50. Where did Daddy go?

The popular "Where Are You Going, Dad" on a satellite TV has mixed reviews, some people say it is a public welfare parent-child column, and some people say it is a celebrity show. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info is like the variety show that they don't know but makes countless boys and girls crazy, and they are blocked by many parents because they are boring, it seems that the ratings are really the only one. Anyway, I'm worried about some of the kids. Are we tearing their wounds apart and sprinkling a handful of fine salt on them?

There is no doubt that the second generation of stars flew from the bustling city to the remote countryside under the stars and surrounded by dozens of cameras. In just a few days, they experienced rural life like a glimpse, but in front of the camera, the withered and dilapidated countryside is more like a primitive playground, the unkempt local farmers are gone, the ragged left-behind children are gone, and some are just the second generation of glamorous stars. Are they showing off the delicate happiness of the second generation of stars? Or is it destroying the hearts and minds of the remaining children?

This involves at least three groups. First, there are as many as 60 million or 70 million left-behind children; second, millions of children whose parents have had to be hospitalized due to the bad luck of life; The third is the children whose parents have unfortunately left the world and gone to heaven, or those orphans who are born without knowing who their parents are. So, can they ask "where is Daddy" like the second generation of stars?

The innocence of children may be unimaginable to you, maybe they even have a problem eating, and going to school is simply a luxury. Maybe he's been running to the hospital since he was a kid, maybe they don't know what their parents look like. I only remember that some children's parents work outside all the year round, and it is rare to even see their parents.

Life changes, leaving home, illness, death, the death of those loved ones, divorce or separation of parents, witnessing discord and violence between parents, sudden financial changes in the family, loss of beloved pets, moving to another school, etc. When children ask questions like "Where's Daddy?" what kind of answers do they hear?

When your child misses his father, he may hear, "Don't think about him from now on!" This man is not worthy to be your father! He never took care of you. Later you forget about him! You might hear, "Dad? We miss him too. If he's around you, where do you want him to take you? "In the days without Dad, children often see such programs, and are used to hearing songs like "Daddy Daddy, where are we going", I can't say that he has no ideas.

Of course, some people say that with such a mentality, how to do a good job in a column? What about innovation? However, in the face of so many children who are not accompanied by their parents, it is inappropriate and immoral to say, "Where is Daddy?" In the face of so many poor people who are hungry and clothed, what "happiness" do we have, such ******** is depressing, no wonder we will be banned by parents.

On March 1, 2015, cross talk actor Gong Hanlin talked about the reality show, saying that he hoped that every actor could not lose his conscience, violate his conscience, and have no conscience to entertain, in exchange for everyone's eyeballs, ratings and money.

Gong Hanlin emphasized that he is not against reality shows, but some programs overemphasize the efficacy of entertainment, and the sunshine and inspirational publicity are not seen, but what is seen is that minors can make money through such a form, which is terrible. He also said that actors should make good films and good plays, not to entertain everyone with games, if so, then the value of your existence seems to be much less, and emphasized that "entertainment cannot be lawless".

In the left-behind children's version of "Where Did Dad Go", he said: I often be alone at home / the door is not out of the door / the change of the seasons through the window / watching his way home. Daddy, Daddy, where are you now/Lonely and scared every night. At this time, do we say, "Son, I am working in a distant country, I am recuperating in a hospital, or that I have gone to heaven?"