Chapter 395: A Strange Beginning (3)

If people want to establish their own prestige, they must constantly improve and cultivate themselves and be strict with themselves. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info what you ask others to do, you must first do it yourself, and the effect of teaching by example is always faster than words. Being strict with yourself can make you the most trustworthy person.

Reality is often unreasonable, too serious and demanding of others is not necessarily a good thing, not only do people not accept your affection but turn from disgust to resentment towards you, so why bother? Everyone is his own opinion, and the most worthwhile thing for a person to do is to take care of himself first. Be lenient with others and strict with yourself, and maybe you can become a popular person.

Being lenient with others is a matter of time, but being strict with discipline is a matter of moment. I didn't understand this until now, but hopefully it's not too late.

The rain of tears soaked the youth

There are some things that we don't need to ask casually, otherwise we will be sentimental; For some people, we don't need to wait too long, otherwise we will forget the time; There are memories that we need to implant in our minds; There are feelings that we can use to doubt life. Lonely words, a touch of sadness, to commemorate this season's autumn, to pay tribute to our joys and sorrows of youth......

Time is passing day by day, who has lived up to the memory of the passing years? Time pushes us forward step by step, we stumble, shed blood and tears, sprinkle sweat, wave goodbye to childhood, and slowly usher in this season of our youth - chic and somewhat swaggering. As the age rises in a straight line, we become more and more mature, this season of youth slowly grows old in our hearts, we are sad, we can continue to smile with tears; We carnival, laughing, waiting for the late night to fall asleep, waiting for the wind and rain to be soaked, unconsciously, only full of emptiness and loneliness filled with hearts, we inexplicably shed tears, inexplicable sadness.

What overwhelms us, what makes us cry inexplicably and laugh inexplicably? I don't know, maybe it's our momentary can't help it, maybe it's our sudden momentary self, or maybe the restless wind provokes the wanton rainy season, annihilating this season that belongs to our young hearts and cool autumn, drenching the fearless and belonging to our youth.

Time is not waiting for me, we have had tears, we are so stubborn that we refuse to look back, we can carelessly not care about ourselves for others, we can also love ourselves a little more irrelevant to the wind and rain, we can also love ourselves more than love love only for a few short springs and autumns in life.

We can use the clearest heart to overdo everything, with the most carefree attitude to meet the youth, with the warmest feelings to trace the past, just wait for the flowers to bloom, and a few springs and autumns. We are all waiting for youth at the crossroads, time has passed, and finally we have waited for "youth", and we have taken him on the road with us, and we have had tears and laughter; A strange city, an inadvertent rain, a young heart, the scars of youth, and the soaking of youth with dreams. After several ups and downs, we have been fighting with youth, and finally we don't know if we have lost our dreams, or is it the consistent disdain and cynicism of youth?

Who sings and dances for whom to be young, who confides in whom to talk about dreams, who helps anyone, regardless of night and day, who has a long talk with whom, regardless of dignity or humility? We can make friends with youth, we can forgive the incomprehensible amorous feelings of youth, maybe it is just our wishful thinking and self-inflicted affection, the unscrupulous heartbeat and the gap between heaven and hell, after all, the rain of tears, together with the loss and uneasiness, soaked the youth and trembled all over the body, and also broke the youth through the heartache.

We love to make mistakes too much, and most of the time we make mistakes because we love to use our minds too much when we should use our feelings, and we love to move our emotions too much when we should use our minds. Along the way, some people see through the mystery of life too early, while others realize it too late. What should come on the road of life will come eventually, and we have nowhere to escape; What should go is destined to go, and we can't keep it. This is given to us by youth, and it is also the best answer we give to youth.

I thought that my heart that had been sleeping for many years could finally be opened, but it turned out that everything was just a dream of Nan Ke, and the world had long been a matter of people, and only his own stubbornness and bitterness supported the belief that he once thought he was impregnable. Looking back suddenly, it turns out that my young heart really can't afford to lose, and my youth can't withstand the hurt we have tossed over and over.

Along the way, we will always have awkward troubles with youth, otherwise there will be no rebellious youth, broken souls, so stubborn that even "I'm sorry" is not willing to say it easily, even "It's okay" is just echoed, not everything can be indifferent, only a slightly provocative and annoying atmosphere around the body, a little excessive, all the uneasiness is frozen in the hurried footsteps, and it comes to naught in an instant. The enthusiasm that melted in an instant, it turned out that everything was just groundless, and together with the scarred and unrecognizable youth, we didn't want to take a second look.

The years are quiet, the time is safe, we always want to try to remember the youthful and brilliant appearance of every day, but time passes, time goes too fast, and everything comes too suddenly. The rain of tears does not care about the wind and the moon, and drinks the pain and death of youth......

There's something for everyone to learn

One cannot step into two rivers at the same time. No matter how smart and capable a person is, it is impossible to exhaust everything. "The inch is long, the ruler is short". Therefore, "live to be old and learn to be old" is the last word.

People need to learn, and they need to be good at learning. What to learn? We believe that everything where others are progressive, outstanding, and excellent than us is worthy of our learning.

Learning from the people around you, learning from all the people, this is the way to learn. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and how good it would be for us to combine the strengths of others to become a great person.

Han Yu said: "There is a precedence in hearing the Tao, and there is a specialization in the art industry. "Everyone has their own strengths and something to learn from. If we can learn with an open mind, we believe that we can always get what we want.

Some people believe that learning should be looked upwards rather than downwards. It means that those who have a higher level and status than us, are more knowledgeable than us, and have greater achievements than us are worth learning, otherwise it is not. This view is incorrect. There are many things worth learning from excellent people, but there are also many people with unique skills, and their thoughts are also shining, so why is it not worth learning?

Learning is a lifelong compulsory course; Learning is a part of life. A person's more and more experience, more and more knowledge, and better and better cultivation are undoubtedly the result of learning, who doesn't need to learn?

Learning is self-conscious, and if you don't study, you can't keep up with the pace of the times and will eventually be left far behind by the times. "When the book is used, there is little hatred, and I don't know how difficult it is." Learning is never enough, and learning with an open mind is our common choice.

Everyone has something to learn, take painters as an example, some are proficient in Chinese painting, some are good at sketching, and some are good at oil painting...... We should be good at learning from others, even children, and there are many places where adults are inferior, and that is certainly worth learning.

Everyone knows the importance and necessity of learning, but some people emphasize learning in their mouths and hate learning in their hearts, this kind of person is tantamount to Ye Gong Haolong. In order to learn from the masters, some people do not hesitate to spend a lot of money and are not afraid of trekking, and this spirit is undoubtedly commendable. However, a person who really likes to learn, if it is not a specific need, does not necessarily have to go far and far, nor does it necessarily have to be taught by others. Learning is everywhere, as long as you are humble to learn, you will find that everyone has something to learn, and life is the best teacher. (To be continued.) )