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Recently (April 2015), a news broke the Internet: a wife who has been paralyzed at home for 20 years abandoned her husband who took care of her for 20 years, eloped with a netizen, and wanted to divorce her husband seven days later. Frankly speaking, Mr. Zhu was "shocked" by the news at first.

It is said that the husband went out to buy vegetables that day, and then his paralyzed wife Xia was carried into the car by netizens and left the home where he had lived for 20 years. Seven days later, Mr. Wang, the husband, called his wife, only to learn that he was going to divorce him.

After the news, the majority of netizens overwhelmingly condemned the paralyzed woman for not understanding love, not cherishing the feelings between husband and wife, and actually going out of the wall with red apricots when her body was paralyzed. Someone used the lyrics of the song "Three Sets of Cars" to describe the woman: The suffering awaits her in the future.

The accusations of netizens are not unreasonable. However, I was deeply surprised that I didn't see a single word of accusation against that "netizen" throughout the article. First of all, I want to make my attitude clear, Mr. Zhu Zhi is "very angry", and feels that except for the paralyzed woman, the two men are extremely hateful.

The first is this "netizen", which is the shame of men. I don't know who his name is or where he comes from, but "if you don't do anything, you will be a traitor or a thief", this is an ancient adage, and you must not believe it. There must be a reason why this person does not spare even a paralyzed woman, an old woman, or a married woman. The impression of the story is unreliable, whether the two met before eloping and had deep contact is unknown, the paralyzed woman is old, inconvenient, has little communication with outsiders, and has little experience, so she is naturally easy to be deceived. However, people can be impulsive, but it is also an eternal truth that they abandon at the beginning and at the end, and everyone is like this, let alone a paralyzed old woman? Could that man be a human trafficker? He sold the paralyzed woman? Perhaps, this guy is a deflated three, and he has not been able to marry, so he can only starve and choose food, and find a paralyzed woman to vent; Or, the "netizen" is actually a relative of the paralyzed woman and took the paralyzed woman away? In short, these are all a fog, and there is no follow-up report, except for the parties, no one is clear.

Also, it's the husband. In the eyes of most people, paralyzed patients are unable to take care of themselves and need to be taken care of by others and become a burden to others. But the news said that her husband had taken care of her for 20 years, and he asked his cousin-in-law to take care of her at home before he went out to buy groceries and left home, and after finding out that his wife had eloped, he called the hotline again to ask the reporter to persuade his wife to change her mind, and there was no complaint or accusation against his wife between words, which shows that he does take good care of his wife and is very affectionate. But I don't understand, since the husband loves his paralyzed wife so meticulously, why would the wife "elope"? Knowing that if netizens turned against her, she would only have a dead end, but she "eloped" without hesitation, which made people suspicious of her husband's behavior. The wife is paralyzed all the year round, does the husband dislike it, and does he have domestic violence (cold or hot)? Do you feel superior, superior, and aggressive? In reality, how many husbands and wives are separated from each other, when fate is exhausted and they turn against each other, they hate each other to the core, and they can't wait for each other to leave. In any case, a 40-year-old paralyzed woman eloped with a netizen is really incomprehensible. But it seems to be "reasonable".

In the end, Mr. Zhu Zhu also despised the actions of this "short-circuited" woman, and it was too shameless to "go out of the wall" when she had a husband. I am not a feminist or sexology expert, and I can't say: "How many men a woman sleeps with is enough", "************ is not a sin" and other shameless and stinking remarks that have been left for thousands of years. If these "experts" were in Singapore, they would have to be flogged and jailed; If it is abroad, it will also be criticized and written, but in the mainland, it can be unabashed and "speak freely".

From Mr. Zhu Zhi's previous "Who Did Liu Sanjie Marry", we can know how far the world has gotten into a mess. If freedom reaches the point where "you can eat indiscriminately and talk indiscriminately", then you don't need this kind of freedom.