Of course, Zhang San here is fictional. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info If it weren't for Zhang San, it would be Li San, Li Si, or Wang Er Mazi, in short, there was such a person. It's just that whether he is pitiful or not, you still have the final say.

When I was in college, it was in the 80s of the last century, and students were not allowed to fall in love. Suddenly, one day, on the bulletin board outside the school cafeteria, a notice said that Zhang San (can only say Zhang San) and his girlfriend "hey" were punished with a major demerit, which made many people gasp, cold down their spines, and hugged Zhang San upright.

It took a long time for things to turn around. On 29 March 2005, the Ministry of Education promulgated the new Regulations on the Administration of Students in Ordinary Institutions of Higher Education and the Code of Conduct for Students in Colleges and Universities. The provision in the original regulations that "students who marry without authorization during their studies at school and fail to go through the withdrawal procedures shall be treated as withdrawing from school" has been revoked. At this point, the ban on college students not being allowed to marry was officially lifted. From prohibiting college students from falling in love at school to not advocating college students to fall in love, from strictly prohibiting college students from getting married to not prohibiting college students from getting married, it makes people sigh.

When we were in college, we were all extremely simple, and as soon as we entered the school, the school rules clearly stipulated: you are not allowed to fall in love during school, and marriage is unheard of. In 1990, the Ministry of Education promulgated the Regulations on the Administration of Students in Ordinary Institutions of Higher Learning: "Students who marry without authorization during their studies at the University and fail to go through the withdrawal procedures shall be treated as withdrawal from the University." On May 9, 2004, two college students in Chengdu, Liu and Luo, kissed in the classroom at night, which was recorded by the school's surveillance video equipment. On May 20, the university ordered the two to withdraw from the university in accordance with Article 13, Paragraph 3 of the University's Regulations on Disciplinary Punishment of University Students, which stipulates that "those who have committed illegal sexual acts shall be expelled from the university", and their final exams were cancelled.

However, on May 1, 2004, Wang Yang, who was still in college, and his lover Liu Hang walked into the wedding hall hand in hand. The wedding of "college student Wang Yang", which has been concerned by the national media, is finally "a fait accompli". Although the Ministry of Education has issued new regulations to relax restrictions on the age and marital status of college entrance examination candidates, in this context, some colleges and universities have also begun to relax the marriage restrictions on current students. Later, the new "Marriage Law" was promulgated, which lifted the restrictions on the marriage of college students, which made whether college students can get married while in school became a hot topic.

A "hey", let Zhang San be ashamed. That black-and-white proclamation made many young people and girls tremble. We always feel that Zhang San is too wronged. After a few more years, college students are accustomed to falling in love and having sex, and we look back and see that Zhang San is not only wronged, but wronged.

A college classmate of mine opened a hotel next to the First Affiliated Hospital of Nanning Medical University. Unexpectedly, it was not all people who came to see the doctor, but college students who came out to open a room "hey". This stimulated him a lot, and he said to his wife: Will our daughter "go to college" like this in the future? Unable to bear the torment of conscience, they closed the hotel.

In the past, we were not allowed to fall in love, and we were not allowed to say "hey"; Now, we are advocating to fall in love and "try marriage", and the change is too fast. If Zhang San also saw this, what would he think? Experts say that from the past when it was strictly forbidden for college students to fall in love to today when college students are not allowed to get married, we can clearly see that there have been several changes in the middle, and it should be said that each change was formulated according to the political, economic, and cultural conditions of the society at that time, especially the situation of college students themselves, and it is reasonable of the times. Is this reasonable?

Before the promulgation of the new "Regulations", the question of "whether college students can get married", which should belong to the rights and interests of college students, was not officially raised, and the society's view of college students was that they should focus on their studies and take falling in love as their main business. No wonder, "Turn on your mobile phone during class, and you are not allowed to fall in love on campus." The "Ten Prohibitions on Campus" of the School of Science and Technology of Nanchang Hangkong University will arouse strong concern from the society.

Some people believe that the "Ten Prohibitions on Campus" is not to interfere with or restrict students' freedom, but to guide students to develop good personal habits. However, don't have a university rule that doesn't allow students to fall in love, and don't expel students for being in a relationship. There's a saying that's true: you can fall in love, we can all understand it, but you must not cuddle in public.

Recently, I heard that a boy in Shangqiu School in Henan Province was expelled from school for confessing his love to women. It turned out that the boy Guo "forcibly made a public confession to classmates of the opposite sex, seriously disrupting the normal order of life on campus", and after the school teacher dissuaded him, Guo not only did not listen to the dissuasion, "and called the police 110 to falsely accuse the dissuasive staff". In addition, the matter also reached the point of "calling parents", and Guo "scolded in front of parents and wanted to beat the teachers present". In the end, Guo was expelled from school. I think it's not about love, it's self-inflicted.

Zhu Zhu is also a person from the past, can you fall in love in college? I think it's going to be split in two. If you and the other person are in the same heart, there should be no rules and precepts at all times; If it's love for the sake of falling in love, then there's no need.

In the face of this ever-changing world, what does Zhang San think?

I sympathize with you, poor Zhang San.