Forty-six episodes
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However, there was no improvement in work, and the only thing I gained from Mr. Jin was to figure out that the last time we met in the hospital was just a misunderstanding, and it was his assistant who rushed to pay the hospitalization fee before Xiao Ke, and Jin was always the sponsor of the nursing home next door.
"The last time I visited my guy in the hospital, I was disappointed and the attitude of the three children was really disheartening," he said. When you are a parent, you work hard to raise your children. But when it was time for them to take care of themselves, the children went into hiding. ”
I could see that he was very sad because of this, after all, he was a great philanthropist, but he could not stop the greed and filth of people's hearts.
I asked him, "What happened later?" Is the gentleman you went to see now recovered? ”
There was a hint of surprise on his face, and after a moment, he asked me earnestly, "Do you want to go to that nursing home with me?!" ”
It seemed to me that he was inviting me to come with him, and he didn't give me a second choice, and I certainly didn't give myself a second option.
I walked side by side with this majestic entrepreneur, and along the way, he only said one word to me. "The gentleman you just asked about is the guy I visited in the hospital, who has passed away."
My heart trembled violently, and then I regained my composure. I didn't hesitate to ask Kim when it was always a thing. It's not that I'm not curious, it's not that I don't care, it's just that the person is gone, so why bother to make his friends sad again.
I know, it's not a good day to talk about business. Especially the moment I stepped into the nursing home, I began to understand the real purpose of Mr. Jin bringing me here.
I quietly watched this nursing home, recalling Mr. Li Xuejian's TV series "Hey! Geezer! 》。 When you really experience it yourself, you will understand that the real sadness does not need to be rendered to make people feel soulful.
This nursing home has a beautiful environment, after all, this is Hainan. I saw the old man playing the violin and rapping, as if he was in his own compound. And lazy old ladies basking in the sun under the eaves. And the silent old man who stayed in his room.
I remembered what my father always said in front of me, he said: "When your mother and I are old, neither of us will drag us down, I will take her to the nursing home, where there is food, drink, chatting, birth, old age, sickness and death." "I had always felt like he was angry with me until then. However, I was wrong.
Mr. Jin asked me, "What is the inspiration?" ”
"I didn't have any inspiration, I just saw that this was just a kindergarten for the elderly."
"What do you mean?"
"When I was young, I was in the best kindergarten, and we had the best food, the best drink, the best use, and even the best toys. Even if you have a lot of fun with your children, every time you calm down, you want to go home, and the best place to feel is your own home. ”
Mr. Jin didn't speak, he was still waiting for me to continue. I continued to tell him: "You are similar to my dad, you always like to play some social practice and never say big things. It's because you're so much like my dad that I'm going to tell you, whether or not what I say next offends the great you. Mr. Jin, you sponsor some of them, but you might as well sponsor their affection. It's so lonely here, even if it's vibrant, full of spring, and the seasons seem to be frozen in the most beautiful time. But what can they wait for? Yes, when they are unable to take care of themselves, our professional nurses will help them change into king-size diapers, just like they did when they took care of their own children. Mr. Jin, just like the three sons of your friend you saw in the hospital, as you just said, what is family affection? Family affection is that our parents raised us to grow up, and we have to provide for our parents! ”
"I had dreams before, and my dream was to fund more orphanages and nursing homes and hospices. At the beginning, my good friend Zhou Xiaoshuai always disagreed with my views. Now I finally know why he didn't support my dream, because no matter how much money I funded, I was creating a big wall. Mr. Kim, do they really just want to stay here? All I know is that the reason why my daughter doesn't want to go to kindergarten but has to go is because I have to. Aren't they the same? ”
"However, their children are busy, and some of them have to be sent here."
"It's so busy that you can't come and see it a few times a year, can you? When the aunt saw me just now, she hurriedly ran over and asked me who I was visiting. She told me that she counted the days every day and waited for her children to come to visit her, and that waiting was a year! ”
I feel sorry for every old man here, and I feel sorry for my dad even more. I felt guilty and embarrassed, I inherited his stubbornness, but I did not inherit his love for me.
In the evening, I stayed in the nursing dormitory to plan the activities of the day after tomorrow, and Mr. Jin said that every elderly person should be able to see their relatives the day after tomorrow.
In the evening, I received a message from Mr. Jin: Thank you for your hard work.
I replied: It is my honor to do things for the elderly.
After discussing some things with the nurse, I invited her to go to the hospital with me.
I told her about the words my dad had been using to threaten me.
She told me with a smile: "Xiaogu, I believe that your father is not trying to test you with that, let alone blackmailing you with that." You know, we have a fierce-looking old man here who came to us two years ago with his own luggage to apply for it? Later, we learned that he gave all his property to his children because he was very strong and felt that he was still physically strong and did not want to let his children be distracted. Later, he said that it would be the best choice if one day he couldn't take care of himself and hide here, because he didn't want his children and grandchildren to see his bad side. I don't want to leave my children with the slightest burden. Xiaotani, I believe that your father is in the same mood! ”
I pretended to be strong and grinned, but tears were squeezed out.
You can always see your own shadow in other people's stories.
The next day, a few caregivers and I started contacting the relatives of each of the elderly people, but it was very hopeless, and 90 percent of the responses were: "Sorry, we're busy." Tomorrow can't pass. ”
We sat in a row with our heads bowed down, and then someone said, "The old man's wish is as simple as that." I want to go home to see my parents. ”
I had a flash of inspiration and quickly instigated everyone to send a message to the contact number in the relatives column.
The information is as follows: At 10 o'clock tomorrow morning, Beijing Yiyao Drama will go to Yalinqing Nursing Home for real filming, and this program will be broadcast live on major video websites and TV stations. Relatives are requested to be in place in a timely manner. This program adheres to the principle that our parents raise us and we provide for our parents. Be a loving child.
A nurse said, "Xiaogu, you're amazing. Under public opinion, they had to be in place. If you don't get in place, being poked in the backbone and saying that you are not filial is simply a great shame! ”
Another caregiver asked me, "But are you really going to shoot tomorrow?" ”
I replied: "Of course! ”
"But ....."
I said, "Nothing." As I spoke, I picked up my phone and dialed Zhou Xiaoshuai's number, he has done countless public service documentary shoots for children in the mountains and left-behind children, and I believe that as long as he receives my call, even if he is busy, he will arrive as promised.
The day passed quickly, and everyone only got three relatives when Zhang Luo was shooting.
Zhou Xiaoshuai mocked me: "Gu Ningdai also miscalculated. ”
I attacked him instead: "My biggest miscalculation was that I met you!" ”
A lot of elderly people rushed to us and asked, "Are you not contacting my child?" ”
We replied one by one: "None of them were lost." All contacted. Rest assured! ”
Seeing that it was almost ten o'clock and the countdown to the shooting time began, each of us was nervous.
The shooting team brought by Zhou Xiaoshuai began to look at the watch non-stop. I asked Zhou Xiaoshuai: "If there are only these three people, and other relatives won't come, will you still shoot?" ”
He gave me a boring look. Then proceed to adjust the camera angle. "Shoot! Of course you have to shoot! Why not shoot?! ”
At ten o'clock, the rest of the old people were depressed and no one wanted to enter the camera, except for the three old people who came to relatives, the rest of the old people began to make a lot of noise.
I apologize to Zhou Xiaoshuai for my recklessness. I ran to Zhou Xiaoshuai's side and whispered, "I'm sorry, I'm not 100% sure of things, so I called you." ”
Zhou Xiaoshuai lazily replied to me while directing the filming crew: "Although your method only solves the problem for the three old men. But Gu Ningdai, even if only one of the old man's relatives arrives, as long as you open your mouth, I will still arrive as soon as possible. ”
I couldn't be moved, Zhou Xiaoshuai's trust was like a tube of chicken blood, and my fighting spirit had just begun to burn.
At 10:10 a.m., our nurse was overjoyed to tell me that two more relatives of the elderly were in place. At 10:15 a.m., our nurse continued to run and tell me that there were now 10 relatives in place. One after another, more and more people came. Zhou Xiaoshuai is full of fighting spirit.
At eleven o'clock, although it was an hour later than the agreed time, I still saw Zhou Xiaoshuai give me a thumbs up. At this time, only one of the relatives of the elderly did not arrive.
I noticed him fade out of the camera and head deeper into the garden. I hurried to follow him. Everyone called him Uncle Li, the old man who came to apply by himself mentioned by the nurse.
He felt someone coming and turned around, and he saw me with an anxious face. He stood not far away and waved at me: "Xiaogu, hurry up and get busy." I just want to breathe myself. ”
I stood in a dilemma, and I knew that the only comfort I could have for him now was to let him see his children.
I saw Uncle Li's back turned around, and I almost lost my voice and shouted, "Dad." "He's too much like my dad, too much like him..... Graying hair, an unapproachable aura, and a thinning face.
When his back disappeared from my sight, I pulled out my phone and dialed his children's numbers.
I yelled into the phone: "I'm telling you, I'm all out of the round-trip ticket?" You're not bad for the ticket money, why don't you come? How did Uncle Li raise you in the first place? I ended the call angrily.
Two hours later, Zhou Xiaoshuai said that he would continue to shoot some daily routines, and he would be able to call it a day in the evening.
I said, okay.
Until the evening, Uncle Li's relatives still did not show up.
Seeing that the end of the shooting is getting more and more urgent.
Until the end, in the midst of everyone's uproar, I was asked to come to the stage to make a summary. Uncle Li sat on the stone bench outside the crowd expressionlessly.
I was thinking about what to say, and at this time, Wu Feng appeared in my sight with his hands in his pockets. There were two other people standing behind him, and while I was stammering, Uncle Li stood up and looked behind Wu Feng excitedly.
Wu Feng shrugged proudly. I smiled from the bottom of my heart, he brought Uncle Li's relatives here.
The shoot ended up being a success.
I'm not standing in the flash, but I'm more proud than I am on the red carpet in Cannes.
I said, "Our parents raised us, and we provided for our parents." The most difficult thing to understand in this world is your own parents, who teach you to be diligent and thrifty while secretly giving you pocket money. They blame you for doing something wrong, but they can't bear to blame you in their hearts. They never compliment you on how good you are, but they are proud in their hearts. They don't want us to fall in love, but they always want us to have a happy home. The people who love you the most in this world but never say it are your parents. Who is willing to give you a horse to ride? Who would bear all the storms of the world for you? Who else is out and about for you? The loneliest people in the world are their parents. Now that we have a family, we are gradually starting to repeat our role as parents. What about you? You cherish your children as they love you. But now, they are afraid of adding the slightest bit of trouble to you in the nursing home, so what about you? How do you teach your children a vivid lesson, indirectly telling your children that you too will enjoy the despair of loneliness like your parents in the future? Isn't the expectation that our parents gave us the same attitude toward our children as 'health and happiness are the two most important things in life, and if they can be transferred, I would give you my share'? When our parents changed our diapers for us, why did we send them to a nursing home to let the caregivers do what we were supposed to do for us?! You think that there is food, drink, clothing, and play here, and there are people chattering, so you let your parents be here for a year, two years, three years, or even longer. But at the beginning, our kindergarten also had food, drink and play, but we still cried and shouted and wanted to go home, did our parents let us stay in the kindergarten for an extra hour? They arrived at the school gate early and couldn't wait to take us home for a delicious dinner. Think about it from another perspective, friends, now, you take a serious look at the parents in front of you, they are no longer young, they are full of gray hair, they need someone to accompany them, they have dedicated their youth, their lives, their love, they give you everything they can give. You don't think they're useful, do you? It won't be long before you, too, will walk the path they have walked. What about your conscience!! ”
I cried as I spoke, crying and crying, and I couldn't hear who was crying. I cried because I felt guilty. I stood on the stage and said that everyone understands the truth, but I didn't do it.
The next morning, many old people went home with the child. It was like I had a dream that wasn't too complete. Because I have persuaded others, but I am running away from ......