"Besides, Ye Wei, don't you think it's ridiculous yourself? When you first tried to persuade me, you obviously wanted me to learn, but now what are you talking about? Pulling back from the precipice or something, saying that grades are not the most important thing, but what you are saying now is the same thing as what you asked me to do, or is it not the same thing? You know that what you're saying now is contradictory? Can you clear your mind before you talk to me? You're messing me up, really, I don't know how I'm going to do what I want to do, but I don't know, what the hell am I going to do if you say that? ”

Ye Wei smiled slightly and said: "I said that you don't have to care about the grades, I want you not to care too much about the results even if you work hard, because in our long life, this achievement is not the most important, it is just a process, just a small point of record, as long as you have worked hard, it is enough, because in some cases, the process is the most important, what we care about is not the result." Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoAs long as you work hard, even if you can't get into the university you want at that time, you can't get the most satisfactory results, but in this process, because of your hard work, your life is colorful, you will be happy because you have worked hard, tell yourself that you have done your best, you will not regret it because of this, and decadence, this is what I want to say. ”

"But I asked you to work hard because in this world, we may only work hard to achieve the goal we want most, for example, now we only work hard to get the highest score, we can be admitted to our most ideal university, if we haven't worked hard, just give up, then you are doomed to fail in the end. And at that time, or at the beginning, you are destined for your ideal university, but in the process, because you don't work hard, you can only pass by, will you regret it? In fact, the most important thing in our whole long life, the most concerned, and the things we are fighting for are our ideals, but in fact, in the end, we only look at the process, it is your heart, not your heart to do things, the final result is no matter what, as long as you have worked hard, then you will not be decadent because of this, but if you do not work hard, then the person who will be disappointed in the end is just yourself. ”

"Actually, I thought about telling you these words when I first became a real friend with you, but maybe it was because our feelings were not enough for us to say this, so I thought about it, but I still didn't say it. But now it's the last minute. This is the last year, if you don't work hard, you will really only fail, are you willing to go to that third-rate college? Obviously, you are studying at a university that we can only get into with the highest score in the city, but you are going to a third-rate college, are you worthy of the expectant eyes of people who looked at you with longing when you first came and thought that you could go to a first-class university? Do you have to wait until your future life is full of depression, and you will have a little regret that you didn't put in the slightest effort for this at this time? ”

"Weiwei, I have already thought about what you said, but it is difficult for me to do it, I am afraid of failure, I can't face failure, I have fallen into life, I can't withstand another wave, I don't want to get up, walk a few steps, and fall again, so for me, it is likely to really become a slump, and I don't want this. Don't you think I'm doing pretty well now? I'm living a pretty good life now, so why do I have to sharpen my neck for a university and drill into it desperately? In this era, in fact, a well-known university is no longer the most important, there are already other ways to go, I don't need to work hard for such a university, and then go to the university for another three years, it is possible, when I study in it for three years, the other people who come out have already mixed well, and when we finish college, they may have become bosses, and they may have achieved success, so instead of this, it is better for us to come out and work hard, after all, it is not only about studying in college, Reading good books is the only way out, isn't it? ”

"I don't deny that the facts you are talking about will exist and have already existed. But you don't want to think about yourself, you can't afford to fail at all. A little setback, you can't get up, you're already slumped, and you don't want to experience it a second time. Then think about it, if you go out of this society, you go through all kinds of hardships and hardships experienced by all entrepreneurs, and it is impossible for entrepreneurs to succeed at one time, whether it is your failure is enough for you to give up, because you will also give up your efforts because of a failure. And at that time, do you look at other people's success and blush, and then say that people just rely on luck, or rely on others, you don't face up to and don't understand other people's efforts, but you have been gossiping behind your back, you are the most unworthy and irrational. ”

Ye Wei originally planned not to say anything, but she couldn't say nothing, she couldn't bear to do it like this, she didn't want to give up, because she felt that Yang Yilin still had a chance to save, and she couldn't because of someone's mistake, so she decided that people would always take a wrong step in this life journey, and now Yang Yilin just lacks a hand that can pull Yang Yilin out of the predicament, after all, now Yang Yilin is on the edge of the cliff and falls off accidentally, and now she needs someone to persuade her to turn back.

"You're right, you can't deny your whole life and the meaning of hard work because of one failure. Yes, if I can't get up this time because of difficulties, then the next time I face the same dilemma, I will lose the motivation to work hard and lose the heart to struggle. But the road of life is so long, and so short, there is not much room for us to choose, if I am not careful to give it up easily, then I am doomed to failure, because I can't work hard, because I am afraid of failure, then this life is destined to be a sad, for my future life is no longer like this, I only have to work hard, I can't easily give up what I like, what I care about. ”

"That's right, come on, I appreciate you. I believe that in the process of your efforts, you will definitely be able to harvest what you want most, even if you can't achieve your ideal state after working hard, but at least you have worked hard, haven't you? You're not like you're now, you don't give the slightest, but you complain. (To be continued.) )