0146 What is a good match?
"Alas...... True transmission of one sentence, false transmission of ten thousand volumes] Listening to your words is better than reading ten years of books!
You have such a deep and thorough study of philosophy in life at a young age, and this philosophy is really not in vain, and it is much better than the person who studied philosophy just to enter the 'system'.
To tell you the truth, I really want to encourage Su Su to try to turn you into my son-in-law no matter what means are used. It's a pity, it's a pity...... I can only hope that you will all have a happy outcome in the end. ”
Listening to Chu Xian's proposal of another ** adjustment method that is different from restraint and forbidden, Su Su's father couldn't help but sigh with a wry smile.
As a successful businessman in his fifties, Su Su's father had already seen from Chu Xian's words, and he may have studied philosophy, psychology, physiology, biology, as well as various social and natural sciences. But more importantly, he combined all of these disciplines to form a precise grasp of human nature and human behavior.
And if people want to live well in this world, they can actually ignore philosophy, psychology, physiology, biology, and ...... I don't know any social sciences and natural sciences, and it doesn't matter if I don't even know a single big word. As long as this person is born good at grasping human nature, can deal with people, and gives him a little opportunity, he will be able to achieve it, and many people look down on primary school student bosses and peasant entrepreneurs have this trait.
-- Su Su's father, who after graduating from high school, encouraged his current wife to go to the north to make money with him, so he knows this better than anyone else.
Although Chu Xian is too "high", even if he has the talent to perceive people's hearts, it is impossible to wipe his face and flatter anyone, but such a person can at least look at the color of his eyes and look at the direction of the wind, and he is born with the ability to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and he will definitely not cause trouble for his own family, and when he really wants to do things, he can also take into account all aspects of the situation, and do things so that everyone can't say a single word "no".
And living with Chu Xian must be a very relaxed and pleasant thing, because he doesn't enter the officialdom or the shopping mall, and uses all his ability to grasp human nature to educate students and improve his life satisfaction and happiness. No wonder Su Su, who is so introverted that his parents are worried, also recognizes him with a mind (river crab), such an object is much rarer than the "young talent" who can be an official and make money!
"It's almost time to eat, let's go back to the living room first.
I'll tell Susu her mother the truth in the evening, so you don't have to worry too much. ”
After sighing, Su Su's father once again regained his peaceful and kind smile, as if Chu Xian hadn't said anything really similar just now. However, when he passed by Chu Xian's side, he couldn't help but pat Chu Xian's shoulder heavily, which was regarded as taking the opportunity to breathe.
"Susu's matter, I believe you can handle it. It's just that as a person who has come over, I still want to advise you not only to focus on the people you like, but to pay more attention to the people who like you and have never left you.
The person you like may indeed be so and so good, but it may not be suitable for you to marry, or you have to accommodate her everywhere when you get married.
And the person who likes you and you also feel that you like a little, if the temperament is more suitable for marriage and can accommodate you, you will be more happy after marriage.
After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, two people have to spend at least a few decades together, and being able to live a long time, but also to live well, live happily and comfortably, is far more important than the favorite and second like.
Of course, I think you must have a number in this area, so you don't rely on the old and sell the old.
Let's go out to dinner, and you two go out for a date in the afternoon. Su Su and her mother went out yesterday afternoon to buy chocolate ingredients and came back to make their own chocolates, even if you can't accept all of them, you can take half of them for the time being. ”
"Yes, Chu Xian! Although I also feel that Lin Xiao's matter must be helped, I am completely on Su Su's side!
Even if Lin Xiao actually likes you, she has never wanted to take the initiative to approach you, and you can't move her if you keep chasing her. It's like Su Su has been chasing you, and you are also moved, and you can't bear to refuse her! ”
As soon as Su Su's father finished speaking, Katyusha immediately jumped out to help. But Chu Xian was just like when he promised Su Su to pretend to be her boyfriend yesterday, no matter which side the three goddesses supported, he didn't speak, probably a choice in terms of feelings...... Even any choice in life, he doesn't need others to talk about it at all.
People who are too smart and have too many ideas are this nuisance, and even if their choices turn out to be wrong and fail, they are hard to be persuaded until they fail.
And Katyusha saw that Chu Xian didn't seem to want to say more about this, so she shrugged her shoulders and stepped aside indifferently.
Even the goddess didn't know which one of Su Su and Lin Xiao was a good match for Chu Xian, it was not just a matter of character of both parties, but sometimes it was a matter of luck. Like the things in the TV series that Changjin is proud of when a lover eventually becomes a brother and sister, and he dies of a terminal illness, it is not absolutely impossible to be born in reality, especially because of the tragedy of the accident Yin and Yang......
Forget it, it's the New Year's Day, and today is St. Valentine's Day, not to mention the possibility of this kind of bad scenery.
“…… Come, Xiao Chu try this, this is Su Su cut and fried himself under my guidance.
Whether you young people nowadays ask a nanny to cook or go out to eat every day after you get married, cooking, all kinds of housework, ironing clothes, tying ties, and shining shoes, I must let Su Su learn.
Whether to do it or not is another matter, but it must be done, this is a woman's family responsibility, and I can't afford to raise my daughter like a pig and have to be served by a man. It's not good for my daughter, it's bad for my daughter.
If both husband and wife go out to work, the housework should also be shared together. But if you want to be a wife at home, but you can't afford to hire a nanny, is that to ask your mother-in-law or your own mother to wait with you? Eat, drink and have fun at home every day and wait for the man to come home and wait, can the man be happy after a long time! ”
At noon, Su Su's mother was almost the only one at the dinner table who was there to "lecture", and Su Su, who was sitting between Chu Xian and his father, always lowered his head and obediently "taught", and did not put forward any opinions that differed from his mother. Even Chu Xian and Su Su's father were shocked by her momentum and failed to make any waves on her "home turf".
As a housewife, Su Su's mother has almost done this "profession" to the extreme, and even the three goddesses who opened another table of banquets behind Chu Xian were suppressed by her powerful aura, and could only drink and eat food quietly, without the usual noise and presumptuousness.
Such a "quasi" mother-in-law...... Even if he was extremely cordial and enthusiastic in front of Chu Xian, Chu Xian was ...... I can only respect her! (To be continued.) )