Qin Yue's words also have their truth. Under what circumstances would a woman like Qin Yue, who is emotionally frustrated and lives alone with a child, rely on a man? When you can't hold on. And Qin Yue, with her own ability, can live a very nourishing life, why should she go to a man? She herself no longer believes in love, a woman who no longer believes in love, has no financial difficulties, still has enough time to exercise herself every day, and will rely on a man? Physiological needs? Just kidding, there are a bunch of electric husbands over there, and everyone is not blind......

It is precisely because of this that Qin Yue seems open-minded in this regard. The word "love", when people are in the bureau, they are either bitter or back; Once a person is outside, he has insight into the world and sees it thoroughly. Therefore, many single people who have never been in love, because they are outside the bureau, can sometimes give good advice to insiders.

Qin Yue jumped out of this game, so her answer seemed very free.

"yes...... Don't rely on anyone......" the woman said thoughtfully, "If you want to be truly independent, you must first support yourself." ”

Qin Yue nodded: "That's right!" Women's status is earned by themselves, and it is not possible to shout two words of women's rights to let men give us alms. If you want to live a life of confidence in the future, you must first learn to support yourself. The road between you and the minions is likely to be difficult, and while we will all help you, many times you will have to be able to earn money yourself. Decency, dignity, what others give you is always charity, understand? ”

The female man understood what Qin Yue meant, in fact, Qin Yue said so much, the core idea is that women must be self-reliant and self-reliant, even if they have a very good brother like her, they must work hard for their own lives.

"Sister is an outsider, maybe I'm thinking too much," Qin Yue continued, "I have a hunch that the biggest trouble between you will not be this marriage contract of the Shi family, because in modern society, as long as you have enough interests, even a business contract with legal effect can be broken at any time, let alone a marriage contract without any legal effect?" ”

"What could that be?" The female man vaguely felt that something was wrong.

"It should be your status," Qin Yue explained, "The words 'door to door' are not a joke. The first is that the two of you come from different levels of family, you have been pampered since you were a child, and the life you enjoy is definitely not something that a family like Xiaobing can have. Now the two of you are not together, distance produces beauty, and we will be together in the future...... Even if it's just cohabitation, the difference in living standards between you will be exposed, and if you want to maintain it, one of you must choose to compromise. And at the level of living standards, there is only a compromise between high and low, that is, only you, a little princess, compromise with the little soldier. Because even if you have money now, you can't make the creeps adapt to the life of a rich person all at once. In addition to money, it also involves the environment in which you grew up and the cultural literacy between you. For example, when you have nothing to do at home, you can hold a book in English and read it with relish, but the little soldiers can't; When you chat, you can talk about the principles of management and the principles of economics, about Rodin, Machiavelli, Zhu Guangqian, or whatever, but he doesn't understand it......"

The female man was silent for a moment, although she was a little worried, but she was quickly relieved. It's still the same sentence, Qin Yue really doesn't understand the situation here. On the surface, the female man is a "princess", but in fact, the sissy is, and the sissy has adapted to the original life of the handsome soldier, and even done better.

The original handsome soldier was not even a stubborn stone. is an ordinary person, who has been a soldier in the world, and he can't have the first place in the protagonist's aura, and his appearance is not too close to his surname. can only be said to be "not ugly", and the "appearance" of the whole person is mainly matched by the figure. In other words, if the original handsome soldier takes a full-body photo, OK, he is very handsome, if he only shoots his face, it will be absolutely miserable; This is similar to most "unphotogenic" people, that is, they usually take casual photos and get by, and when they take ID photos, they are completely the same as wanted criminals......

Educational qualifications are even worse. In the era when there are universities expanding everywhere, it is barely enough for the three main lines, which shows that the high school age is also the category of "can't learn whether you live or die"; Giving up three books and choosing to be a soldier was also a helpless move because of the economic situation.

The only bright spot in this city is probably the big house in Shuai Xiaobing's family and his mother, who enjoys the treatment of retired cadres. These two conditions are destined to if there is no such thing as exchanging bodies, Shuai Xiaobing will also attend several great blind date events under Gao Guizhi's arrangement, and get married and have children without suspense after picking a few times. When Gao Guizhi retired, the tide of restructuring had not yet reached this area, Gao Guizhi's age was just in front of the "one-size-fits-all", and he enjoyed the treatment of cadres when he retired, and he had to make up for the pension insurance in this life half a month later...... Of course, this is the result of changing the age of birth decades ago in order to earn money for the family earlier.

There is no shortage of houses in the family, and there is no need to worry about the mother's pension and medical care, as long as the elderly are alive, they can still have a large pension every month, and the prices rise every year. Although the conditions of Shuai Xiaobing himself are not particularly good, there is no need to worry about marrying a wife.

Without exchanging bodies, there will be no beginning to the story. Shuai Xiaobing will work hard like an ordinary citizen, because he does not have the two burdens of housing and medical care, plus he also has part-time jobs and the care of people like Ai Lili and Qin Bo, when he is forty miles away, he will have his own industry and be a small boss by himself...... That's pretty much what life is all about.

However, such an unexpected exchange made Shuai Xiaobing's life turn a direct turn. The hardships of the previous single-parent family and the polishing of army life were like volcanic roasting and magma baptism, so that Shuai Xiaobing first became a stubborn stone and then became an inconspicuous "wool" in various adversities.

The iron will to persevere and persevere brought back from the army gradually merged with everything Lin Xuefei learned in the ivory tower. Although Cang Tian inadvertently made a joke, he generously reintegrated the advantages of the two and divided them equally. The handsome soldier became perfect almost instantly.

Today's handsome soldiers, with a full-time job and part-time job, have a lot of monthly income; In the company, because Lin Xuefei's previous knowledge was put into practice, she was appreciated by Shi Xiuzhu, and crossed the most difficult threshold from blue-collar to gold-collar. As the knowledge in his mind gradually enriched, the temperament of the whole person began to change quietly, from the muscular man who was originally good at violent aesthetics to a kind of elegance that began to appear, and this elegance became cultivation in words and deeds, so that everyone who came into contact with him could clearly feel it.

Therefore, the female man never worries about what obstacles the "door difference" will cause between the two.

"The second thing to worry about is your parents," the worry on Qin Yue's face was even heavier, "I, Lili, and Zhen Zhen have all affirmed that the biggest resistance between the two of you must come from your parents." And the resistance will definitely not be small! ”

The female man was stunned for a moment, and wondered: "Why? ”

Qin Yue explained: "The only daughter of a high-level intellectual family! You pinned the hopes of the whole family. Let's not talk about any academic qualifications, let's talk about an ordinary family! Lili said, after you graduated from high school, your Mr. Shi proposed to your family to let you be her brother-in-law, and your family agreed, right? ”

The female man nodded.

"That's right! A child who has just graduated from high school, an only daughter, no matter how anxious the family is, at most she is urging her boyfriend, and she has not seen a few overstepping her husband and directly helping her daughter settle her in-laws' family......" Qin Yue said calmly, "You are biological...... If your family is willing to nod this head, it means that your family sees greater benefits than your own daughter. Even if the Shi family's marriage contract is yellow, your parents will never let your value be discounted...... The Shi family doesn't have to worry, for such a family, a granddaughter-in-law like you has both a side rich in network resources and a side that is difficult to control. Compared with ordinary girls, your advantage is not much. Marriage may bring benefits to the Shi family, but marrying a granddaughter-in-law with a small family who has the ability and no background will not suffer a loss. It's just a matter of face, as long as the steps are delivered in time, the Shi family will have no temper. ”

The female man thought for a while and said, "That'...... What should we do with my parents? ”

Qin Yue sighed and said, "The most direct way is for the little soldiers to come up with a thicker foundation than the Shi family on the spot, but this is obviously unrealistic." According to my observation, Xiaobing has the ability to earn the net worth of the Shi family, but it is absolutely impossible in a year or two...... may be too absolute, the Shi family's liquidity is not very large, but the fixed assets and intangible assets add up to ten digits smaller, so let Xiaobing earn so much in a year or two...... In addition to buying lottery tickets...... The most profitable business in the world is written in the Criminal Law......"

The female man nodded helplessly: "Yes, the money is not so easy to earn......"

Earn tens of millions of dollars in the blink of an eye...... The woman really couldn't think of any way. It's fast to masturbate, but it's a pity that the hundreds of millions ejaculated are really useless when there are no "eggs...... She also knows that it is not the years that have just opened, the era when you can make a lot of money with a mouth, and the author himself does not have the cheekiness to boast about this ability to make money. Money is earned in a down-to-earth manner, and if you want to take shortcuts, you have to take this risk; Money is really so easy to earn, there are no poor people in the world for a long time.