24. A letter from Liang Jizhang to his son

This is a letter written by the well-known RTHK host Liang Jizhang to his son in his last days, and it is also the only article I have reproduced in its entirety, because I feel that he said what was in our hearts. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. biquge。 infoYes, many fathers are very touched after watching it. Not only is this letter inspiring for my son, it's also for everyone! The number of words is not much, which contains the parents' perception of life and the infinite love for their children.

My son: I write this memo to you based on three principles:

(1) Life is unpredictable, no one knows how long they can live, and some things are better to say earlier.

(2) I am your father, and if I don't tell you, no one will tell you.

(3) What is contained in this memo is my experience of returning from a painful failure, which can save you a lot of wrongs for your growth.

Here are some things you should remember in your life:

(1) Don't mind too much about the person who treats you badly, in your life, no one is obliged to be nice to you, except me and your mother. As for those who are good to you, in addition to cherishing and grateful, please also be more vigilant, because everyone does everything for a reason, he is good to you, not necessarily because he likes you, please you have to figure it out, and don't be too quick to see each other as a true friend.

(2) No one is irreplaceable, and nothing is necessary to have. Seeing through this, when the people around you no longer want you in the future, and maybe you lose everything you love most in the world, you should also understand that this is not a big deal.

(3) Life is short, today you are still wasting your life, tomorrow you will find that life has been far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy it, and it is better to enjoy it sooner rather than hope for longevity.

(4) There is no such thing as love in the world, love is just a momentary feeling, and this feeling will definitely change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let the time wash away slowly, let the soul slowly settle, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overlook the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

(5) Although many accomplished people do not have a lot of education, it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People can build a family from scratch, but they can't be unarmed, remember!

(6) I will not ask you to provide for the rest of my life, and I will not provide for the rest of your life, and when you are old enough to be independent, my responsibility will be over. After that, whether you take the bus or Benz, eat shark fin or vermicelli, you are responsible for it.

(7) You may demand that you be trustworthy, but you cannot ask others to be trustworthy; You can expect to be nice to people, but you can't expect them to be nice to you. What you do to others does not mean that they will treat you, and if you don't see this through, you will only add unnecessary troubles.

(8) I bought more than ten or twenty years of Mark Six lottery, still poor and white, even three prizes did not win, which proves that people to be developed, or to work hard, there is no free lunch in the world.

(9) Relatives only have one fate, no matter how long I will get along with you in this life, please cherish the time together, in the next life, whether you love or not, you will never see each other again.