Chapter 378: Forget-me-not (3)

The journey of life, no matter who you walk with, or go alone, you must give yourself an open state of mind, life needs not only an understanding, but also a tolerance of right and wrong, the road of life can not be turned back, we can not pick up too much, to avoid leaving too many regrets, cherish an encounter, let the warmth accompany, although the road of life can not reach an absolute perfection, but to give yourself a good possibility, so that people are not lonely in life......

"Gain and loss" is a pair of contradictions that each of us encounters most often, whether we can deal with this pair of contradictions, seriously affects everyone's love, marriage, family, career, health, happiness, achievement, that is, seriously affects the quality and quantity of each person's life, the success and failure of life. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info So, what is the specific dialectical relationship between this pair of contradictions? Take a look at the following brief discussion:

There is no pure gain, there is no pure loss, there is a loss in gain, and there is a gain in loss. While you are gaining, you are also losing. Only by giving can there be returns, and only by losing can there be gains. Anything gained comes at the cost of loss. The more you gain, the more you tend to lose.

If you want to get what ordinary people can't get, you have to lose what ordinary people don't want to lose. I want to grasp everything, but I can't grasp anything; You can think of anything, and you can't get anything. We only have two hands, and we only have ten fingers on both hands, and only by grasping a small amount of things can we grasp and grasp tightly; We only have one brain, and one brain has only two hemispheres, and only by concentrating on a small number of things can we do it well and do it well.

What you want is probably the last thing you deserve; What you would love to lose, or what you should least lose. When you really want to get it, be sure to think about what you have to lose at the same time; When you feel like losing, be sure to think more about what you have to gain at the same time. Don't lose more than you gain! When the gains outweigh the losses, no matter how tempting the gains are, you must not dare to get them.

People who see sesame seeds as watermelons will never get watermelons. The wise people gain big and lose little, and the little smart people gain small and lose big. The "smart" that is mistaken for smart refers to the little cleverness. Don't let sesame seeds block the pupils of our eyes, and don't let the nerves of our brains get tangled in them so small.

The strong are easy to lose, and the weak are easy to lose. Reluctant to advance and easy to retreat, reluctant to gain and easy to lose. Possess what you deserve, but don't deserve to suffer. Truly solid acquisition and possession are qualified and conditional. If the qualifications are not available and the conditions are not mature, it is difficult to get them if you insist on going reluctantly. Even if you get it, it's easy to lose, and even if you don't lose it, what you have will only be a hot potato.

Gain it and cherish it, and embrace it to protect it. The harvest is not precious and sweats in vain, and the country does not protect the blood in vain. The harvest is hard work, sweat drops and soil; The country is the blood of heroes and the lives of martyrs. If you don't hesitate to get it, you can't protect it, how can you be embarrassed, how can you tolerate it!

It is glorious to get something from hard work, and it is shameful to get something without work; It is a gift to give and take, and it is theft to take it secretly. There is a way to get it, and there is no way to get it, either it is immoral, or it is illegal or criminal. Greed for cups damages the liver and kidneys, gluttony hurts the spleen and stomach, and greed hurts the body and mind. There must be a degree of gain, and there will be a great loss if you are greedy.

If you are not afraid of losing, you are afraid that it is not worth losing. What should be lost is gained, and what should not be gained is lost. If you don't deserve it, you can only get a heavy burden and endless remorse. It is easy to please God, but it is difficult to send God, and it is not necessarily easy to lose if it is easy to gain. If you don't deserve it, you can sometimes become a ghost and a devil haunting you.

There will be no pie in the sky, and if it does, the pie will be filled with either sweat medicine or harmful medicine. Don't eat a free lunch, the so-called free is more expensive. What you get is often deceived, deceived and committed a big crime.

It is a fool to want to fish for the tip of the needle at the bottom of the sea, and it is a madman to want the stars in the sky. If you can't think about it, it's in vain, and what you can't do is in vain. Obsessively thinking about the impossible and working hard for the impossible to succeed, in the end, all you get is self-torture and ridicule from others.

"Yes" is difficult to know, "no" is difficult, "no" is difficult to know, "there is" annoyance. The pain of loss and loss, the sorrow of gain and gain. They all say that the bystanders are clear, but I say that the bystanders are also very muddy. Only when you eat food can you know whether it is delicious, only when you wear clothes do you know whether it fits, and only when you follow do you know whether it fits yourself. There are many gains and losses, and their sorrows, sorrows, and blessings can only be known after the gains and losses.

What people are most afraid of lacking is virtue, and what they are most afraid of losing is faith. What people should have most is a sense of social responsibility, and what they should lose the most is personal selfishness. Thought is the steering wheel of behavior, and morality is the helmsman of life. People who have no virtue and no trust, the greater their ability and status, the greater the bad things they do, and the greater the harm to society.

Victory or defeat is not a moment, and gain or loss is not a thing. The gains and losses of a moment must be subordinated to a lifetime, and the gains and losses of a thing must be subordinated to the overall situation, the individual

The gains and losses must be subordinated to the society, and the gains and losses of a small family must be subordinated to the state. For when the great river is dry, the small river must be devoid of water; When a great tree falls, its branches and leaves wither; When society is in turmoil, individuals are bound to be uneasy; When the country dies, the small family will inevitably be shattered.

In the face of gains and losses, gains and losses, we must be rational, rational and rational!

In the afternoon, leaning on the windowsill, quietly watching a few yellow leaves fluttering down from the trees in front of me, I couldn't help but let myself close to Qiu's heart and listen to Qiu's heartbeat peacefully.

Appropriate, I don't know whose window floated out of a song "Yunshui Zen Heart", so, the heart slipped through the autumn wind, living in a side of the water and clouds, epiphany, if there are good thoughts, where is life not a wonderful scenery?

As we all know, a person with good intentions must be kind. Kindness is a kind of human beauty, a kind of moral beauty, and a kind of conscience beauty.

Remember the famous French writer Roman. Roland once said: The most beautiful music for the soul is kindness.

Yes, I believe that the song of kindness, the song of kindness, will be sung by the world forever. Wherever a good person goes, he will never be spurned or rejected from his heart. At the same time, I also believe that only people with good hearts can live in peace in the world, transcend the red dust, and truly achieve "pampering and humiliation, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay unintentionally, and wander with the clouds outside the sky".

A kind-hearted person, his (her) words, his (her) actions will be like a gentle spring rain, will be like a soft spring breeze to warm people's hearts, they will bring people a world of ink and wash that people feel enjoyable, when we enter the world they build, we will definitely find that there is beautiful, clear, and unstained.

If a person has kindness, then, even if he (she) has never had nothing, even if he (she) has gone from glory to ordinary, from victory to defeat, I believe that he (she) will still have a peaceful mind, tidy up his mood, adjust his pace, look forward to tomorrow optimistically, and walk through the wind and rain with a quiet heart, walk through the ruggedness, and move towards the future.

(To be continued.) )