Speaking of her father-in-law, her mother-in-law sighed pitifully and said, "Your father is really a miserable person!" His father died of illness when he was nine years old, and his mother was sold by a cousin to a family in a neighboring village where she was pregnant, but the family allowed her to take a five-year-old girl, your aunt. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info sold your grandmother's money, and the cousin ran away when he got it, but your grandfather's bones were not buried. At that time, your father also had a fifteen-year-old sister - your aunt, married to a bachelor who was more than 20 years older than her in the same tun, your aunt was small and honest, and she couldn't afford to be a family at all, and the man didn't care, he ate, drank, prostituted and gambled all day long, and he didn't care about his family, and he either beat or scolded his wife, and he didn't care about this side of the matter at all! Your aunt can't help it if she's in a hurry. ”

My mother-in-law raised her face to look at us, and continued in a somewhat vicissitudes of life: "At that time, there was really no way at all, your father was hard-headed, found a rich family in the tunzi, and begged grandpa to sue grandma's begging family, and said that it would be good to put cattle for three years for others, and exchange your grandfather for a coffin book!" He's only nine years old! For the coffin book of his deceased father, he sold himself in a daze! ”

I immediately thought of Dong Yong selling himself to bury his mother, and it turned out that the realistic version of Dong Yong was in front of my eyes, and he was also my amiable father-in-law! It can be seen that Tianxian is not a historical story completely divorced from reality? Although the father-in-law did not meet the Seven Fairies, presumably his filial piety will also move the heavens?

In front of my eyes, my father-in-law's thin face with wrinkles blooming from happy laughter appeared! He rarely spoke, especially in front of people he didn't like, and at most he snorted in a nasal voice or rolled his eyes at the person he hated. Of course, the white eyes of his father-in-law cannot be compared with the white eyes of Ruan Ji of the "Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest", but it also shows his true character of not pretending or pretentious.

I don't know what my mother-in-law thinks of my father-in-law's experience or how she feels. I only know myself, and after knowing these things, my respect for my father-in-law has increased invisibly. It is not difficult to see from his speech and demeanor: his father-in-law is the kind of person who values affection and righteousness, is kind, and does not hide treachery, in his eyes, one is one, no matter what benefits you give, it is absolutely impossible to become two.

The mother-in-law continued: "Your father really herded cattle for three years, and then worked everywhere, and he was reluctant to spend any of the money he earned, so he gave all the money to his hard-working sister. His sister gave birth to two children three years after marriage, and has been giving birth to nine, those children don't even have shoes in winter, and they run barefoot into the ice, and people's feet are not frozen, nor are they sick, do you think that thing is strange? Our child is covered all day long, and he is always sick. ”

"The family that your grandmother married later was really good, and the aunts and uncles that your grandmother brought with them were the same as their own (the man had no children). Later, I learned about your father, just in time for the recruitment, your father was young at the time, he didn't even have a hukou, he has always been a black household, and he has been working for others for many years, how can he know so much? If you can eat enough, you will be satisfied. It's still the family that your grandmother remarried, and she got a household registration for your father, and then found someone for the relationship, and gave a certificate, so that your father has his current job. When I married your father, he was almost thirty years old, and he had worked for so many years, and he never thought of marrying a daughter-in-law, and he didn't even have decent clothes! One day silently, I knew that I was working to save money, my dad thought he was honest and kind, but in fact, we were all deceived, it was all an illusion, your dad screwed it, and ran to the dark one by one. When the wedding date is set, ask him what he is ready? They said that the two shops and two covers were ready, and his sister prepared them, because he had to go to work, so he asked me to go to his sister's house to pick them up. ”

The mother-in-law recalled the scene back then: "I really went to his sister's house, and I didn't go anywhere, I just walked (the meaning of lifting my legs?). ）。 When I got there, I saw that this was home, nine children, not even a cotton coat, let alone cotton shoes, all wearing single clothes in winter, running barefoot outside. Because your aunt was young when she got married, she couldn't do needlework, cotton clothes, and cotton shoes. At that time, you had nowhere to spend any money, no wonder the children played the bill for 39 days! When I saw that the children were so pitiful, I had a good heart, and when I saw that no one suffered, I paid for cloth and cotton, and made padded jackets for them one by one, and wore one after another, but before the last one was finished, the first one was already broken. I can't afford it when I see it! ”

My mother-in-law seemed to suddenly remember something, looked at us and continued: "I originally went to get the futon for the wedding, but your father said that he sent all the money back to his sister, and to put it bluntly, let her make two beds and two covers." The result was done, take it out and take a look, the cover has no true color, the cotton is rolled, see that situation, what else do I take? I had to come back empty-handed. There are more than a dozen people in their family, and they are pulling three or four quilts, and they have also spent the winter, and the children have grown up! Your aunt really hasn't gotten good in her life, she has raised so many children, she has suffered a lot, she has suffered a lot, and when the children are older, she sees that life is better, she is gone, and she has not enjoyed a day of happiness! ”

At this time, my mother-in-law still felt a little aggrieved, or had a feeling of being deceived: "That's it, your father has no money, fortunately, my adoptive mother is distressed that I have prepared everything I can do, and we got married!" ”

After being silent for a while, the mother-in-law continued: "Didn't your father's class have health care, and your father was reluctant to eat the homemade stuffed steamed buns in the canteen, so he was hungry and saved, and when he got a sack, he sent it to his sister, and he was always worried that his sister and children would not have enough to eat." After getting married, you have your eldest brother, your father is still worried about your sister's family, and he saves bread to send every month, we are all rural households, and there is no land and no rations, and I can't eat and eat, thanks to your grandfather has a little family background, and from time to time Zhou helps us, your grandmother helps take the children to wash clothes and cook, she thinks my laundry is not clean, and she has not let me do these jobs when I am young. ”

Mother-in-law sighed a little sadly: "Your father has that sister in his heart, my mother brought me up since I was a child, and helped me take care of the children at home, but he didn't look down on my mother a bean, and he didn't dare to squeak when my father was there, but as soon as your grandfather didn't, he didn't look good, and the donkey's face sank all day long, who can watch it?" No way, my mom - I'm talking about the adoptive mother who brought me up since I was a child, she was already timid and scared, and she hasn't seen anything in the world, so why is my mother still stupid? No way, just when you were four or five years old, your grandmother was already in her sixties, but she had to walk down the aisle again (a woman remarried), there was no way until the last resort, who wants to take this step? How easy is it to get out of one house and into another? ”

The mother-in-law said that her eyes were red, and her voice trembled a little: "My mother did her best to bring me up, but in the end, she didn't borrow any strength at all. She was half-paralyzed less than half a year after she got married, if she was with me, could she get that disease? The family is okay, it's really good to my mother, I take your dad to work every day, I take you, secretly run to take care of your grandma, and when your dad gets off work, I'll rush back to cook, and at night I will be served by the wife I found later. Anyway, I have been serving my mother until death, and I am worthy of her raising me once! ”

The mother-in-law was sad mixed with some regret, and seemed to carry some relief and relief. I did my best, just be worthy of my heart, after all, I am a mortal, I can't go back to the sky, and I can't change anything? Birth, old age, sickness and death are also human nature.

My mother-in-law suddenly said fiercely: "Sometimes when I think of your father's scene with my adoptive mother, I really hate him, if it weren't for him, my adoptive mother would not have died so lonely and prematurely!" ”

My husband and I looked at each other, not knowing what to say? Will persuasion be useful?

The mother-in-law raised her eyes and looked at her husband and said: "Your father is small-minded, and he loses his temper at every turn, if I walk around with my relatives and six relatives, follow a part or something, your father will know, how many days will I get angry with you two, endlessly." Later, if something happened to anyone's family, I simply stole it and didn't let him know. ”

The mother-in-law rubbed her eyes: "At that time, your brother was fifteen or sixteen years old, let him take your two sisters, between your eldest brother and your eldest sister, spoiled a child, so they were five or six years old." Your eldest brother is not a thing, people throw away the two younger sisters and let them play by themselves. When I came out in the morning, I put the food in the pot, and when my old aunt saw me leave, they fed it to her pigs, and as a result, the two sisters were so small that they couldn't even eat. ”

The mother-in-law sighed: "Your brother knows all the time that he is crazy, fights outside and causes trouble, and someone will come to the door at every turn, either breaking the head of other people's children, or breaking other people's glass or something!" At that time, your brother was beaten all day long, and your father didn't like him when he looked at him, he was really an enemy in his previous life! When he is a little older, not only did he not collect, but he became more and more serious, and he was anxious to follow him day by day, I don't know what trouble will cause you? What do I look at? Just let your father retire from illness in advance, let your brother take over, and if he has a job, he can't cause trouble and fight anymore! When your father first said that he wouldn't do anything, he wanted to leave the job to his old son! Later, there was really no way, I couldn't watch him get into trouble all day long! ”

When she mentioned the eldest brother and mother-in-law, she was full of bitterness and anger, and she said helplessly: "Your eldest brother's uncompetitive thing, where does he still have parents, brothers and sisters in his heart?" When he goes to work, he eats and drinks nonsense, and the salary is not enough for him to make, and he drinks with fox friends and dogs all day long. A few days later, I took a daughter-in-law with my family, and my family didn't agree to deal with that object at the beginning. The woman is a monkey who is one year older than him, and they all say that the chicken and monkey are not headed, and people don't listen to you! Your two sisters don't approve either, guess what he says? He said to your two sisters, "What do you have to say?" I still don't agree, she's not a hundred times stronger than you! ”

Brother's words really made me gain knowledge, and the appearance of my sister-in-law is really unflattering, and I feel that it is really not as pleasing to the eye as my husband's two sisters. Maybe it's in the eyes of a lover, right? Maybe in the eyes of the eldest brother, the sister-in-law is Xi Shi and Yang Guifei?

The mother-in-law then recalled: "The family has never seen a penny of your eldest brother, your father gave him the class, and he was less sick and retired, and when he got married, he said that the living expenses were 5 yuan a month, and now the money is gross, and then it has risen to 10 yuan a month, and now it is 20 yuan a month." They always use the things they don't want to pay for them, you have to ask for those things if you don't want them, and people will take them back for you, and you can't go into other people's pockets to pay for them! Top it's top! Your father can't look down on those two people with black eyes and white eyes, and he will calculate it for you on this day. ”

Your eldest sister-in-law saw what she was pulling home, your second sister had a watch, and she washed her face and took it off and put it on the edge of the kang, and she didn't look for it when she turned around. The watch was gone for no reason, and after a few days, I thought about it and rummaged around, and Xiao Duo (the son of the eldest brother) was only a few years old, and the child told the truth, he said: "Auntie, don't look for it, my mother took the watch, and I saw it at home." "If this child didn't say it, who would have thought that she would take it? Who do you think this is? I said I would take my own things, but I was still looking for them here!