1004 childhood, it is easy to have children and difficult to raise children
After settling the boy down, Lin Chujiu couldn't hold back any longer, put his hands on his waist, and looked at Xiao Tianyao angrily. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
"Xiao Tianyao, how did you take care of your children? Our boy Fu, why did it become like this? Before she left home, her boy Fu was still soft, cute, and would hug her and be coquettish, and it was only a year before Xiao Tianyao taught her boy Fu to be a cold-faced tsundere man.
It is enough to have Xiao Tianyao at home, a man with cold and hard facial paralysis, she really doesn't want to have another one, she has a toothache when she looks at it.
"How's Zifu? Isn't it good? Xiao Tianyao looked at Lin Chujiu with a pretended puzzlement, his cold and hard face was unusually serious.
"Okay? Where's the good? Xiao Tianyao, our Zifu is only four years old, you see where he looks like a four-year-old. Thinking that his son was like an adult at a young age, and he didn't have a childlike innocence at all, Lin Chujiu couldn't help but feel heartache.
"What should a four-year-old do?" Xiao Tianyao really hasn't seen many four-year-old children, which four-year-old child he saw is not a little adult?
And his son is not an ordinary person, how can he be compared with an ordinary person's child?
"Of course, it's like Xiao Jiushao of the Hua family, warm, cute, will hug people and be coquettish, and will call me mother affectionately, not like now, like a little adult, it makes people feel distressed when they look at it." Regardless of whether Xiao Tianyao is distressed or not, she is distressed anyway.
Xiao Tianyao sighed: "Chu Jiu, our son is not Xiao Jiu Shao, you also know that he is Xiao Jiu Shao, not an heir, how can our son be the same as Xiao Jiu Shao?" ”
Xiao Jiu Shao of the Hua family has no inheritance rights, he has been rich and worry-free all his life, but it is impossible to hold great power, so as long as the Xiao Jiu Shao of the Hua family is not bad in nature, the other Hua family members will not care, but ......
His son is different, his kid Fu is the one who wants to sit in that position in the future, and it is impossible to be coquettish and playful like ordinary children.
If you want to be a master, you have to pay the unbearable blood and sweat of ordinary people, and his son must be excellent, he must be better than everyone else, in order to sit in that position, and to be able to sit firmly in that position, in order to educate the next generation of excellence.
"However, Zifu is only four years old." Of course Lin Chujiu knew this, but she was distressed, it was her son, she worked so hard and worked so hard, she just wanted her son to live happily and happily, instead of imposing a bunch of responsibilities on him, and began to study hard at a young age.
"When this king was three years old, he practiced in the morning, studied with his master in the morning, rested at noon, learned riding and archery with Master Wu in the afternoon, and learned the art of war in the evening." Children like them, as long as they can speak, they must start learning, and if they can walk, they must start practicing martial arts, no small or small, let alone childhood.
"Chu Jiu, what were you doing when you were four years old?" He believes that he didn't have a good time when he was a child in the ninth year of junior high school.
"I ......" Lin Chujiu was stunned, and memories of his childhood flashed in his mind.
She thought she had forgotten it a long time ago, that childhood without childhood, but she didn't want her to remember it all the time, she just didn't want to remember it.
Xiao Tianyao saw that Lin Chujiu didn't want to say anything, and he didn't force him to ask, but said, "Is it playing and eating and drinking?" ”
"No, it's hard, I don't have a childhood." Lin Chujiu shook his head, tears shining in his eyes.
It is precisely because she has no childhood that her childhood is more miserable than anyone else's, so she hopes that her children can have a complete childhood and make up for her regrets, but ......
It's not necessarily right to do this, what you lacked in your childhood, what you wanted in your childhood, doesn't mean your children want it too.
It's like, when you were a child, you didn't have enough to eat, you didn't have enough clothes, you suffered like that, and you were afraid that your children would suffer like that, so you desperately gave your children food and bought clothes for them, but are these really what you want?
You are desperately trying to make up for what you have been missing, but you don't think about what your child really needs.
You don't have a childhood, so you want your child to have a perfect childhood, but who has a perfect childhood?
No, there is no perfect life, regrets are beautiful, and in different positions, different responsibilities, children's childhood life is also different.
Just like now, Lin Chujiu hopes that Zifu can spend his childhood happily, doesn't Xiao Tianyao want to?
Zifu is his son, and he wants Zifu to live happily and happily than anyone else, but now he wants to connive at Zifu and let him play and not study, and Zifu will be a thousand times more bitter than others in the future.
On his day, after Zifu sat in that position, he didn't have enough ability to deter the ministers, and he didn't have enough wrists to sit in that position, would he be blamed?
Maybe not, but Xiao Tianyao didn't want to bet.
"On the ninth day of the first month, Zifu is different from other children, you can't treat him as an ordinary child, he is our son, he was born with more than others, and he also has to pay more than others, so it is fair." Xiao Tianyao stepped forward, hugged Lin Chujiu, and comforted her softly.
There are not so many geniuses in this world, if you want to be better than others, if you want to be a master, you have to work harder than others, pay more blood and sweat than ordinary people, in order to be better than others.
No one succeeds casually, behind everyone's success is blood and sweat!
Afraid that Lin Chujiu would be lost, Xiao Tianyao forcibly suppressed the worry in his heart and said: "Chujiu, if you want a soft and coquettish child, you can give birth to another daughter for this king." ”
Their daughter doesn't need to take any responsibility, even if she is rude and willful, she is defenseless, as long as she is happy.
"In two years...... In the past few years, we have fought in the east and south, and we have less time to accompany Zifu, and if we have another child, we will have even less time to give Zifu. "Her body was conditioned two years ago, and she could have a healthy child, but she doesn't want to have it now.
Her Zifu has suffered too much, at least until her Zifu grows up and has her own independent life, she will not consider having a second child.
"You're right, we're not going to give birth now." Xiao Tianyao secretly breathed a sigh of relief, and tried his best to suppress the slightly raised corners of his lips and a happy mood.
God knows, he doesn't want to have another child at all, having a Zifu is enough for him to have a headache, and since he has Zifu, Lin Chujiu's first concern is always Zifu, and he will always be behind Zifu.
Compared to this time, Lin Chujiu hasn't seen his son for more than a year, but he hasn't seen him for more than a year.
However, since their father and son came in, Lin Chujiu has only Zifu in his eyes and hearts, even if the two of them get along alone, Lin Chujiu said that it was Zifu's business, and he didn't ask him a word at all, nor did he find out if he was fat or thin, it was really sad to think about it.
If they had another child, would he still have a place in the family? Is there still him in the eyes of Chu Jiu?
It's scary to imagine......