"There is a saying that the stupid bird flies first, if you think you are not smart enough, then you have to work harder, because in this world, no one will stop because of who is backward, you can't keep up with the pace of this era, one day you will be abandoned by this era, and when the time comes, who should you blame? Can you blame me at that time for saying that it was because of my existence, and you gradually gave up because of disappointment, and gradually became gradually outdated? Do you have to find reasons in others and not in your own every time you don't succeed? ”

Ye Wei felt that there was really something wrong with Yang Yilin's idea, could it be someone else's fault if she failed? Why not find a reason in yourself? There are some factors of failure that are artificial, but some of the reasons for failure can really only be found in oneself. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 infoIf you only learn to find reasons to shirk responsibility every time you encounter something, then you will never learn to grow up. Obviously, Yang Yilin is in this situation now, when she encounters something, the first thing she thinks about is not how to solve it, but to push the responsibility on other people, why doesn't she want to think about it, is it that while she is working hard, others are not working hard?

Could it be that in her heart, she is the only one in this world who is improving, and then everyone else will be in the same place, or will she regress? He should understand one thing, no one in this world will stop and wait for anyone, and no one's success can be constructed and influenced by others, and it will not fail because of some unnecessary reasons. On this issue, Yang Yilin should really wake up, and now the time is so tight, if she is still like this, what should she do when it comes to the college entrance examination? One wrong step, one wrong step, now she is already on the cliff, if she doesn't hurry up to the cliff, then she will only fall, and no one can help her. After all, when you don't know how to find the reason in yourself, you are the most failure.

"Seriously, Ye Wei, I really don't know how to explain it to you, you don't seem to understand my thoughts at all, I can't tell you what I think at all, you kind of scholar will never understand the psychology of people like me. Because you have never experienced something like me, how do you know if your psychology is as unbalanced and unbalanced as mine when you are like me, because we have succeeded, so at this time our failure has become extremely intolerable, if I have not succeeded, I can still tell myself with peace of mind that I still have time, I can still work hard and succeed after failure, failure is the mother of success, I have various reasons to comfort myself. ”

"But now because I have succeeded, I have been dazzling, I do not allow my own failures, and every failure is a particularly conspicuous flaw in my life's journey, like adding a large black mark to this pure and immaculate white paper in my life, which I cannot accept at all, because I cannot accept it, so I would rather stain the whole white paper black. Because after dyeing black, at least on this piece of paper is the same pure color, not messy, but I think you won't understand my unbearable thoughts. ”

"Yes, I don't understand. I don't understand why you can never get back up after only one failure? If you want to think that your starting point is not very high, why do you just learn not to fall down and get up, get up and keep walking? Why do you just fall in that one place and never get up again? And go further down your winding road, and no longer have the same glimmer of desire you had when you came here? Have you never been disappointed, regretted, or regretted after all this time? ”

"Ye Wei, you are too pure, you are out of the mud and not stained, you don't understand the kind of little thoughts of ordinary people like us, you can only understand your so-called, upright thoughts, but you can't understand our careful thoughts, some of the twists and turns, and I think, even if you have such a careful person in front of you, you can't bear to pollute you, just like me, I am one of the examples. Although I envy you and envy you, I can't hate you, and I can't pull you down this plate of black water to dye you black, I hope that in my world, you can always be pure and immaculate, not dyed by this colorful world without a trace of purity. ”

"I admit that I regretted it, I regretted it, I also thought that I also fell and stood up, why go further and further on that road of no return, but once some roads start to walk you can never turn back, just like me now, you tell me, how much time is left now? Even if I want to turn back, is it too late? I feel that even if I look back now, I won't get what I originally wanted, so why should I go back and work harder, what I didn't bother to have? ”

"If you haven't tried, you've already judged the future, you've already decided that you're going to fail, and that's why you're going to fail often. Sometimes we work hard, but the most important thing is not the result but the process, isn't it? The important thing is that we have struggled, worked hard, and struggled for this, rather than just caring about the result, sometimes you only care about the result will only hurt yourself more deeply, the result is just the result, and the process will make your life more colorful, why are you so entangled? When you come to high school, isn't your original purpose to go to a good university? ”

"But you have decided to give up before we have started to work hard, so is the opportunity to get into a good university also lost by your behavior? You know, there are so many universities, not only one university is the best, so many choices, why give up a forest for a tree? And in our long life, the score is just a number, it can not represent anything, what can determine our future quality of life is not this number but others, this is just a number on paper for us, if you give up your ideals easily because of this number on paper, then you really because of that small number and determine your next fate, and really can not get rid of. ”

"It's natural for someone with a high grade like you to say that, because you have so many choices, but how can an ordinary person like us make as many choices as you? There are very few choices we can have, if we want to be like you, we have to pay far more than you think, but in the end, we pay more than we get, because no matter how hard we try, we can't compare to you, we are too inferior to you, so our disappointment is even more. (To be continued.) )