When I was very young, I dried grain in the drying field at home. Pen, Fun, Pavilion www.biquge.info neighbor's chickens ran in and trampled on me while I didn't care. I was so angry that I threw a piece of wood over, and the accuracy was even more powerful than the current masters of martial arts films. I saw a little hen crying twice, and after shaking on the ground a few times, she didn't move. I was horrified, and when I saw that everyone found it, I hurriedly lifted it up and threw it under the thorns below. For a whole few days, I was terrified, especially when the neighbors were looking for chickens everywhere, I regretted it so much that I didn't even dare to go out of the door, and I felt that a big disaster was coming, and I didn't know when I would be able to avoid this disaster.

When I was in middle school, I was caught red-handed by the kitchen workers for helping my classmates who forged food tickets to get food, and hundreds of people watched with shame. And that's not all, but in the second week, when we were called to the assembly to show the public, and reviewed one by one, thousands of people's eyes were focused again, and according to my classmates, my face turned the color of pig liver. For more than a month, I felt so ashamed that I couldn't even walk and couldn't lift my head, and I was very sensitive when I heard the word "food ticket", thinking that there was no more shame in the world than this, it was simply the end of the world, and I even had the idea of death.

At that time, there were only a few dozen yuan on his body, and he just came out, and he didn't know anyone, and there was no way to borrow money, he was very desperate, and then he asked a few people, borrowed a few hundred yuan, and finally borrowed two thousand yuan in the unit to rush back to the funeral. Immediately afterwards, it was the birth of a daughter, sometimes Hou was so poor that he even had to buy milk powder for a few days, and he had to repay the debt over there, and every time he agreed to repay the debt, he was like an ant on a hot pot, raising money everywhere, touching all the nails, and looking at his face, at that time, I felt that the difficulties in the world were nothing more than this.

As the stationmaster of the Wuzhou Reporter Station, his subordinates were responsible for the distribution, and he squandered the 7,000 yuan of the newspaper, because I signed the contract, and I was responsible for all of it. At that time, that angry remorse was at its extreme. regrets that he believes in people so much that he gives all the money to others; What I hated was that those people were like evaporating from the world, and they disappeared without a trace. I didn't have any money, but for the sake of my reputation and the continuation of the distribution (if I didn't pay the money, I would stop the newspaper, and the subscribers would ask questions), I had to scrape together and hand over the money (I paid it back for a whole year), but this remorse and anger hung over me until it dissipated after a few months.

Once, I went to interview the rescued migrant workers with a reporter from Hainan's "Business Travel Daily" and a metropolitan newspaper, and after the interview, we wrote a manuscript together, discussed the changes and sent it back to their newspapers. Since it was a Saturday and the newspaper had not been published, I sent the manuscript back to the office and asked them to press it for two days and read it together on Monday. Unexpectedly, the boss of the metropolitan newspaper found out, and he was furious, and scolded the reporter so much that his head spurted blood, saying that he had interviewed the manuscript, and actually sent it to others first (he didn't know that I also went), and threatened to fire the reporter as long as other newspapers saw the newspaper first. This incident caused a blatant stir in the media and everyone knows about it. Later, after I came forward to explain the ins and outs of the matter to him, he admitted that it was irrational to blindly get angry without understanding some things clearly.

These are just a few of the hurdles that I think I can't pass. In fact, there are many such horrors, shames, regrets, and anger that seem to have reached or even exceeded the limits of one's bearing at that time, and many of them are completely unrememberable.

A female colleague of mine, once came back from the toilet, and actually forgot to pull the zipper (God, Mr. Li Ao said, if you forget to zip after urinating, it means that you are old; But if you forget to zip before urinating, then you are really old, my colleague is only 23 years old)! actually chatted in front of everyone for a while, and almost everyone saw it, and then someone reminded him to deal with the aftermath. But she couldn't forgive herself from then on, and she was haunted by it, which she regarded as a great shame. Whenever people get together, they think everyone is talking about her zipper door incident, and they don't trust everyone anymore. Later, when I was drunk, she talked to me about it, and I said, "This little?" Who remembers? We run around for life every day, remember your little things? If you don't say it, I can't even remember!

One of my fellow villagers has grown a pair of tetracycline teeth since he was a child, so he is very pessimistic, never daring to smile, thinking that people will definitely care about his teeth, and even when it comes to falling in love, he does not have enough self-confidence.

On the Internet, there is a relatively circulating article called "30 Things You Don't Have to Care About Before the Age of 30", which includes broken love, divorce, unemployment, drifting, rumors, fears, etc. And now that I'm in my forties, I feel that since it's happened, I don't have to care about everything before, because no matter how much you care, he won't change, and with my current gaze, I don't think it's important anymore to look back at the things I was worried about, frightened, humiliated, and regretful. If you can't fix it at the time, let it go! Looking at it later, it may not be very important.

However, there is one thing that should be remembered at all times: don't turn your wound over to someone who doesn't have to do it. Because others are watching the excitement, the pain is still in their hearts.