"Weiwei, you are really amazing, Lao Xu is so embarrassed for you, you can actually break free in this predicament, I am really convinced of you, where is it like me, if the person who was just pulled up by Lao Xu for questioning was me, I would definitely not be able to say anything, so I could only admit it obediently." Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info" Yang Yilin looked at Ye Wei with admiration, "Besides, your way of solving the problem is really good, if I wasn't the person concerned, I would have really believed that you were talking to me just now instead of chatting." Oh my God, how did you manage to write another way in such a short period of time without even reading the topic? And it did it without leakage, I really admired it. ”

"Actually, that method is not my own original, my boyfriend taught me. Or when I'm in front of you, I'm actually good at math to a certain extent, but in front of my boyfriend, my math is not very good, although it's not very bad, but it's not very good. He always had to tell me something that I didn't understand in the question, and sometimes we were on the way home, and I asked on a whim, and over time it became like this, and he learned to talk about the topic without writing it out, and I learned to do it by ear and eye. So in that situation, I just used the methods he taught me to deal with the past. ”

"Wow, you're already good enough, your boyfriend is even better than you? How can this be, powerful people are even more powerful people, so what should you do with us who are not smart enough? Are we not looking for someone who is even less intelligent than we are? Heavenly reason, where is the heavenly reason? Yang Yilin was full of envy after hearing Ye Wei say that her boyfriend was as powerful as her, or even far more powerful than her. But also, if a person as powerful as Ye Wei is paired with a person who is even more stupid than her, even if she likes it, everyone will not be able to stand it, and they will feel that the man is not worthy of Ye Wei at all, it is simply a flower inserted in cow dung.

"Actually, I'm not very good, I just work a little harder than normal people, and my boyfriend is really good, but in the process he is far harder than me. We will be a powerful existence in your eyes, because when you want to rest and be lazy, we are struggling very hard for my future. That's why there is so much gap between us, if everyone can work so hard, it won't be said that the gap between everyone will be so obvious, and at that time it will really be a matter of talent and nothing else. ”

Ye Wei said that she didn't want to express her superiority, she just wanted to persuade Yang Yilin to work harder. Achievements do not come out of laziness, in this long journey of life, there is always a need to pay to reap. Or should I say that people who are better than you are still trying, so why can you stop? If you stop moving forward at this time, you will only be farther and farther away from victory in the end. When you have the idea of complaining, you might as well give a little more, or you will gain a little more.

"Actually, I'm not saying that I don't know what the problem is, but I always feel that I don't feel very adaptable, I should say adapt. You know what? We used to live in the middle of nowhere, not in a place close to the city, but in the elementary schools near my home. You know, in that bad situation, I quickly came out on top, and I always came out on top, and I grew up with a 'wow, your family is amazing'. ”

"But then, then it changed, and since I came here to study, everything has changed. I am no longer the best, my grades have become just middle and upper here, which is a big blow to me, I can't accept this fact, so in a few exams my grades slowly dropped, and in the end it became me just giving up. So for now, it's hard for me to study hard at this time, I think, but I can't, that's the problem. ”

"Everything that can't be said is just an excuse, and no matter how nice it sounds, it's a reason to avoid. It's not that you don't have the ability, but you haven't thought about working hard at all, why do you want to find so many excuses to shirk, if you have this thought, if you have this time, it's better to put in more effort, isn't it? Isn't it too cowardly to think about giving up without even working hard? Everyone has to experience failure to have a chance to succeed, doesn't it? Thinking about giving up when you fail is the most useless thing. ”

Ye Wei said the most sincere words and did the most sincere things. Whatever was in her heart, she said it. Say whatever comes to mind, this is what she is best at doing, and she will not say that it has changed because of feelings or some other factors. Feelings are feelings, but the truth is the truth, she has always felt that she can't change her opinion because of some feelings, and she can't dare to tell the truth because she is afraid of changes in her feelings. Originally, to make a friend is to say opinions, and you want to hear the truth. If you make a friend and you can't treat each other sincerely, is it necessary to make such a friend?

If in a relationship, every word you say has to take into account the feelings in the other party's heart, is it that the emotional foundation between you is not strong enough? After all, although friends can't be too direct with each other's opinions, it is still an acceptable thing for them to tell them tactfully.

If she can't accept what you say, then there must be some other factors in this relationship? Is there something else going on, or is your relationship not strong enough, not deep enough for you to speak?

Ye Wei has never been afraid of these relationship problems, as long as there are problems to be solved, what she is most afraid of is not being able to say it, isn't it? If there is a problem that can be said, it also proves that the feelings between each other have a foundation, and the most afraid is that because I am afraid of this and that, I dare not say anything. To be able to maintain a relationship, the best thing is to talk about the problem, there is a problem, it can be solved by saying it, whether it is friendship or love, there is a contradiction, that is, it is to say, and it can be changed. If each other holds the problem in their hearts, then the problem will always exist in each other's hearts, and there will never be any change. (To be continued.) )