Chapter 13 Cause and effect follow each other, not afraid of backlash and laughter
2011-9-4 Week Seven
The weather was a little cold, Lin got up very early, opened Q at 5:05 and replied to his friend's words. Pen ~ fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info friends are very concerned about the masterpiece, and every paragraph has been read carefully, and suggestions for revision have been given. Mainly for the discussion of history, Lin's point is that history is not true, and people in the world make history for the sake of its name. The second is about excellent girls, for beauty and excellence, in fact, every man will chase, whether it is suitable is another thing, and what is not suitable can also become suitable.
Lin Huiyin once said: "I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world, no matter when, no matter where, anyway, you know, there is always such a person." Lin holds the same opinion, so he is not in a hurry to find his girlfriend, but does what he likes and listens to the voice of the heart, including the brave and cowardly side. According to the Law of Attraction, if everything he does is what he likes, then he will attract to him the good things he expects to get. This is one of Lin's practices of this law. Therefore, Lin will define his life as a sociological experimental model, he tries to set a goal, find the most suitable theory, practice to get the results, and then share it with everyone. In this way, he solves his personal problems, as well as the problems of others.
At 9:00, Lin took the train to Liuzhou to buy high-purity nitrogen, and the comrades from the equipment department had already transported the new bottles to Liugang, and Lin only needed to sign the custody agreement and pay the money to return to Lingkun City. Arrived in Liuzhou at 14:00, ate a bowl of Liuzhou screw noodles, and took the bus to the north gate of Liugang. The thing in charge of the agreement was a girl surnamed Huang, slightly chubby, very kind, capable, wearing blue overalls, just came out of the workshop, Lin explained the intention, and the two of them said a few words. Ms. Huang said that there is no problem with the gas supply, but the cylinders should be fully integrated into the circulation. Because there is no high-nitrogen production line in Lingkun City, such a request can only be agreed. At 20:00, Lin took the train back to his home, put down a boulder in his heart, and thus the gas supply problem of an instrument was solved.
Monday, September 5, 2011
In the morning, Lin made an appointment with a few students to test the sample, and the best time was from 8 o'clock to 12 o'clock, with a one-hour break, and then until 18 o'clock in the afternoon. But the average student can't get up so early, so it drags on until 10 o'clock. Lin first helped the students turn on the machine, then made corrections, and then let the students test. Today's sample is a nanomaterial, and the student who tested it is named Chen Tao, a young man who is as nimble as a monkey. Chen Tao often complained to Lin, saying that he had a headache and did not sleep well. Therefore, how many forests are carrying a little bit in their hearts and taking care of a little bit. Then, Lin inadvertently made a joke. When Chen Tao was testing, he encountered a sample that was not normal, so he asked Lin to see it. Lin set it up as he had done and clicked on the Run icon, but instead of performing the test as planned, the instrument stopped there. So Lin blurted out, "Why can't you Run!?" As a result, Chen Tao and several classmates laughed half to death and said, "Teacher Lin, you are really funny." But Lin was not laughing in his heart, but worried that the instrument must be out of order. So he hurriedly repaired it, and finally restored the operating system, and then restarted the control computer, troubleshooting. When Chen Tao continued to test, Lin secretly sighed, "It's so dangerous!" If you don't keep a backup of the system in advance, it will not be a question of whether to run or not, but a problem of spending tens of thousands of yuan to hire an engineer to repair it.
After the test is completed, the general administrator burns the data with a disc and then hands it to the students, and Lin's method is to copy it with a special U disk, and then send it to each student by email, which is also risky, because the U disk and computer used by Lin must be safe? So, some teachers questioned Lin's management, saying, "The computer and USB flash drive you use may also have viruses, so why can't you use ours." Lin replied: "I know that the computer and USB flash drive I use are safe, one is guaranteed by anti-virus software, and the other computer knows the websites and resources browsed by the computer, so I know that my USB flash drive is safe." For teachers and students, email is safe and secure because it is anti-virus through the website. With such an explanation, everyone felt that it was reasonable, and there was nothing to say.
14:30 When Berchick came to the laboratory, Lin told him about his suffering.
Lin said: "I feel that it is difficult for our work to be recognized by everyone. ”
He said, "How?" ”
"For example, students and teachers, they want your test results to get better and better, and if he says you are doing well, you are lax, so he can't admit that you are doing well," Lin said. ”
Bo said: "Yes, maybe you even measure 100 high-quality data, only 1 low-quality, others only remember that one, forget the 100 efforts you made, but this is human nature, and you are helpless." ”
Lin said: "I once helped someone else to test samples, and I made a lot of mistakes, and I told the other party, and the other party went to sue for a lawsuit. Actually, I was wrong? It's just that there are too many samples, and there is no helper, and he had a bad cold at the time", "Therefore, he would not think that Mr. Lin would help me test so many samples with such a severe cold, he only thought that you got my sample wrong, and it was your responsibility." "However, if you have any opinions, you can tell me directly, and your students can test them themselves in the future." ”
Lin was fortunate that there weren't too many people who put forward his opinions back then, so the leader just reminded him, but he always remembered this in his heart.
Lin said: "The leaders will not recognize us either. ”
He said, "Yes." ”
Lin said: "So our situation is very sad, even if we work hard, we can't get the recognition of the leaders, and we can get the recognition of the students if we are lucky." ”
Bo said, "It depends on what level you want to work in." If you're looking for everyone's approval, then you might have to spend 3 times as much as you do now, which might be okay. If you do, you won't be able to carry out your own research and work. "If you want to work with a clear conscience, then you don't care too much about the leader's opinion and other people's opinions, just pay attention to your own conscience. ”
Lin said: "I hope that my work will have a head, even if it is only theoretically possible, and can be recognized by the leadership." "But I don't think it's possible, because I know how hard I put in, and if I can't be recognized for this level of dedication, I feel that this job is very hopeless. ”
Bo said: "In fact, many Dayi managers are in this situation, you don't have to think about it, but ask for peace of mind." ”
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Lin later talked about this topic with his mother in the evening, and her mother thought so: "From my own work experience, such a phenomenon will exist, sometimes you do a lot but may not be recognized by others." But don't be discouraged, you have to remember that gold always shines. If you can think of others in everything, will others not feel it? If you don't get recognized for your hard work in one year, then what about two or three years, maybe everyone will eventually recognize you, as long as you persevere enough. As for the work level, I actually want you to be happy. No amount of recognition matters, the key is whether your heart is happy or not. ”
Lin took the opportunity to chat with his father, and his father said this: "I know that you care about other people's evaluations, which is very good, and it is a very conscientious performance for work." But you have to understand what is most important to you? No matter how well you do your work, others may not necessarily affirm you, but if you can publish high-level articles in scientific research, others will definitely affirm you. That's what you want to be clear. ”
King Arthur said, "You have been recognized, but you are not aware of it." ”
Lin said, "Why? ”
King Arthur said, "When students come to your lab and everyone laughs and does experiments, what more can you ask for?" "What more could you ask for when they trust you so much that they tell you what is in their hearts? "The leader's opinion is a kind of affirmation from the superiors, which cannot be easily made, and requires you to work harder. ”
Haha said: "Be content, which unit is not like this, you think so much." ”
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
At 8:30 in the morning, Xia Yuyu suddenly rushed in and opened heavy fire on Lin. The reason is that Lin didn't notify her when the engineer came a few days ago. The result of this earthquake was enough to trigger a tsunami, and Lin's explanation was to forget. I forgot what the concept is, that you have a week, theoretically at least seven chances to notify Natsu, but you don't.
Lin remembered a time when he had a falling out with a bald teacher, and that time the bald teacher didn't get angry, but Lin was depressed for a year or two. That kind of psychological torture is unbearable for ordinary people. This time the summer rain is obviously attacking, and how long will Lin adjust? In fact, it was a full week, and Lin was thinking about how to deal with this matter. Lin has been depressed too many times in his life, too many times he has endured it, too many times others have been dissatisfied, too many times he has felt wronged, too many times he has not dared to say his thoughts.
A week later, Xia Yuyu came to visit with Sansheng Stone, and at the end of the day, Xia Yuyu said: "I hope you don't mind the things of the first few days, but you should really inform me in advance, this is a respect for me, and I still need your strong support for future work, I hope you can work in your current position with peace of mind." The students in the group like you very much, and I hope that you will guide them in experimental techniques when you have time. ”……
Nearly a month later, Lin returned to his normal state of mind and emerged from the shadow of the conflict. He still feels lucky, because the psychological offensive and defensive time is relatively short, and the anxious time is relatively short. But he has always had a shadow, and if he hadn't woken up at that time, he would have died a miserable death if he had not suddenly woken up at that time. When Lin's friends and others felt that Lin's work was comfortable and comfortable, they didn't see how many mountains there were on the forest, they didn't know that Lin had to walk a tightrope every day, and they didn't know what the gap tasted like.
Then Lin knew one thing, women like to use psychological torture when dealing with conflicts, in short, it makes the other party unhappy, that is, painful and itchy. But from Lin's own point of view, he wants to advise women not to use this trick as much as possible. Just a suggestion, of course. Because others are unhappy, they won't make you comfortable. If there is a problem to solve the problem, if it can't be unified, it will part ways, and everyone will be happy.
Haha said: "You, old problem, be positive." ”
2011-10-13 Thursday
At 9 o'clock, Lin remembered an experimental test, and his companion added the wrong medicine, and he was completely correct, and the result was that his companion was higher. Do you know what the concept of adding the wrong medicine is? It's the equivalent of adding sugar to a dish that should be salted, and you hit your feet when it's time to clap your hands. Therefore, the examination is unfair, and the quantification may not be objective. People shouldn't interfere with many things, but they often interfere. On the other hand, perhaps this is an explanation of fate, and he should go to the next process.
For ordinary people, our consciousness is often much higher than those who judge us, because people who have the power to judge often do not even meet the most basic requirements of life, and he is in a high position not because he is doing well, but because everyone is still willing to put up with him as a leader, and because of the mutual interests that give him the opportunity to sit in this position. And when he was deeply congratulated and made a statement on behalf of everyone, everyone couldn't sit still at the bottom and couldn't help whispering; When he shines and announces the results he is most proud of, everyone thinks that it is the darkest place. But he pretended not to know, and he was very happy. Such a contrast only shows that the people now have a higher level of self-cultivation and tolerance. And some people endure all their lives without expressing their rights, just because his determination is not enough. It's still the same sentence, you say it, at least you have expressed it, and the leader knows that he will adjust and deal with it. If you don't say it, it means that you completely accept that you have no opinion. The two are worlds apart. And one professor put it this way: "A world without dissenting opinions is terrible." Lin agreed.
Haha said, "You seem to have a lot of negative emotions." ”
Lin said: "When morality is used as guilt to be applied to you, it must be unpleasant. "All I did was to liberate myself and knock out the guilt, the responsibility, the insecurity, the darkness that others had imposed on me. "For the sake of my future, for the future of my family, I will fight for my personal rights. "If I'm scared, then any decision I make is wrong. "I'm just dispelling my fears. ”
12:10 Lin added a stranger as a friend on QQ, and the girl asked him: "Who", Lin replied: "I don't like it, I don't bother." ”
At 15:00, everyone asked Lin to organize air volleyball in the group, and the time was after work, so Lin began to look for the phone numbers of sports activists from the phone book, and dialed them one by one to invite them to participate in the ball playing activities, and soon gathered enough 10 people, colleagues were in high spirits, and when they met each other, they had to ask "Do you want to play ball in the afternoon?" "This kind of sportsmanship spreads and makes people more motivated and motivated to work.
When passing by the party member propaganda column in the hall on the first floor, Lin found that the three on it were leaders and one was the masses. Lin's thought was, "Why don't you publicize the young Dayi managers, they work hard and pay a lot, and if they establish a sense of honor as a party member, their work will be more motivated." And this kind of regional party member cultural propaganda also reflects the party organization's care, help, and affirmation for young comrades. "Looking at the leadership, there are too many publicity opportunities, why should there be them everywhere?
At 17:40, everyone's skills have improved a lot compared to previous years, so Lin's attack is very limited, and he is not as handy as when he first started playing volleyball in 2005. If in 2007, it was Lin's offense that made everyone laugh; If at this time, everyone laughed at Lin's performance, the reason is very simple, Lin has just recovered and his combat power is limited, his natural level is much lower, and his reaction is not fast enough.
At 19:40, after the game ended, due to the energy consumption of the forest, he was troubled by the backlash, and he hurried home under the invasion of noise, and hurriedly rested after dinner. This feeling is always evident after work and is often affected. Therefore, Lin has never had a good impression of Hao, and he will be accompanied by noise for life. Unless he is strong enough to counteract the power of the noise, he can only surrender. Then Lin said to the murmur, "Listen, you who play the murmur, you will eventually receive the retribution of samsara, and I am not afraid of you." If you don't believe in cause and effect, then just wait and see. ”