Chapter 435: Happiness
As for Li Qi's intention to advertise it so widely and make a big move to entertain his fathers and fellow villagers, Sichuan pepper can probably guess one or two. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info
After all, although ancient weddings do not gather and celebrate, but focus on the righteousness of husband and wife and the grace of marriage, the world does not think that this is a noisy and noisy thing.
The wedding of Chenguang, or "faint ceremony", is indeed very simple and clean, and there is no such thing as the complicated rituals of later generations, such as picking up hijabs and making holes, such as accepting congratulations from relatives and friends, frolicking, and sometimes going too far.
Husband and wife "eat together, eat together", and walk into the cave house hand in hand...... This is a solemn, elegant, and simple etiquette with the character of the Han nation.
Humble and respectful, strict regulation.
The faint dress is not the color of red and green, and the bride and groom will wear a dignified black dress.
Xuanse, which is the color of red in black, is the most sacred color that symbolizes the heavens according to the idea of the five elements.
The whole ritual that begins at dusk is quiet and serene, without sadness or hustle, and the quiet and delicate ritual may have a shocking power.
Maybe it's the kind of power that people want to capture today.
But in fact, since the Middle Ages, or the guests who attended the wedding gradually did not want to stop there, the folk gradually had the custom of teasing the bride, the so-called three days of the wedding has no size, and there is a saying of "happy and happy, the more noisy the more happy".
From that time on, the wedding ceremony began to be as lively as possible.
The gongs and drums are noisy, and the firecrackers are roaring in unison, which is extremely extravagant and complicated, and has become a custom for generations.
This is true all over the world.
At this time, on Li Qi, in the planning of his wedding, Li Qi was also like this, not only did he not think about avoiding vulgarity, but he even decided to be vulgar to the end.
Or because they want to receive more blessings, or because the wedding is already very lively, and in the future, there will naturally be less noise between husband and wife, and they can live in peace.
Or, maybe there is a side or or, the pepper didn't think much about it......
But in any case, after three days in a row, the flowing water mat was managed in an orderly manner, and time proved everything, and it really did not disappoint Li Qi, as well as the kindness of the Li family, with the same intentions, it can be said that it is the best of both worlds, and it can be counted in one fell swoop.
Related, irrelevant, almost all the fathers and villagers who were fortunate enough to participate in this marriage were immersed in this noisy, lively, and grand wedding process.
Even if the source of this happiness is different, it is an unprecedented moment that should be remembered by all.
Especially from the standpoint of Sichuan pepper, I feel sincerely moved for my sister Fennel.
No matter what it was, Li Qi did his best and gave Fennel a wedding about "eating, eating", and completely detaching from "eating, eating, eating".
Although the pepper has lived for two lifetimes, it has not had a chance to wear a red dress and a golden hairpin. But for the big red hijab, Huajiao has always had his own obsession in his heart.
Some people may say that everything on the side is empty, and if you live a good life, this is really good, and the wedding is just a formality, so you have to invest so much energy and financial resources, and even slap your swollen face and become fat, and toss a feast that is completely for others to see.
What's more, in the fast-paced modern society, no matter what, efficiency is the priority, and the wedding is completed with the least time and money cost, which may be the behavior that young people should have.
But in the eyes of Huajiao, there is only one wedding, which is worthy of everyone's heartfelt treatment, leaving no regrets and dissatisfaction.
After all, a wedding is not only a respect for the husband and wife and their families, but also for the relatives and friends who come to watch the ceremony.
At the same time, it can be said that it is the best memory of a pair of children, and it is a symbol of the maturity of both husband and wife. To put it more broadly, it is the crystallization of the efforts of two families, and even several generations of two families.
Even if you take a step back and say something unproductive, a grand wedding, both in terms of cost and energy investment is quite large, after marriage, the young couple will inevitably need to deal with the noisy Chenguang, thinking that they have spent so much money to hold a wedding, and they have sworn in front of so many people at the wedding, and they have moved so many people to cry......
Don't worry about this little bit of triviality in front of you.
It's not easy to get married, and divorce is not a very trivial matter, but it can't be said casually......
Well, who cares!
It doesn't matter if it's noisy or not, whether it's open, what the dishes are, whether the flowers are beautiful enough, whether the diamond ring is bright enough, whether the wedding dress is luxurious enough, whether the master of ceremonies is good enough, and everything about it......
Sichuan pepper just wants to go up in a red dress and be happy!
I just want the golden hairpin to be the head and cry!
In her previous life, Hua Jiao, who was always crying at other people's weddings, only thought that it was because she still had a princess dream in her heart, and she still longed for everything that was vulgar and vulgar, so she wanted a wonderful and beautiful wedding......
But suddenly, looking at the complex excitement mixed with blessings, sadness, strangeness, and even exaggeration, it seemed the most calm, and the whole body was filled with the purest happiness of fennel.
She also suddenly perceived that the origin of her extraordinarily sensitive awareness of the five senses may also come from the ritual sense of respecting heaven and earth and revering ghosts and gods......
Of course, this is just a little speculation about peppercorns that have never been experienced in person.
I haven't had the opportunity to experience it myself, and I still have more than enough energy to experience all this, and I can't have more insights.
However, at that moment, fennel, whose happiness has nothing to do with others, and whose life has nothing to do with herself in the hustle and bustle, may have seen herself for the first time and saw herself clearly.
Although Hua Jiao didn't know that her sister who had been opposite each other day and night had realized something, but since she became a young woman for half a year, the happiness between fennel eyebrows and Yu cannot be faked.
There is also the gentle and obedient Zuo in front of him at this time, although he has only been married for less than a day, but the tenderness that cannot be concealed by the corners of his eyes and eyebrows can be seen by Sichuan Pepper, which is also from the heart.
Huajiao suddenly felt that the sky was high and the sea was wide, and he couldn't say that he was comfortable, down-to-earth, and wanted nothing else.
happily saluted the Zuo family, received the meeting gift, and sealed the red.
Only Zuo's Rao is small and healthy, but early in the morning, it has taken nearly two hours to kneel down in the ancestral hall, the main hall, and the flower hall.
Although he recognized people and surnames, he recognized all the relatives in the family, and received a lot of meeting gifts, and he has silently kept these meeting gifts in his heart.
But I'm really tired enough.
However, the new daughter-in-law didn't dare to show the slightest outlet, and followed behind Yao's with a flawless smile, serving.
Sichuan pepper saw the dill and fennel sitting on the side gave Lilac a look, Lilac squeezed her eyes at the two for some unknown reasons, Sichuan Jiao smiled and stood on tiptoe, whispered two words in Lilac's ear, Lilac nodded again and again, shouted "sister-in-law", smiled and stepped forward to hold Zuo's arm.
It's just that her pull is not the same as the pull action of others.
It's almost walking with Zuo's on his back.
However, because Lilac has also practiced martial arts since childhood, not only is it not difficult, but outsiders can't see it at all.
Zuo's cup of cloves took two steps before he reacted, he was a little surprised, and thanked the cloves gratefully, and said quietly with a red face: "Thank you sister, I just told my sister to be tired, I can go by myself." ”
Lilac took her arm and didn't let go: "Sister-in-law, don't worry, I have a lot of strength, you just rely on me to take a breath." ”
This time, I had dinner with Zuo's side, and I responded to Yao's words with a smile, until I sent Zuo back to the house to rest, and Lilac said goodbye and left.
Even if Lilac didn't know the trick here, was straightforward and frank, and looked sincere, Zuo couldn't help but feel a fever on his face because he had something in his heart.
But this heart is warm, and I only feel that there is still a little worry about marrying far away, and suddenly because of the love of my mother-in-law and sister-in-law, it has become distant.
sent Lilac away, but Quanfu's mind still fell on Sister Lilac.
From the time they first met, Zuo had already noticed that these sisters in the family felt completely different from the sisters in her mother's family.
It's just that what's different, for a while, she can't say, she just likes it very much.
Especially with the exchange of letters, many sisters who are not very easy to talk about each other have a place to nag, and their relationship is becoming more and more intimate on the tip of the paper.
She liked it and rejoiced at the same time.
Even her mother, who had been a little depressed because she heard that they would not move out alone after they got married, finally cleared up.
But I feel that "sister-in-law, sister-in-law", sister-in-law is a petite, and many of them are also stirring up the Yellow River water is not clear, she can get along well with her sister-in-law, the mother-in-law, mother-in-law's family history is placed here, and the family background of the concubines who will enter the door in the future can no longer surpass her, although she can't move out to live her own small life, but this day, it is not very sad to think about it.
In this case, she has heard it and passed. But what Mama Guo told her again and again was firmly in her heart and never dared to forget.
But until this moment, although it was only half a day of getting along, it had already made her suddenly realize that a child who grew up in a family like her mother's family couldn't wait to learn to observe words and emotions from the moment she could speak. Although the sisters live together, they can talk and laugh, and it is quite lively, but the elders are all characters who can be called brothers and sisters even if they hate to stab them in the back, and it is difficult to think about it......
Perhaps, as Mama Guo said, the Qin family's rebellion is the ascendant Chenguang, which is more disciplined and of one heart and one mind than some down-and-out families who have fallen and scattered......
Zuo thought about his thoughts for a while, but he suddenly had two points of ambition.
If one day, her portrait can also be hung in her ancestral hall and worshiped by future generations, then her life will really not be in vain......
When she came back to her senses, everyone was in good spirits, so she asked Liu Yue, who had been guarding in the ear room and rushed to serve when she came back, took a pen, ink, paper and inkstone and recorded the meeting gift.
Brother Lobby came back, but he specially took the time to come back to visit her, and there was unconcealed concern in his eyes.
Zuo suddenly remembered the eyes of the lobby brother when he spent candles in the cave room yesterday, and his breathing became a little difficult, and he stood up with a "swish", his hand touched the account book in front of him again, and he shrank back violently as if he had been burned, and he was full of thoughts, all he knew if the Xiang Guild would think she was snobbish......
Zuo bit his lip and didn't dare to look at Brother Lobby's eyes again.
It's not that I don't have any memory for this idea, and I can't even do it when I can't do it, so I just have to rush to this Chenguang......
Brother Lobby didn't think much about it, and glanced down, but it was Zuo's hairpin flower that caught his eyes.
"The guests are all gone, you hurry up and take a breath, we have to go back early tomorrow morning!" Brother Lobby said, and said, "Do you want me to help you transcribe?" ”
As soon as the words fell, he looked at Liu Yue Taoyue, who lowered his eyebrows and lowered his head, squeezed Zuo's hand, and quickly let go.
Zuo couldn't help but be taken aback, and saw that the lobby brother was already walking quickly to the north house study, hesitated for a moment, pursed his lips, and still followed.
I saw that Brother Lobby had already taken out two red lacquer boxes from the bookcase, opened them and took a look, and then pushed them in front of her.
Pointing to one of the boxes, he told her, "There are more than two hundred taels of silver here, which is my private room, and you will keep it in the future." He pointed to another box: "These two land deeds are the private property purchased by the family for us, a grange of more than 300 acres, and a courtyard with two entrances and two exits, and you have also collected them." ”
He also told her that she knew: "The grange has been tenanted out, and the yard has been rented out, and we can almost have an income of four or five hundred taels a year......
Zuo didn't listen to a word, not only did he panic, but his tears were about to fall: "No, no need, let's take it for the public!" ”
My head was about to drop to my chest.
Brother Lobby had already heard that Zuo's tone was not quite right, and the conversation had stopped.
Although he doesn't know what happened to Zuo, he has a wealth of experience in getting along with his sisters, but he also knows some of the complicated thoughts of his daughter's family.
He said, "Don't be afraid, this is the right thing to do." He stepped forward again and took her hand: "We are a husband and wife who share hardships and hardships!" ”
Zuo was startled, raised his head, and his eyes that were still shining with tears were immersed in the eyes of Brother Lobby again......