Chapter 394: A Strange Beginning (2)

Steady happiness

The heroine of life is happiness, the hero is love, there is no third party in this world, reality is the biggest third party. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 info — Inscription

There is an ancient clock hanging on the white wall, the hour, minute, and second hands, one in a circle, with their own rhythm, walking slowly, so steadily. The chime of the hour hand echoed throughout the room in the quiet of the afternoon, and the coffee table was lined with open magazines, next to a cup of steaming coffee, which rippled inconspicuously. The windows of this room are large, and the winter sun shines into every corner, filling the room with a warm atmosphere, and you can't help but echo Mozart's symphony, which makes people relax physically and mentally. I envy those who live in this house, who can enjoy it all the time, live so simply, and get this stable happiness.

I once heard a joke that was widely circulated: Q: Are you happy? A: My surname is Zhang. It's funny, in fact, in retrospect, it is really difficult to answer when I was suddenly asked whether I was happy or not, is it happiness? There are too many trivial things in life that make us unhappy, and the gap between reality and ideals is far from being immeasurable, and it is difficult to do everything smoothly and as expected; Say it's not happy? We have the meticulous care of our relatives and friends, and we study hard, and we seem to have nothing else to ask for.

So, what is happiness?

Different people give different interpretations of happiness when it comes to it. For farmers, a good harvest is happiness; For millionaires, having family and friendship is happiness; For left-behind children, they are happy without chengguan, because without them, it will be easier for their parents to earn money, so they will return to them early; The sky is blissful because there are clouds infinitely attached to him; The birds and the fish are happy, and there is a free and wide stage waiting for them to perform, even if it is full of excitement and challenges; The migrant workers on the construction site are happy, because no matter how late they come home, there will always be a light on for them; Haizi is happy, and after encountering some setbacks in her relationship and life, she can still make life choices suddenly and bravely; The child of a single parent is happy, because he not only gets the love of his relatives, but also knows that in the invisible place, there will be someone silently guarding him, and he will not be afraid when the sky falls; Children are happy, simply enjoying the love from their elders, and do nothing without thinking about the consequences......

To put it bluntly, when you are hungry, food and clothing are happiness; When war is chaotic, peace is happiness, and when it is lost, it is happiness when it is possessed. In this way, happiness is really simple and ordinary, yes, isn't there such a lyric? One day, I began to feel happiness from the ordinary days, and I saw the clear distance, the happiness I wanted.

Happiness is simple, but it's not simple. It's not that they have lost a lot, they have nothing, on the contrary, they have a lot, and some people only remember what they have lost and cannot get back, and live in the memories of the past; Some people think that they don't have enough, they have a strong desire, they constantly demand themselves, improve themselves, they are busy chasing beauty, and those who have less control will become greedy. These two kinds of people will not be happy, one is stuck in the past, the other is too much to pursue perfection, only this kind of person: focus on the present, cherish the present, learn to be content, and those who are content are always happy, right?

Some people understand happiness as the satisfaction of desires, and it makes sense. At the moment, a metaphor for happiness is: cats eat fish, dogs eat meat, Ultraman fights little monsters, sleeps until he wakes up naturally, and counts money until his hands cramp. When I saw this metaphor, I laughed, and put aside those who are particularly rich, like us office workers, moonlight people, it is extravagant hope and dreaming, maybe this is just the talk of people who are tired of work and life when they chat, but remember, happiness will see if you have lit the lamp before it knocks on the door......

Because there is love, will be happy, but when you meet the reality of the biggest third party, do not panic, because the power of love and the arrival of happiness will not let the third party - reality have a chance, although the reality is terrible, very tormenting love, but you do not feel that the existence of the third party, will let you know that happiness is not easy to come by, so that you feel precious!

And often happiness is a very cunning thing, everything, including the ordinary, ordinary life without a little waves, is only cherished after the loss, but after the loss wants to cherish, it is too late, it always comes softly in our inadvertent way, and then quietly leaves. So cherish the present and enjoy happiness!

Bring happiness home, ask it to be with the hero of the story, and keep the mistress away, this is the ending of a fairy tale, and it is also the inevitability of a happy life.

From the next moment on, we will ferment happiness together......

Strict discipline has been lenient to others

Life is always full of contradictions, there are always too many contradictions between reality and aspirations, society can never develop according to a fixed model, in the final analysis, it is still people who have to adapt to the environment rather than let the environment adapt to people.

The reason why some people live a tired and miserable life may not lie in external objects but in themselves, just like some people always like to lose their temper at every turn, it may be because he thinks that others are too untrustworthy, and they always do not do what they want to do. If the way of expression is wrong, it is also wrong, and to be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

There is no immutable reason, don't be full of high expectations for others, you don't fantasize about how you treat others, others will treat you, just like people can't control the weather, they can't control people's hearts, and other people's thoughts and practices will never be what you think. If you have to ask others to do what you think or design, then you are very wrong, and you may not know that you are selfish and narrow-minded to control people. Unfortunately, no one has this power.

To be forgiving is to be tolerant, forgiving, tolerating, and forgiving to others; To be strict with oneself is to be strict, rigorous, serious and solemn with oneself. It is necessary to be lenient. If you feel that you have good quality, great ability, and high realm, then you can only ask yourself to be better, higher, and stronger, but you can't ask others to be the same as you. If you insist that you are right, then you have made a low-level mistake. If you are tolerant of others, you will not be able to achieve your own breadth and profundity. It can be seen that people still need to find lessons from the mistakes of others to enrich themselves.

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observant, they are not wise. A person makes a big mistake, if you tolerate him and give him a chance to correct, the effect may be more obvious than criticism, and it is better to repent and reform than to break the can!

(To be continued.) )