Speaking of the classic songs of the Chinese music scene "Downstream and Against the Current" and "Don't Decorate Your Dream" must be no stranger, like thunder, her original singing, lyrics and composition is Cai Guoquan, as a heavyweight singer in the Chinese music scene in the 80s of the last century, he has long been away from the eyes of fans, because a traffic accident in 2002 caused him to fall into a lifelong disability, unable to take care of himself, and now he can only live in a nursing home, relying on the help of friends, life is very miserable. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

On the morning of July 25, 2014, Liu Shanling, a famous anchor of Phoenix Satellite TV, suffered a cerebral hemorrhage at her home in Hong Kong and was sent to the hospital in time. Ms. Liu, who is only 37 years old and originally from Taiwan, hosted weekend "Entertainment News" and fashion programs on TVBS, and later hosted travel shows. In March 2004, he joined Hong Kong Phoenix Satellite TV and was responsible for hosting a number of news programs including "News Today". However, she had a shocking cerebral hemorrhage.

On January 16, 2015, the 33-year-old singer Yao Beina died of a recurrence of breast cancer. On the morning of January 20, Yao Beina's farewell ceremony was held at the Shenzhen funeral home, where Yao's relatives and friends and thousands of fans gathered to see her off for the last time. After the farewell ceremony, Yao Beina's father, Yao Feng, was interviewed. During the visit, when asked about Yao Beina's unfortunate death of cancer, Yao Feng said that his daughter did not complain before her death, and once said with a smile, "All this is fate!" ”

Yes, she graduated from the Singing Department of the China Conservatory of Music, is a Chinese pop female singer, and a former soloist of the Song and Dance Troupe of the Political Department of the Navy of the Chinese People's Liberation Army (retired in 2009). In 2008, he won the gold medal of pop singing in the 13th CCTV Young Singer TV Grand Prix, becoming the first 100-point champion in the history of the Youth Song Competition; In the same year, he participated in the singing ceremony of the closing ceremony of the Beijing Olympic Games. In June 2012, he released his first album "Little Hair", and in the same year, he sang the theme song "Red Face Tribulation" and all the episodes in the TV series "The Legend of Zhen Huan in the Harem", sang the promotional song "Painting Love" of the movie "Painted Skin 2", and sang the theme song "River of Life" of Feng Xiaogang's movie "1942". In 2014, he sang the ending song "Let It Be" of the Oscar-winning animation "Frozen". In 2014, he appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala of the Year of the Horse again, and sang the finale song "Tianyao China" before the clock struck zero. On April 26, she won the Best Female Singer of the Year on MusicRadio China's Top Chart. In December 2014, she participated in the Tencent Music reality show "Hi Song". On January 18, 2015, the Organizing Committee of the 15th Huading Awards held a special commemorative session to reserve the trophy of "China's Most Popular Singer of the Year" for her. She has such an excellent life, but she died at the age of 33, what is it if it is not life?

Everything is fate. Carina Lau suffered a cerebral hemorrhage at such a young age, and Yao Beina died young, all of which were fate. Just like Zhu Zhi is now disabled due to illness, but there are many people who are older than me, there are people who have higher blood pressure than me, there are many people who drink more than me, and there are many people who are more tired than me, why do I have a terrible disease? That's not fate, but what?

I think of Chen Kai, a college classmate and fellow countryman, his father, who was the deputy director of our municipal agricultural bureau, went to Gabon, Africa, and his wife is still a farmer, he is a very witty person, pointing to two shops on our South Gate Street (now they are worth a lot) and saying to his son: "Oh, this is your grandfather's, he is a good gambler, and it has not changed hands." "Yes, it's yours now, and it's not necessarily yours forever. That's fate.

Of course, there are also those who don't believe in fate, a young man surnamed Huang in the same ward as Zhu Yun, only 34 years old, and he knew that he had an incurable disease since he was 4 years old: myasthenia gravis. But he has been seeking medical advice, and his condition is well controlled. He said to me: "Fate is too heavy to say." The famous Chilean writer Ayandi said: The whole life, in fact, can be said in one sentence, is to fight with life. So, in the face of bad luck, should we submit or fight?

Many times people daydream that if I had been born into a well-to-do family in the city, I would not have suffered from studying to escape the hardships of the countryside; If my parents were officials or wealthy, I wouldn't have lost my job as soon as I graduated; If I had a high-paying job, I wouldn't have lived so poorly; If I am healthy, I will not drag down my children and my family; If......

However, there are arrangements in the dark, whether we are happy or not, whether we want to or not. After his own efforts, he can only obey the arrangement of fate and providence. There is no need to complain, and do not give up on yourself, and do not force anything. When my sister Yu Miao died, I felt fate even more strongly; And my own illness led me to believe that it was fate. What is it? Is it retribution? Is it a kind of reincarnation? I remembered everything I had done since I was a kid, like stealing a neighbor's egg, but I had no idea. Now when we hear how much money someone wants to earn and how big an official he is, we can't help but laugh dumbly: How can we do what we want? In Du Feiyang's lyrics and music "Struggle of Fate", he said: I fight with fate / Let me rewrite this life / Forever and forever stand on this road. It's easier said than done.

In search of solace, I joined several recovery QQ groups similar to my condition, and both patients and family members agreed that everything was fate. I can see everyone's helplessness and despair.

Therefore, Carina Lau and others can be relieved, it turns out that all this is fate. Even though life is so unfair, we have suffered so much. Think about those people who are more unfortunate than us, such as Luo Yang, the commander-in-chief of J-15 and chairman Shen Fei, who died of a heart attack on November 25, 2012, only 51 years old; Liu Yanxi, a researcher at the Shanghai Academy of Biological Sciences, Chinese Academy of Sciences, died of cancer on July 16, 2011, at the age of 44; Zhang Shengyu, chairman of Beijing Tong Ren Tang, died of a heart attack on July 22, 2008 at the age of 39; Wang Junyao, a Zhejiang tycoon, chairman of JuneYao Group, died of intestinal cancer on November 7, 2004, only 38 years old; And the famous Hong Kong actor Teresa Teng died of uterine cancer on December 30, 2003, at the age of 40. Compared to them, we are also lucky.

In fact, life is like this, many times, many people rely on 1% of the effort and 99% of the fate to achieve life, sometimes you think that you have thought about all angles, and you should work hard to do it, and you will feel that there is no problem, everything will be fine, but the result can not be controlled, as long as God a bullet finger, the moment of error, everything is different. However, the result is like that, making you laugh and helpless. I can't help but sigh: fate, this is fate.

Mrs. Zhu told me that more than 20 years ago, in the 80s of the last century, she knew through a blind fortune teller that she would marry me, and I was destined to have this disaster when I was in my 40s. Even the disease I suffered from was very consistent with the outcome. I was so shocked that I was meant to be like this! But I also wondered, is there such a god as a fortune teller? Can he know when the end of the world is? It seems that the illusory thing of fate is "if you believe, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not have it".

Singer Geng Chengqing said in "Destined": You make me believe that there is a destiny. Singer Andy Lau said in "Providence": Everything is fate, everything is providence, and no one can escape. The poet Kitajima said in his poem "Everything": Everything is fate / Everything is a cloud of smoke / Everything is the beginning without an end / Everything is a fleeting pursuit / All joy has no smile / All suffering has no tears Now I also believe that it is really fate, and we cannot escape it.

Of course, we still have to struggle in the face of bad luck. "Birds poop have to wait under the sky", we can't just tie our hands and catch them, right?