!

Or I'm not a member of this family at all, so the one with my husband can also be regarded as an authentic family photo!