"Huh, although I don't know if you have someone you like, or you don't like Su Su, but I understand what you mean. wen

Anyway, you basically have no plans to further develop with Su Su, and now you just have to come to 'help' because you have no reason to refuse her request to turn the corner, right?" ”

After being stunned, Su Su's father's face turned a little red. But he still suppressed this breath, his voice tried his best to be calm, and he didn't scold Chu Xian, who came to pretend to be Su Su's boyfriend out of good intentions, and secretly told him the truth out of good intentions.

He knew very well that if Chu Xian had a little "idea", he could tell him nothing now, and hang Su Su's side in the future, and at the same time feature the object he liked more, if he couldn't find a better one, he could go back and show Su Su.

This is what ordinary people do, and even he, who is a father, thinks that it is "smart" to do so.

But the sense of humiliation in his heart was also born from this-obviously he could not say anything first, but he would rather confess "not smartly", doesn't this mean that his daughter and their family are not even a "back road" for Chu Xian!

"Yes.

Although in this world, you don't have to get a corresponding reward for your efforts, but I still hope that Susu's old energy will be rewarded.

Maybe I didn't have a suitable partner in the future, and I finally got together with Susu, but that was the time, and I didn't want to be silent just to keep a spare tire for myself.

This is also the main reason why I gave up entering the official punishment mall and became a teacher in a school that my 'friends' could cover - I would rather do whatever I wanted on my own territory from the beginning than to obtain huge benefits through temporary forbearance, and I did not envy the wider world outside.

Fortunately, I have the ability to circle a territory that does not make me feel cramped, and I have gained an extra opportunity to be so ashamed in front of successful people without blushing. This is indeed my luck, and I should make the most of it, after all, many people want to live a life of 'doing what they want without exceeding the rules' but can't get it! ”

Although there was still not the slightest hint of sarcasm in Chu Xian's answer, Su Su's father still felt that the eardrums in both ears were tingling.

Behind him hangs a cursive scroll written by a famous modern calligrapher, "do what you want without exceeding the rules", but this debauched and wanton but secretly in line with the "calligraphy" good characters have been hanging for more than ten years, and he still does not have the feeling of "doing what he wants without exceeding the rules".

"You are really smart, Sage Kong may not be so open at your age.

But you know how vast the outside world is, but you would rather squat in the well and live your own little life beautifully, don't you feel unwilling? Don't you feel like you've wasted all your talents, and your ambitions will never be realized?

Isn't that too unenterprising? ”

At this moment, Su Su's father should obviously feel unhappy about his daughter's affairs, but he was still unconsciously attracted by Chu Xian's words.

"Do what you want without exceeding the rules" is the way of life he has always fantasized, but how can he really act from his heart when he is in business, and he is unwilling to sell the company to become a rich man who can do what he wants, if he has money or not, it doesn't matter, it's okay if he doesn't encounter anything, but he can't do what he wants, even a small doctor and teacher must be sent in a red envelope, so he still has to have a certain social status.

"Whether aggressive or not, the minimum resources to ensure a person's normal survival are fixed, and the upper limit depends on the number of individuals.

If a person wastes all the resources he can obtain and is not satisfied, then he deserves to be spiritually empty for the rest of his life, and he deserves to rely on drugs to find satisfaction.

If you reduce your basic physical and psychological needs, you will naturally be able to get more satisfaction from your old energy. If you are willing to continue to forge ahead and continue to challenge yourself, of course, you can do it without any worries, and when you get bored, you can end it without hesitation. Lowering basic needs only increases one's room for manoeuvre, but it does not make everyone a low-carbon and energy-saving ascetic.

Everyone knows this kind of cliché, but few people can do it, and how to do it is the most critical 'exclusive secret recipe'.

Many 'masters' who haven't really done it themselves like to use the word 'enlightenment' to perfunctory people, but I can clearly tell you how to do it:

Think carefully about what kind of life you want, and in this kind of life, what you think is the most important, what is generally important, and what is not so important.

With the comparison of values, when you are forced to throw away some **, you can naturally throw them in order from low to high. Because you accept this correct judgment from the bottom of your heart, you won't feel too nostalgic, and you have convinced yourself that this is the best thing to do in desperation.

If you try to throw something away and feel more relaxed and free, you can try to throw it away a little more, pick it up again when you think about it, enjoy it, throw it away later, and pick it up again when you think about it.

It comes from the need to survive, and the upsurge is due to a sense of crisis in the survival instinct. When you realize through repetition that you can easily get those things whenever you want them, you don't have to hold them all in your hands - you're tired of holding so many things in your hands all the time.

However, the same reason is that 'born in sorrow and died in peace', many people are too easy to be satisfied with the status quo, as long as 'not too much worse than most people' is enough, they will be at ease and not want to forge ahead, and once there is an existential crisis, it is easy to be eliminated.

That's why it is said that '** is the driving force behind the progress of mankind'! Pushing oneself very hard, as if you don't study hard and work hard to improve yourself, will be executed, although it will make one's life extremely hard, but it will greatly improve the efficiency of production, not only for capitalists like to see, but also for human civilization and society as a whole is very tempting.

And the balance between moderation and encouragement is up to you. Abandon the dispensable ** until you feel the most suitable Cheng dù, so that you yourself will not feel restricted and unpleasant.

If you don't want to throw it, then you don't want to throw it, it can only mean that the value of these ** in your mind is higher than living an easy and satisfying life, and it is a necessity for you to 'live a good life', then you can only work hard to spur yourself to meet these ** or spiritual**.

So the last point is, in addition to abandoning, actively try, to find out all kinds of things that you are interested in and more beneficial, and fill the gap in your heart with the same total value, but more beneficial. (To be continued.) )

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