"The main reason why I came to see Li Lin was to have a good talk with Li Lin before he transferred to another school, and then to talk to parents about their children's education.

By the way, the notebook will be returned to you and put it in your bag. What to do with it depends on your own thoughts, but hide it a little better later. ”

In the eyes of Li Lin's family with hidden fear and worry, Chu Xian, who had reflective glasses, said quite sincerely as if every teacher would say, and pointed to the schoolbag to tell Li Lin that the black notebook had been returned to him. And this time, Li Lin's shrewd mother didn't dare to say that Chu Xian was deliberately sarcastic that they hadn't educated their children well - even if that was the case, she would have to be cheeky and pretend not to hear it.

The principal saw that Chu Xian, who was young and bookish, had settled Li Lin's mother, who even he had a headache, so quickly, and immediately raised his evaluation of Chu Xian in his heart. It's just that in the eyes of an "old man" who is nearly fifty years old, Chu Xian is still a little too ...... is idealistic, it is clear that Li Lin is about to get out of his class, but he still has to "do more" to discuss education issues with this nouveau riche who is really not pure and kind, which is definitely a thankless thing, just like he moved all Li Lin's books back in advance.

- Yes, Li Lin's family is not an ordinary person, his family has tens of millions of assets in Binhai City, so Li Lin can afford to go to the Sunshine International School, which has quite expensive tuition, but his background is the most ordinary type in the Sunshine School.

“…… In the science of education, family education is considered to be a crucial link, which is recognized by all schools of thought. After all, ordinary children will not spend more time at school than at home from birth until they graduate from high school, and the educational theory of ignoring family education is not scientific enough.

However, the current school education has not yet been meticulous to the point of private customization according to each child's different family environment and different physiological and psychological characteristics, and social education is a passive influence most of the time, and what each child can learn from the big classroom of "society" is related to himself, and also related to the family and school education he receives.

But this qiē can be said to start from family education, parents are the first teachers of children, and parents absolutely have an unshirkable responsibility for what goes wrong with their children. ”

In the ward, in front of the principal, Chu Xian, a senior student majoring in non-normal majors who had only become a teacher on his first day today, talked eloquently without stage fright, and said that Li Lin's parents, who were almost twice as old as him, couldn't raise their heads a little.

"But, but we parents have not been willing to slap him since we were young, and we usually ask for money and give money, but in order to prevent him from spending money indiscriminately to learn badly, what kind of money is he used for, what kind of children he plays with, what kind of friends he makes at school, and we all stare at what time he gets home from school.

This is because our family's business is a small business, and my man can be a little busy, but I have a lot of time to discipline the children.

I think I'm doing a much better job than other parents who are so busy that they don't have to stay at home all day, we have always been very well-behaved, never playing with bad kids, and not like our other friends' children who have this thing today and that thing tomorrow.

In terms of study, I think that our parents make money just to give their children a good life, as long as the children work hard in their studies and have no vices in life, they will not lose their family property in the future, and my husband and I will be basically satisfied.

We also know the anime games he watches and plays at home, as well as the figure models and whatever, as long as there is no erotic content in it, we will follow his hobbies.

This kid likes to watch animations and play with cars or something since he was a child.,Even if I take him out, he's not very willing to exercise.,I don't have any other hobbies.,I don't think he's sitting on a chubby mound because he doesn't exercise.,Then don't exercise if you don't exercise much.,Anyway, my husband and I aren't people who exercise regularly.,This fat and thin also depends on genes.。 ”

Although Li Lin's parents didn't dare to make another mistake after learning about Chu Xian's great background, when it came to the word "responsibility", his mother still couldn't help but defend herself, and his father also nodded again and again, but he didn't see the resentment in their children's eyes, and they didn't feel that they had really fulfilled their parents' educational responsibilities at all.

However, even in the eyes of the principal of the famous Sunshine School in the "industry", Li Lin's mother should have done what she should do, she is really not a shrew in terms of educating her children, but Liu Zhenye's parents are really choking, so the child has become like this, and the main problem is still in the child himself.

Actually...... To talk about Li Lin's problem...... It's not a problem at all, it's just that because there is a prop that can vent hatred unscrupulously, I unconsciously abuse this prop more and more. This is human nature, the vast majority of adults are actually not much better without any restraints, and their self-control may not be very high, but Li Lin was unlucky and happened to be discovered.

Of course, Li Lin hid such an important and secret notebook in his clothes and went to the cafeteria to eat, which must have increased the risk of him being discovered. But this is not taken into account, or he wants to find an opportunity to write down the name of the person who makes him angry in his notebook at any time, and this is only a matter of IQ, and has little to do with education, especially the home education of his parents.

"No...... It's true that you're already doing better than many Oriental parents, but don't you and your husband realize that there is a very strict problem with your parenting methods? ”

Although Chu Xian had noticed the resentment in Li Lin's eyes, he didn't directly ask Li Lin to also talk about his views on family education that his parents thought was good, and he also knew that a "good child" like Li Lin would not reveal too much of his inner thoughts to people who didn't trust enough even if he asked alone, and basically asked in vain.

And Li Lin's parents were asked by Chu Xian like this, and their eyes immediately widened to reveal an innocent and helpless expression, and they didn't feel that there was anything wrong with their education methods at all. Even if they thought and thought about it in Chu Xian's silence, they still couldn't figure out what their problem was—if it was so easy to find, they would have found it long ago.

"Teacher Chu, we know that children do that kind of thing in school, it must be that our parents have inadequate education, if there is any problem, please say it directly, we must accept it with an open mind."

After thinking about it for a long time, Li Lin's father, who was also thin and had a fairly gentle temper, still took the initiative to ask Chu Xian to solve his doubts. The principal sitting on the side was also quite interested in this, and he also wanted to hear Chu Xian's views on oriental education, after all, Chu Xian was "at least" a student of the School of Philosophy of Binhai University, and even if he was not a teacher major, he should have some ideas of his own.

-- And to be honest, many of today's teacher training students just regard teaching as a relatively stable and decent job with a long vacation, and they don't think much about education at all.