When you feel that your friend has a problem, be brave enough to say it, be brave to say all the problems, if you say it, she will change it, then it's good, even if you don't make any changes, you also say what you mind in your heart, it's better than holding it in your heart. Writing, Fun, Pavilion www.biquge.info There are some things that can be properly resolved just by saying them, but if you don't say it, there is a higher chance that there will be various problems between you, right?

"Vivi, seriously, I know everything you said is right, but there are some things that are difficult to do even if you work so hard, and I can't help it, no matter how hard I try, it seems that I can't reach the point I want. During this process, I thought about giving up countless times, and I persevered, but the more I went on, the more I felt as if giving up was the only option, and I couldn't do anything more for it. Because it seems that no matter how hard I try, I can't get what I want, so why should I try so hard? ”

"Why do I think there's something wrong with your mind, is it because you don't work hard that you have an excuse? You haven't tried it yet, and you're thinking about giving up? Is it normal to never try because you are afraid of failure? You persevered with what you said about how hard you worked before, but you don't seem to have seen you work hard until now, and it seems that you are very easy to give up some things. You haven't tried yet, you've already decided to give up, and the reason is because you think: no matter how hard you try, you can't get what you want, but when did you do your best? Didn't you find it difficult before you put in the effort, and then you gave up? ”

"Weiwei, it's not that I don't work hard, it's that you don't know when I'm trying. Do you remember the beginning of your freshman year of high school? At that time, you may not be familiar with us, but at that time, I was reading when you were out playing, I was reading when you were with people, I was reading when you were eating, drinking, and having fun, and many times when you were relaxing, I was still reading. Because I knew that I was carrying the hopes of the whole family, I didn't dare to let go easily. But I overlooked that sometimes, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. ”

"Do you think it's fair? I've worked hard for so long, I've worked hard for so long, but I haven't been able to reach the same level as you, or even the realm of others. You see that you can get the highest score without doing anything, and I have tried so much and so hard, but that score shows my failure, do you think I can not be disappointed? Can I not be low? How much I expected, how much disappointment I received, the pressure here is too much, I really can't stand it, do you remember what I said? You have to thank your roommates for not killing, and I think maybe in this dormitory, you should be the one you should be most grateful for. Because here, maybe only I know your situation best, only I know how hard you are, you live a leisurely life every day, but you can gain so many things, do you know how envious and jealous I feel when I see your results? And I, obviously hate your behavior and your success, but I can't do it and am hostile to you, because you are so approachable, because you are so good, so I can't give up at all. ”

Ye Wei never knew that she was thinking so much in her heart, she always thought that although they could not be regarded as best friends, at least they could be regarded as good friends. But I didn't think about it, it turned out that the hearts of the two of them had never been close at the beginning, it turned out that not only did she not put her in her heart, but she also did not achieve the level of friends, it turned out that while intersecting, there has always been a gap in the heart, and the hearts of the two people have never been close.

But what can I say? After all, the person who didn't treat each other sincerely from the beginning was herself, not her, because she didn't treat her as her best friend, because she couldn't put her heart into her heart, and now with these problems, who can blame? And who can blame it? It's just that now I think about it, is there something wrong with her, otherwise why would it be so difficult for me to truly accept her? Think about when Xiaomei was by her side, the two of them were so close, and Xiaomei never had that kind of jealousy because of her achievements, she was always happy for her achievements, but why did the same state become like this when it came to her? Is it because his attitude towards her has never been the same as his attitude towards Xiaomei, or is it because of what?

Or is it because of Lian Xunqin's departure, he has already closed his heart and can't tolerate anything else? Hey, in fact, it's all about yourself as the worst, and when something goes wrong, the first object of suspicion is never yourself. Obviously, in this process, she did the worst, if she could really take her to heart, wouldn't she be a little darker in her thoughts like now?

"Yilin, I don't know what to say or because your environment has changed, so you even have a change in your state of mind, because you can't bear so much pressure, so you will lose the motivation to work so quickly, especially in the dormitory environment where you are staying and my existence, for you, your pressure is even greater, but this is not a problem between us, it is you who you can't bear it, so it will become like this. Yes, being in a good school may cause you some stress, but these pressures are your motivation to move forward, not an excuse or reason for you to give up. ”

"You said you had good grades, but when you came to this school later, you found that there were people outside the world, and there was a sky outside the sky. You make me in the dormitory now, I didn't work as hard as you imagined, but I was able to achieve such high grades when I was envious, jealous and hateful. But you don't want to think about it, at that time, we didn't know each other at all, and we didn't reach that level, you can't see my efforts at all, so what qualifications do you have to judge my efforts? As I said, I've been working on places you don't see, and believe it or not. ”

"Weiwei, I didn't mean to, the only reason and excuse I thought of to give up at that time was: no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't compare to your gentle handwriting, so since I tried so hard but didn't have any effect I wanted, why did I still work hard, so thinking about it turned into giving up. I'm not jealous of you, I'm just jealous of those who can be considered geniuses, their 1% genius talent is enough for me to sweat 99%, which makes me feel that all the hard work is meaningless, because success will always belong to those geniuses, not us ordinary people. (To be continued.) )