My friend's son was admitted to the university and was about to invite a "teacher appreciation banquet" to thank the teacher, but he was strongly opposed by his son. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info asked the reason, saying that in the first year of high school, because of falling in love, he was scolded by several teachers in front of the whole grade classmates, and the head teacher also threatened: If people like you can be admitted to college, Lao Tzu will never teach again! Unexpectedly, this guy was angry and actually got admitted to the key points. His father said that it is precisely because the teacher is so excited, otherwise you would not be where you are today! You really have to thank him!

This reminds Mr. Zhu of a well-known story of women and children, saying that a long time ago, due to the war, there was a young man who fled to a village, hungry and cold, and thought of a big family begging for food, but I didn't expect the hostess to see that the young man was dignified, tall and mighty, just like Mr. Zhu Zhi, who originally wanted to give a little food, but didn't give it! The young man was furious and turned to join the army, and because he was always humiliated in his heart, he fought bravely, and soon became promoted to a high position. One day, when he led his soldiers through the village where he used to beg for food, he remembered the humiliation he had received before, and he could not help but be angry in his heart, and evil was born from his guts, and he was about to call his men to kill the family. When the military advisor heard this, he understood the reason, and hurriedly said, I can't help it! Dashuai, if it weren't for the excitement of her old man back then, how would you be where you are today? She's your benefactor! When the big marshal heard this, it seemed to make sense, and he hurriedly asked his subordinates to prepare gifts and go to Da Xie to thank him.

Writing this, Mr. Zhu Zhi felt a little cool breeze on his back, and couldn't help but say something, it seems that this radical method has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people in China, let's talk about corporal punishment of students, we have seen a lot in the newspapers now, there are slaps on students, some let students eat flies, and even teachers engrave words on students' faces, which is really shocking. Of course, public opinion is still one-sided, and corporal punishment of students is clearly what Centurion is referring to. However, I also heard some different voices, and there are also parents who are unhappy with the teacher: teacher, the student is disobedient, it is okay to teach a lesson, and if you don't fight, you won't succeed!

It's not that I disapprove of the radical method, there are indeed many examples of success due to imminent success, but we should also see that there should be a lot of students who are willing to settle down after being scolded by teachers and parents; Many young people have extremely poor psychological endurance, you beat him and scold him, and he doesn't say that he succeeds after he wakes up, but from then on, there will be many more people who will be sluggish than the former! As the saying goes, a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is a bad word, and not everyone can stand the radical law. A friend of Mr. Zhu Gong opened a company, and he likes to use the method of agitation, one will say that Zhang San is stupider than a donkey, and he can't do big things, and the other will say that Li Si has big breasts and no brains, and every little thing is so complicated. He originally wanted to arouse the fighting spirit of the employees, but he didn't expect the employees to tremble in such an environment, and they were gone in less than half a year.

This is the so-called implicit radical method, which is a variation of the radical method, which is a kind of positive persuasion by the weak and the disdain for themselves, but in fact it is to make the other party more stubborn in the original wrong proposition. In other words, if Liu Bei is not particularly reminded, Zhuge Liang will not be so favorable. Because this strategy is generally used to deal with arrogant and stubborn people, and it is secretly "killed", it is more difficult for people to detect and sigh more than ordinary agitation methods.

In February 2015, Yue Yunpeng, a grassroots star who shined on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, was interviewed by the media when the host asked him to be a waiter. Yue Yunpeng said that the last thing he can forget is an experience he had as a waiter when he was 15 years old. He said: As a waiter, the beer is written wrong, the package of three packs and five is wrong, people are unwilling, I said I will give you a discount, no, scold me, all kinds of insults to me, no, I said to give you a five-fold discount, no, I said to give you a free order, 352 yuan I paid, how many years, 352 I still remember. When you think about these things now, is it sadness or anger in your heart? Yue Yunpeng said: I still hate him, really, the Spring Festival Gala is on, you are an actor, you earn more than before, the face-to-face program interviews you with such an in-depth program, you should tell the truth, how should you be, you shouldn't hate him anymore, you should thank him, how was it, if there was no him, you wouldn't have been expelled, without him, you wouldn't know Guo Degang, I still hate him, I hate him very much, and I hate him even now, why. I've apologized to you, I've said all the nice things, and you're still like this. I think Yue Yunpeng is right, very right.

Excessive agitation is like raping people's hearts and minds, and making people physically and mentally afraid. Think about it, if Zhu Zhi's work suddenly and inexplicably became popular (which obviously won't happen), should I also be grateful for this abominable disease? Of course not! It makes me live like years, life is worse than death, I would rather be in good health, achieve nothing, stride to appointments, guess the code loudly, drink in big bowls, and eat meat in large pieces. When I was watching TV, I saw Zheng Zhihua coming to Nanning to record "Earth Flying Song", and he said that if I could walk freely, I would not want all my talents. I'm sure it's true. I can't understand that Sima Qian worked hard to write the "Historical Records", for so many years, does he have to thank "fortunately for the palace execution" and thank Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty who killed him?

Let me tell you another story, let's say that in ancient times, there was such a beautiful poor woman, unfortunately she was favored by a rich and martial arts pervert, so she went to her house and said to her, you are so poor, I think it is better to live with me! Of course, women don't follow. The pervert couldn't help but be angry and raped her. suffered such a great humiliation, she should have died, but she didn't die, but in a night when the wind was blowing and the moonlight was low, she thought about it for a long time, she didn't die, she fled overnight, went home, found an old nun with strong martial arts, learned martial arts angrily, and finally learned peerless martial arts, the world is dominant, and thousands of people admire! So, I want to ask you next, should she go to kill the thief to take revenge, or should she buy cigarettes, fruits, viagra and three whips of wine to thank the pervert?