Chapter 379: Forget-me-not (4)

Kind people are generally strict with themselves and lenient with others. Pen? Interesting? Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 infoKind people will actually know how to endure humiliation, understand tolerance, cherish and care, love and give. They always think positively when they encounter problems, and they are willing to think about the good in everything.

With kind people, everyone will, less haze, more sunshine; Less complaining, more relaxed; Less jealousy, more understanding; Less worries, more happiness; One less cold, more warm; With kind people, everyone will gradually be influenced, and then, begin to forget the deceit of Hongchen, stay away from the worldly fame and fortune disputes, insulate the intrigue of the world, hold an understanding, carry a love, and leisurely stroll in Hongchen; With kind people, even in the plain years, you will be able to appreciate the wonder of life, even in the cool season, you will be able to feel the real warmth, and even in a barren place, you will be able to appreciate the spring flowers.

"The sea is tolerant of all rivers, and tolerance is great; The wall is a thousand feet, and if there is no desire, it is rigid". "Good words are warm in the ears for three winters, and evil words are hurtful and cold in June", if you do too much injustice, you will kill yourself, good and evil, only between a person's thoughts. There is a lot of help from the road, and the road is self-wide.

Living in the room of the orchid does not smell its fragrance, born in the blessing does not know the blessing, this is the weakness and sorrow of many people in the world, we should understand and understand, in life, some people are just passing by, so, do not be too nostalgic; Some things are just floating clouds, so there's no need to worry too much about it; Some dreams are just fantasies, so don't expect too much.

Let's be a kind person together, let the flowers of kindness bloom everywhere, let us stand in the perspective of kindness to interpret everyone around us, treat everything, and appreciate every scenery. Let us use the magic weapon of kindness to decipher the natural code of life, let us use the key of kindness to open the doors of those strong and locked hearts, let us do the beauty of adults with a kind heart, and let us use our kind words and deeds to warm the world, change the world, and beautify the world.

Do unto others as you would have them do to you. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.

Every day of life should be sunny, this sentence may be ridiculous to say, but I still like to use this sentence to motivate myself, life is inevitably stumbling, because we want to live, to survive, we must bear more difficulties, mood often changes with the ups and downs of life, when we put some unpleasant things in our hearts and chew repeatedly, it is a harm to ourselves, but also brings a bad impact to others.

Maybe it's because it's too strong, everything wants to achieve perfection, to achieve what we want, but we forget that nothing can reach absolute perfection, no matter how good a person is, he has his flaws, but we have packaged the defects, many times we are looking up and comparing, always feel that others are happier than themselves, in fact, others may not live better than you, maybe there are more sufferings in the hearts of others that we don't understand, everyone has a difficult book in their hearts, but it is difficult to walk in, difficult to read.

Just like a bouquet of flowers, it will bloom the beauty of a season, but it also bears the wind and rain, and when the cold wind passes, the withering of a place is a kind of incompleteness after all. There are many things in the world that we can't explain, and we can't see through, when we keep complaining that we are unhappy, happiness is quietly slipping away, many times sadness and happiness is a choice, choose sadness, then it will be shrouded in all kinds of unsatisfactory, choose happiness, you will find that the world is very big, there will always be a kind of happiness that belongs to you, but everyone stands in a different position and angle.

More often than not, we are strengthening ourselves, demanding too much for some very common things, not being psychologically satisfied, always looking at the mountain high, so that there are all kinds of unsatisfactory, forcing the original good life to a corner, in fact, everything is not so difficult, but our thinking is constantly changing with the trend, desire is expanding, our hearts are also expanding, and even we don't know much about ourselves.

A lot of unhappiness is too entangled in certain things, unable to let go of their feelings, today's society is very complicated, many times are forced to change a lot, maybe unwilling to accept, but the reality will make us have to accept, everyone has pressure, this has to learn to release, some things know that it is impossible to return to the original state, then we must learn to adapt and let go, with a peaceful mind to face everything, believe that what should come will always come, what should go will always go, let it be natural to give yourself a heart.

Sometimes we always feel that we are doing things for others to see, very concerned about what others will see themselves, so it will be really tiring, in fact, we are not living in the eyes of others, but how to be a true self, as long as we do our best, regardless of success or failure is an achievement, after all, in failure we found our own shortcomings, as long as the quality of life is satisfied, that is happy, not to mention the level of achievement to evaluate themselves and do a senseless blow, people live is a kind of confidence, not arrogant, not humble, As long as you have confidence and courage, you are the most abundant capital.

Life will not be as perfect as imagined, we need to put ourselves in the right position, life has ups and downs, victory is not arrogant and defeated, it is the principle of being a man, do things modestly, no one dares to say that they are the best. After climbing the mountains and mountains, we can understand that the road needs to be walked steadily, and after passing through the wind and waves, we can understand that the wind and rain are the tempering of perseverance. The road of life is long, short is short, no one can predict, one day will leave with nothing, then it is more necessary to give yourself a heart, give life an understanding, so that every day of life is happy.

Mentality determines a person's fate, can destroy a person's is not bumpy, but their own mentality, without a good mentality, it is difficult to get out of the fog, a good mentality, is a shortcut for us to success, life is not necessarily everywhere than others to live wonderful, as long as you can live happily, in order to make life more valuable, maintain a good attitude, in order to make the body healthier, in order to let happiness into our lives.

After going through the ditches and bumps of life, you will understand that life needs to be relieved, and you will understand that ordinary is true, and simple happiness is also happiness. Don't complain about all the unfairness, the pay and return are not necessarily equal, as long as there is more understanding, it will create more harmony in life.

(To be continued.) )