Chapter 12 hesitates
Feng Guoying suddenly smiled with relief: "Xiaomin, do you agree with my words?" ”
"Hmm." Qi Shunmin nodded and said, "I respect your way of living. As long as you feel that such troublesome and noisy days will enrich you, do what you want. ”
"Haha, you have to think that it will be troublesome and noisy for me to have another child. However, I'm afraid that the days ahead will be too lonely. ”
"Yes. May your second baby bring a lot of life to your family. Qi Shunmin said heartily to Feng Guoying.
Feng Guoying pondered for a while, and then sighed again: "I think that I and other colleagues didn't approve of your marriage at the beginning, but now I have thought through my own affairs, as long as you feel that being happy with that man, it is more important than anything else." Sister is supporting you now! ”
Qi Shunmin blinked his big moist eyes: "Thank you, Sister Feng." You were the first to change your attitude towards my marriage. ”
Feng Guoying stared at Qi Shunmin's delicate face with a tentative gaze again: "Xiaomin, since you are determined to live with that man, have you considered having a child?" ”
Qi Shunmin was in an extremely complicated mood at this time, and couldn't help but hang his head.
Seeing this, Feng Guoying asked further tentatively, "Does that man plan to let you have a child?" ”
Qi Shunmin finally replied in a low voice: "He let me make up my mind." ”
Feng Guoying nodded: "I understand." He still wants to have a child of his own. ”
Qi Shunmin was surprised: "How can you be so sure? ”
"If he doesn't want children, he won't ask for your opinion. Because after all, you already have a child of your own, so you don't need to have a second child. And he hasn't given birth to flesh and blood yet. So I hope you agree to have a second child. ”
Qi Shunmin listened to Feng Guoying's analysis, and immediately frowned: "However, he has nothing after all." I mustered up the courage to marry him, and I was already criticized by the whole world, if I had another child with him, wouldn't it..."
"Xiaomin." Feng Guoying immediately interrupted, "Since you have entrusted your happiness to him for life, do you still need to care about other people's eyes?" ”
"But... Having a second child is not a trivial matter. If I act rashly, I will not only hurt myself, but also my future children. ”
"Hehe, I don't understand that. If you want to be nurturing for a child, how can you hurt him? Feng Guoying couldn't help but smile and questioned.
Qi Shunmin gritted his teeth and had to tell the truth: "I don't have special confidence in him. ”
Feng Guoying was silent for a while, and then asked again: "You have been with him for several months, how are you feeling now?" ”
Qi Shunmin couldn't help but say emotionally: "He spoils me very much." I feel that living with him has not been happy with my ex-husband in the past 20 years. ”
Feng Guoying nodded: "Since that's the case, you just go with your feelings." As long as you are fulfilled and happy, you don't have to suffer so much from gains and losses. ”
"But..."
"Xiaomin, listen to my sister's words - don't let yourself be burdened with too much ideological pressure."
Qi Shunmin acquiesced, pondered for a moment, and then asked, "Sister Feng, do you say that he really desires to have a biological flesh and blood?" ”
Feng Guoying pondered for a while, and then said earnestly: "As a man, whether you can leave a blood of your own in this world is to verify whether you have lived a successful life. So, no man wants to leave regrets. ”
Qi Shunmin's face changed: "Is it really like what you said?" ”
Feng Guoying changed his words again: "However, for a man, he must not be selfish, and he can't force his other half to do things he is unwilling to do because of his subjective will." He should give happiness to the woman who accompanies him for life. Therefore, it is not in vain that he can grow old with you. ”
Qi Shunmin recalled what Chen Xuewu had said, and felt a little more relaxed in his heart.
That afternoon, there were no classes at school. However, Qi Shunmin was not in a hurry to go home. She and Feng Guoying came to the small noodle restaurant outside, ate a bowl of beef noodles each, and went to the city hospital together.
"Xiaomin, have you thought about it?" Feng Guoying asked tentatively on the road.
Qi Shunmin was stunned: "What am I considering?" ”
"Take this opportunity to take off the ring with me."
"Nope." Qi Shunmin shook his head again and again, "I don't want to have another child." ”
Feng Guoying chuckled: "Okay then." I don't force you. As long as you are happy with each other, it is also a kind of happiness. ”
"Yes." Qi Shunmin echoed, "People can't be too greedy in this life, they must know how to appreciate perfection in their shortcomings." ”
By the time they arrived at the hospital, there were already more than a dozen women of all ages waiting in line to have their rings removed. Qi Shunmin accompanied Feng Guoying to sit among them.
"How old was my sister's first child?" The woman on the other side of Qi Shunmin saw her beautiful appearance, and accosted her affectionately.
Qi Shunmin glanced at the woman, feeling that she was no more than forty years old this year, and as soon as her mouth moved, she showed two gold teeth, and her appearance was mediocre, and she was probably several years younger than herself in terms of age. However, the face of a delicate porcelain doll looks much younger than others.
"My daughter is nineteen years old." Qi Shunmin replied without thinking.
"Yo, why is your child so big, how old are you to give birth to her?"
"My daughter was born at the age of twenty-two."
The woman with big gold teeth was stunned: "Are you over forty years old?" ”
Qi Shunmin smiled calmly: "Yes." You should call me 'sister', right? ”
The woman with the big gold tooth didn't call it rashly, but said incredulously: "Why are you so well maintained?" I think you're so beautiful, are you a star? ”
Qi Shunmin's pretty face turned crimson and said, "Where... I'm just an ordinary teacher." ”
"Oh, you're over forty years old, why do you want to have a second child? I'm Chinese New Year's Eve six years old today, and I feel like it's a bit too late to have another child. ”
Qi Shunmin was a little embarrassed, and couldn't help but glance at Feng Guoying sideways, only to see that she was closing her eyes and recuperating, ignoring Qi Shunmin's conversation with that woman.
Qi Shunmin had no choice but to lower his voice to the woman with big gold teeth: "I accompanied my colleague to take off the ring." ”
The woman with big gold teeth couldn't help but glance at Feng Guoying on Qi Shunmin's side, and suddenly showed a surprised expression.
"Li Xiufen!"
Just as the woman with big gold teeth opened her mouth and just wanted to question Feng Guoying's age, she heard the radio call.
She quickly stood up and said, "It's my turn, I'll miss the company first." ”
Qi Shunmin breathed a sigh of relief, and did not forget to say: "I wish you a qiēshun lì." ”
However, as soon as the woman left, another half-aged sat on her side. She is also talkative, as soon as she saw Qi Shunmin's handsome appearance, she talked to her eloquently...
Although only men like beautiful women? Beautiful women are also the object of competition for favor in front of the same sex.
Qi Shunmin gradually felt a little shy, because when she talked to the women who were waiting to take off the ring, they all thought that she was here to take off the ring, and Feng Guoying was accompanying her. Because in the eyes of others, Qi Shunmin is more like a woman of the right age to give birth, and Feng Guoying looks old-fashioned, and no one believes that she is the one who wants to take off the ring.
After Qi Shunmin dealt with this woman for a few words, he saw that there were still seven or eight women in front of Feng Guoying, and said to Feng Guoying: "Sister Feng, you can wait here with peace of mind." I'll go out and get some breath first, and I'll come back later. ”
Feng Guoying understood her thoughts, so she nodded with a smile: "You go out." I'll call you when I'm done. ”
Qi Shunmin's face flushed: "No." I'll be back in a moment. ”
Just as Qi Shunmin was burying his head and walking out, he suddenly almost collided with an oncoming person at the door of the hospital. When she looked up, she saw that it was an 'old middle-aged' woman who was slightly taller than her. He has gray hair and wears a dark purple half-sleeved shirt and a pair of wide gray bucket pants underneath.
Qi Shunmin was suddenly shocked - the person who came was Zhang Chunhong, the oldest colleague in his office!
"Teacher Qi, are you here to finish the ring?" Zhang Chunhong was the first to ask.
When Qi Shunmin heard her ask like this, he couldn't help but be stunned: "Teacher Zhang, are you here to take off the ring?" ”
Zhang Chunhong was also stunned when she saw Qi Shunmin's surprised eyes: "Aren't you?" ”
Qi Shunmin shook his head again and again: "I came with Teacher Feng." ”
"Oh, is she done then?"
"Not yet. There are a lot of people in line now. ”
"Yes. As soon as the two-child policy came down, it was too late for those older women to take action. ”
Qi Shunmin couldn't believe that Mr. Zhang, who was only one year away from retiring, took off the ring in order to have a second child, so he asked tentatively: "Mr. Zhang, you have reached the age of menopause, and it is time to take off the ring." But why get together to pick up the rings? ”
Unexpectedly, Zhang Chunhong said frankly: "I didn't take off the ring because I was already menopausal. Because I still want to drink medicine to restore menstruation, and take advantage of the two-child policy to have a child! ”
When Qi Shunmin heard this, he immediately felt unbelievable-"Why is this?" ”