Winners are not without shortcomings, and losers are not without strengths.

Different personalities, different attitudes towards defects, and different prices are willing to pay have created different results.

Successful people always make mistakes, always thinking about where they have made mistakes, what they have done wrong, and thinking of a mistake may be tossing and turning all night, and they can't sleep at night.

Losers will not make mistakes, because this kind of person is always complaining about objective conditions and always thinking about what is wrong with others. It's the world that's wrong, it's never yourself.

The former understands responsibility, takes responsibility, and will be responsible for his words and deeds with every word and deed, and will condense a temperament. The latter also has a temperament.

The inside is the outside, and he likes to pout his lips and squint his eyes. No matter how high the skill of observing people is, even if the eyes of the nightclub mommy are open, they can know which is the upper class and which is from the bottom.

No matter how fancy the outfit is, it is meaningless to pretend again, and the poisonous eyes look at people to see the bones. Don't underestimate Fengyue Field, senior mommy is no worse than the old police officer in the department, and better than many old officials.

A woman in the dust, a pair of jade arms and a thousand pillows, a little red lips and ten thousand people, taste the warmth and coldness of the world, are accustomed to seeing the three religions and nine streams, and have already read the vicissitudes of the world. Ordinary people don't have a good way, and in the eyes of people's mothers, they are the same whether they wear clothes or not, and they don't need to dress.

A master who has a full light in the eyes of a nightclub mommy wants to hide in the tiger wolf pack, is that possible?

This kind of person thinks that he plays well, but in fact, the tiger wolf is too lazy to see through the dishes, so there is no need.

In the face of the latter, some will laugh, some will be bored, some will despise, and some will turn a blind eye. The one who really looks down on the latter in his bones is precisely the part that turns a blind eye.

But because of the limitations of understanding, the person concerned may not necessarily understand that in the face of some warm expressions and warm eyes, he may still be complacent, and he may feel that he has a good character.

Those who ridicule the lower classes are generally the lower classes and the petty burghers, up to the petty bourgeoisie. The upper classes seldom laugh at the lower classes. You can check any information or the endless phenomenon on the public media at home and abroad, and in reality, you can also compare specific behaviors to see if this is the case?

It is difficult to see the upper class laughing at the lower groups, but some will release their kindness with strong warmth and charity when they are free.

Because there is a kind of arrogance, which is called reserve. Because the gap is too big, so it is ignored.

Before the Internet, the probability of contact between the upper class and the lower class in Europe and the United States tended to be infinitely zero.

After the Internet, the probability of contact between the upper class and the lower classes in Russia still tends to zero.

Most of the people in the upper class are not born in the upper class, and many climb up from the bottom quagmire. Just as the reason why the disadvantaged groups at the bottom have always been disadvantaged is mostly due to their lack of motivation to change and their refusal to grow. I only want the environment to change, but I don't want to change my own behavior, isn't that waiting for pie to fall from the sky?

So many people who try to make a change will also fail, and keep falling down and getting up and falling again on the road. Someone who doesn't make an effort to make a change but wants to sit back and enjoy it? If the latter is generally successful, is it still in the world?

Give a street beggar a thousand dollars in cash, a job of a thousand dollars a month, two choices, guess which one the beggar will choose?

Give a beggar on the street a bottle of wine, a pack of cigarettes, a meal and a bowl of soup, two set meals, which one do you think the beggar will choose?

The whole world is going to do this social experiment, regardless of race, regardless of country, to see if it is a result.

Whether it is a person who is angry and trying to be strong, or a person who drills the camp, whether it is a person who wants to climb upwards or a person who is eager to change, there is a commonality, shame culture, and knowledge of honor and disgrace.

This kind of person will change color like a chameleon, will imitate a higher class, will actively try to go up, will try to squeeze into a higher circle.

Even the so-called upper class has this commonality, a utilitarian desire to change.

When everyone in the upper class wears a suit and leather shoes, these people will wear ties. When the next level of the circle smokes cigars, these people will naturally learn to play with cigar tongs and humidors.

When someone tells him with disgust or a tone of admonition that spitting is not good, these people will be stabbed by strange glances and will change positively because of the stigma.

It can be said that it is utilitarian, it can be said that it is a humble effort, but people are indeed improving little by little, approaching a higher level, and constantly shortening the distance.

Most people come from bad backgrounds, because the upper class makes up one percent. But many people just face cold eyes and ridicule all the way, and continue to move upwards little by little through this humble effort, and finally stand on the ruling class.

At this point, the origin doesn't matter. Those bitter histories, humble backgrounds, difficult climbing processes, and sad and bumpy journeys will become the proudest place for successful people, the most precious memories, and the softest part of their hearts.

Background and hardship are not the reasons for these people to convince themselves, the cold eyes and ridicule along the way are not the reason for these people to give up, and the harsh external environment is not the self-hypnosis of these people complaining.

On the contrary, it is the source of change, an inexhaustible engine.

Sheep are not losers, they can live happily in the psychedelic bubble of appearance, and there is no lack of spiritual enjoyment and comfort. When you want to change, when you want to turn a tiger into a wolf, suffering will come.

The real losers, most of them, don't even understand what shame is, and don't care. Neither a tiger nor a wolf, nor a sheep. This kind of person will know that something is wrong and still continue.

Knowing that spitting is not good, continue to vomit. Others despise and don't care. I look down on myself, it's okay, I forget about it when I sleep, and I still feel the same way the next day.

Such people are unwilling to change themselves, and they are not good except for the accumulation of negative emotions and complaints. Such a person cannot help others, but it will become a matter of course for others to help such a person.

Not to mention shame, this kind of person doesn't even know how to respect each other and give to each other, sticking to it is trouble, and if it happens, it will hurt.

Gradually, different people will just go their separate ways and drift apart.

Positive people are full of enthusiasm and ambition, and this kind of people come together to create the ideal atmosphere, the original force to create a new world.

A person full of negative emotions complains when he opens his mouth, complains when he touches it, social injustice, people's hearts are dark, everything is not going well, and his own failure stems from the world being sorry for him.

If you are dissatisfied with the outside world, you will not change the external environment, or even change yourself, you will only complain. This is the root of decadence, a force of destruction.

All social activities are about gathering people by like, phoenixes, dragons and tigers, and bees will flutter flowers and collect nectar, but they will never fall on the feces.

You don't need to listen to him tell you who he is, you just look at his friends. What kind of growth environment comes out, as soon as you listen to the words and look at the demeanor, you will know it in your heart. What rank, once you brush his social relations, you will not be far from ten.

The growth environment is not good, the rank is not good, you can't even see the power of personality, and the negative emotions all over your body, what kind of person will this kind of person be?

This is the person who wears big pants into a high-end restaurant, and complains that the waiter can't see the power in his heart. It is a spiritual warrior who thinks that others should revolve around him, does not respect others but craves the respect of others, exudes the smell of attracting flies, but complains that there is no little bee to stick to him.

Pity this kind of person, respect this kind of person, help this kind of person, and even deal with this kind of person, it is certain that you will be hurt. Because once you intersect with this kind of person, the style will automatically drop by eight levels, and this kind of person will bring all the flies with you and envelop you with their own scent.

The person who adds one equals two argues with the person who adds one to six is not a right or a wrong person who knows that it is equal to two, but two fools.

The emperor would not tell the old peasants that he did not use a golden hoe, but would really take the hoe to pick a day every year and turn over the soil to persuade the peasants. What is talked about in the circle of multimillionaires, no one scatters towards the small rich. The understanding of power of the officials in charge of the seal will not be diffused to the junior clerks. Even if the knowledge in the stomach of the old policeman is only told to the apprentice who closes his eyes.

No relatives, no reason, who is obligated?

When your child goes to school, the car is licensed, and the number is drawn, when you are worried about your luck, someone may look at you and tell you to find someone who is looking for the lottery. It's a casual thing to others, and it's a chance for you, and it opens a window for you. If you ask again, people don't want to deal with you, and this is the end of the opportunity. If someone wants to explain to you, this person is your nobleman. If people are willing to help you operate, you will be promoted to a benefactor.

On the road of life, I can't recognize what the opportunity looks like, and I can't seize the opportunity. I can't recognize who is mentioning you, who is your nobleman, and who is your benefactor. If you don't repay it, you don't repay it, you take it for granted every day, and you can only get a ghost if you can mix it up.

Different people treat different people differently, and it is almost interesting to run the relationship in China, and the real inheritance is in Taiwan, in Nanyang. Back then, these feudal remnants ran fast, and the traditional dross was all there.

Take Taiwanese as an example, if you want to enter Taiwanese companies, Taiwanese factories, and provide services for Taiwanese people, the Taiwanese in your eyes are picky, stingy, and synonymous with ruthlessness and ruthlessness.

Because it is this layer that the big families have always exploited, they are too lazy to follow you mushrooms.

However, once you are a business partner of a Taiwanese person, an accomplice in the crime, a friend, a boss, the impression is completely different.

At this time, Taiwanese people have become brothers and sisters who are polite, educated, generous, and humane. Smile before speaking, be polite, call me brother when I say something, call me brother when I see my seniors, keep my promises, be modest and cautious, serious and lively.

That set of wind and rain, moisturizing things silently, is close to Dafa, which can turn hundreds of steels into finger wrapping softness. is harsh, but for those who only make friends and do not make enemies at the same level, the more old-fashioned people come out, the more so.

Watching the two parties tear their hair and scold each other every day in the media, that's posing for the TV station! What a blue camp and a green camp have always been a camp. People drink at night and dive Xiaomi are all together, and they eat a chicken steak in the night market and rush to pay, the relationship is very good. Like all warlords in the Republic of China, they plague the common people at will, but they are still friends at the same level.

The scourge of blue is because the green is grassroots at that time, and after the green is uprooted, everyone is a friend, and whoever goes up is the same, and it is everyone's interests that are safeguarded. As for pulling hair and scolding the streets, and the propaganda vehicles increased their horns, they provided material for TV stations and broadcast them to people with bright eyes.

Between people, there are not so many things that can be taken for granted. The first 30 years of socialism were a miracle, and they were all miracles in Chinese history.

But because of this, a lot of people have been raised for granted.

After the reform and opening up, as in the era of unification and industry at the end of the Qing Dynasty, if the adjustment could not be made, it was these people who would be injured.