After going downstairs, I called Zihan.

"Xiao Luo." That's it, she's always on the phone, and she seems to be very respectful, and it seems like she's seriously waiting for me to give some instructions.

"Zihan, are you busy, if you are not busy, you come out, I have something to do with you!"

"Okay, I'm almost done, where do you say to go?"

"Then I'll go back to the company! I'll be there in a moment! You wait for me! ”

The Land Cruiser car was parked in the garage, and the witch hadn't moved for a long time, with a thin layer of dust on it.

Looking at the Land Cruiser, there is an indescribable warmth, as if there is still the breath of a witch in it, of course, I know that I shouldn't think about this at this time, but I do feel this way in my heart.

With the traffic on my morning shift, I entered the parking lot of the building where LIJ was located.

Zihan stood in front of the parking lot in a white coat, probably because of the time, there were very few cars in the parking lot.

"Xiao Luo!" Zihan, who was far away, saw my car coming and trotted over.

"Have you had breakfast?" I pressed the window. She's not used to eating breakfast, and that's not a good habit.

"Nope!" Zihan opened the car door and sat in.

Take out a cigarette and light it.

"Aren't you coming to work today?" Zihan saw my silence and wanted to break it.

"Oh. Right! "I raised my hand and looked at my watch, if it wasn't for Zihan reminding me that I would have forgotten about going to work." It's not too late, it's just after 7 o'clock. I'm going to have a meeting later. ”

Monday is a meeting, and it starts all morning, and it seems that today's plan has been disrupted again.

"What haven't you told me yet?" Zihan reminded and was also curious.

"What do you think of Lin Xi's affairs?" I asked directly.

"I don't think it's easy! It's a hassle! Your own fault! "Zihan doesn't talk nonsense, because she understands what I mean.

"It's not a way to keep delaying, it's been so long!" I sighed.

"Where are you staying at night?" Zihan asked.

"It's home."

"Oh, that's good."

However, the witch doesn't want to see me, so I may have to move out. I said, "Zihan, I'll leave it to you." ”

Zihan looked out the window and said, "You deserve it." ”

I bowed my head: "I really deserve it." ”

"Let's go up, we have to have a meeting!" I looked at the time, and it was almost time.

What else do I want to say, Zihan said: "Let's talk about the work first." I have something to tell you after the meeting. ”

"Okay."

In the morning, I was probably numb to the boredom of this kind of meeting, or it was that the things in front of me took up too much space in my brain, and I sat in the conference room all morning.

After the meeting, Zihan said to me: "Vice President Ma once said: If Zhenhe can't deal with the Yang family and the Zhang family, the reform will not succeed. ”

I was quite puzzled, and I found out after investigating.

The proprietress is surnamed Yang, her sister and younger brother are in the company, one serves as a customs declaration, the other serves as a driver, and later the younger brother Yang Ren opened his own factory, and many other relatives and fellow villagers of the proprietress are in Zhenhe.

So who is the Zhang family? I know that among the factory managers, Zhang Xinjiang, the general affairs supervisor, is surnamed Zhang, and Zhang Xiaojie, the deputy quality manager, is surnamed Zhang, and it turns out that Zhang Xiaojie's wife cashier Zheng Xiangxiang is the aunt of the boss's wife, and Zhang Xinjiang is the father-in-law of the boss's sister Yang Yinfen, and Zhang Xiaojie and Zhang Xinjiang seem to be related to each other.

The Yang family and the Zhang family have just a few managers, Yang Yinfen looks quite honest, she doesn't like to get involved in right and wrong, Yang Ren opened the factory by himself, although Zhang Xinjiang is a little sleek, but a general affairs supervisor can't turn over anything, Zhang Xiaojie and Zheng Vanilla, especially Zheng Vanilla is more troublesome, this couple loves to talk about right and wrong behind their backs, but the two of them can turn the sky? I don't think there's a problem, but after I figured it out, I realized that I was naïve.

The company arranges for employees to fill in the employee registration form again, the relationship between internal employees must be indicated, Zihan has sorted out a list, the relationship between all employees of the company, a total of 9 pages, I looked, startled, the whole is a net, longitude and latitude, nodes are staggered, no wonder the company has not yet decided, the following rumors are flying all over the sky, and no secrets can be protected, look at the relationship list of these 9 pages to understand, these 9 pages basically cover more than 50% of the employees in the factory.

The relatives of the boss, the boss's wife, the old subordinates when starting the business, the relatives of the managers, the relatives of the relatives, the former body of Zhenhe was corroded by this family network and relationship network, lacking the rule of law and fairness, and now it will be accidentally eroded by this net at any time. Most of these networks are related to the boss lady by blood and geography, plus the relationship network of some entrepreneurial veterans.

Don't underestimate these nets, if I am forced to leave Zhenhe, it will be thanks to this net, if a boss has soft ears, does not understand management, often asks the following people in the net for the views and evaluations of the high-level, these people lack management height, lack of fairness, lack of judgment of right and wrong, when I see the boss asking myself, I am flattered, as if I saw the royal car in ancient times, I naturally want to turn it over, criticize others, pick a little fault with others to show his cleverness, the emperor's ears have been eroded for a long time, Naturally, I lost my judgment. The level of referees has to be very high, and you can't let employees be both athletes and referees, and it's a bit ridiculous to let these people be referees.

When I just managed Zhenhe, the boss lady has to come to me to solve any trivial things, the boss lady below the relatives and friends of the fellow countrymen and women are very many, the gossip information is very much, today reflects that there are male and female employees sleeping together, tomorrow reflect that someone in the female staff shower room to install a camera, and then I arranged for Zihan and security guards to check, and found that some are exaggerated facts, some are pure hearsay, accurate and true less, often so I am annoyed, how can I have the time and energy to play this kind of small family all day long, So he asked the proprietress to go directly to Zihan and He Ke to reflect.

The first contradiction with the boss lady is because of the problem of output value, this month the company's output value reached two million and thirty thousand, everyone is in a state of excitement, when the bonus is issued, the boss lady in the finance department, said: "Why is it so coincidental?" No more, no less, a little more than two million, why not one or two thousand? ”

Ye Shengping, the manager of the finance department of the factory, passed the words to me as they were, and I got angry when I heard it: "Will I still be able to do fraud, this output value is also calculated by the finance department, and I am not counted by me. ”

I have been in a bad mood for the past two days, the boss saw the company's output value and high bonuses, why I didn't look smiling at all, so he asked me, I didn't have a good anger to sue Mr. Zhen. Mr. Zhen criticized me, pointing out that the proprietress is now starting to detach herself from finance and slowly take charge of auditing, and she suspects that it is normal for the output value to be problematic. The boss also thinks that the boss lady is right, I am very depressed all day long, and I can't solve this knot: I have worked hard in the past few months to make the output value up, and it exceeded two million for the first time. I'm not happy in my heart, and I don't bother to talk to my boss these days.

After a week, I also basically figured it out, the most obvious practice of "human governance culture" is to use capable people, and capable people usually break the rules and regulations, so capable people pay special attention to "employing people without doubt, suspicious people do not use", but modern enterprise management pays attention to the use of suspicious people, employing people to be suspicious, paying attention to "system first, capable people second", trust can not replace supervision, otherwise the future will not only harm the enterprise, but also harm the individual, suspicious people do not use, use people do not doubt is the ancient ability to the monarch's idealized expectations, is the Chinese people self-deception of the big words. The proprietress is suspicious, she suspects, let her go to the finance and warehouse to check, what's the big deal? Is it worth the bother? Later, I watched a lot of cases, and I also recalled my situation at that time, mainly because for the first time I had this feeling of not being trusted, that feeling was very hurtful, and at that time, I was suddenly poured a basin of cold water on my excitement, and the feeling of loss in my heart can be imagined, plus the boss supports the boss's wife's opinion.

The rule of man society, emphasizing feelings, trust based on emotional relationships, rather than rights and obligations under the rule of law, Western managers if they are suspected of being audited, feel normal, and Chinese are audited and feel that they are not trusted and hurt their self-esteem, so Chinese are suddenly distrusted when they have good feelings, and the sudden blow of that spirit may be better than the blow of **. I have always studied Chinese and Western cultures, and although I have never been abroad, I am still greatly influenced by Western thought, but I myself have been deeply imprinted by Chinese culture. The baptism of thought is a difficult process, Wang An computer, the pride of the Chinese at that time, Wang An also studied and lived in the United States for many years, but in the end he passed the position of general manager to his son, the idea of the world is still deeply rooted in his mind, which shows how much influence the ideas accepted in his youth have on people's lives. After I left Datong, there was a period of reflection, in the end how much the traditional small farmer thinking has affected me, can it be completely cleaned, I found that some things although I have understood the truth, but the formation of some habits to correct may take a lifetime of effort, easy to know and difficult to do, re-elected Zhengfei such a wise person, its subconscious is still hidden in the deep sense of parenthood!

After a week, my mentality was basically adjusted and I took the initiative to communicate with the boss: if the boss lady has any doubts in the future, she can check it.

My opinion was eliminated, but the boss and the proprietress began to have prejudices against the financial manager Ye Shengping, thinking that she would "sue" and provoke right and wrong.

After I left Chase, I saw an article about 30 well-known entrepreneurs in China visiting Li Ka-shing, and Li Ka-shing's remarks made a deep impression on me, which proved that my reflection at that time was timely: our company has always been managed by the Western business model. As the leader of the company, I will mix a little bit of our Chinese human touch with my colleagues and business policies. When you see that an employee is contributing to your business, and at the same time is loyal to the company and wants to serve the company for a long time, and you feel that he has integrity, then you should pay attention to him and make him feel that his future is secure. While trusting employees, there must also be a system of checks and balances. If you think someone is good based on your personal wishes, you will appoint someone casually, and in the end something goes wrong, not only harming yourself, the company, but also the person, if you have a system of checks and balances, you will not have this big problem.

The proprietress has a prejudice against me, I blamed her classmates in the staff meeting, and Zhang Tao, the current accountant, was fired, and I also said in a management meeting: "No matter what the relationship is, those who violate the law or have a bad attitude will be dealt with the same, Zhang Tao is an example." "The hostess thinks it's against her again, and she already has a prejudice against me.

Finally, one time, I offended the boss lady, causing the boss to have a big conflict with me, and I proposed to resign from Zhenhe for the first time.

It was a meeting, sometimes the boss lady will also attend the meeting, the boss lady in the meeting asked to provide a prepared system to her, I think one is not necessary, the boss lady also belongs to the general manager's office, the document control center in the distribution, only one to the general manager's office, not two copies to the general manager's office, the boss lady wants to see at any time to me to get it, if one more is distributed, the number of articles is too much; The second is that I can't get used to the kind of style she was arrogant at that time. He said to the proprietress: "You don't have to give you a copy of the system, you just need to get it from me if you want to." ”

At that time, I directly rejected the boss, I felt that the boss's face was a little unbearable, the next day, Mr. Zhen found Li Wei, accusing me of having a bad attitude towards the boss, and I must change this character and this attitude.

Vice President Ma's business, the boss's wife's business, I feel that the boss has always accused him during this time, this time I had a big dispute with the boss in the office, Mr. Zhen asked me to do it, I must change my personality, I am "I usually say this, I want to change, I would rather not do it", it was very stiff at the time, I said in a fit of anger: "In this case, I feel that I can't do it anymore, I feel that what I am doing now is not right." ”

Mr. Zhen said: "No matter whether you do it or not, my reform will continue, after you came in, there was also a consultant from a consulting company who applied for this position, he was also very good, we have been in touch, and he is also very concerned about our company." ”

I'm wholeheartedly to you, other companies have been ignoring me secretly sending autumn waves, you still have a second n hiding ready to be corrected, then you ask your consultant to do it, Lao Tzu is gone! I'm very angry about that.

I wrote a letter of resignation right away, saying that I should go back to LIJ and do a good job in sales, I just want to do sales. The boss saw the resignation letter and asked me to think about it for three days, I took three days off, and after thinking about it: Mr. Zhen's personality should be strong, my personality should also be strong, he always asked me to change my personality and change the tone of my voice, how can this be changed by saying that it can be changed? If this continues, sooner or later, we will have a big conflict, instead of slapping the table and turning our faces in the future, it is better to leave as soon as possible and do LIJ well.

I was very reluctant to make the decision to leave Zhenhe, after all, I paid so much, and now the output value is constantly going up, the sales are also good, and the prospects are bright, which can not only ensure the sales up, but also the supply of the factory. On the other hand, I am similar to Mr. Zhen's personality, if there is such a conflict for a long time, one day I will turn against each other, rather than become an enemy in the future, it is better to withdraw now to do sales, and now the company is getting better, Mr. Zhen is ready to replace himself at any time, I feel hurt by this distrust again and again, my mind was constantly fighting for three days, and finally decided to leave Zhenhe.

Three days later, Zhen Neng He asked me if I had thought clearly, and I replied: I have thought it clearly and resigned from Zhen He.

At first, Mr. Zhen thought I was talking angrily, but I didn't expect that after thinking about it for three days, I still made up my mind to leave, but he calmed down, but comforted me, hoping that I stayed, Mr. Zhen affirmed that I had more advantages than disadvantages, but there were some small problems with young people's popularity, it doesn't matter if they change or not, they will slowly change as they get older. I wondered, why does Mr. Lin change so quickly sometimes? A few days ago, he said that it must be changed, but now he says that it does not matter, and the principles of the past few days can be overturned immediately today. However, since the boss doesn't require himself to fix these little problems, forget it.

Mr. Zhen said: "Don't mention resignation in the future, we will have a strategic partnership in the future, and we are all members of the board of directors." ”

After hearing this, I was also more moved: "Okay, I will no longer submit my resignation lightly in the future." ”

Since that time, the boss lady slowly faded out of the company's management, and then a Zhen said that the boss lady does not understand auditing, she will review randomly, there is a problem without a problem, and there will be a misunderstanding or contradiction is not good, and then recruit an auditor.

After that, the boss lady basically paid the managers' salaries, and the internal affairs of the factory were not taken care of.

Later, I overheard some people say: In the past, the boss was only in charge of technology, and Vice President Ma often had to report to the boss's wife, and many things were basically listened to by the boss's wife, if I was not so tough, I would become the second Vice President Ma.

After the boss lady faded out of management, I didn't have any more conflicts with the boss lady......

It was another meeting, and I finally got off work in the factory, and after the meeting, I dialed Zihan's mobile phone again.

"Xiao Luo." It was a long time before Zihan picked up the phone.

"Are you cooking?" I think she should be home this time.

"I'm doing it!" I guess she's a little confused.

"If it's not ready, don't do it, I'll bring some back from the restaurant." As I spoke, I walked towards the factory's cafeteria.

"Oh. Actually, it's almost ready! "Zihan just found the way he felt." You're coming, huh? ”

"What do you want to eat?" The meal in the restaurant was still ok.

"Whatever, then I won't do it!"

"Then you wait to eat ready-made!"

When she arrived at her house, she was curled up comfortably on the sofa and holding a book to watch TV.

She definitely belongs to the kind of girl who will enjoy it, unless she is forced to do it, or she will not put those so-called sorrows and sorrows on her face, and thanks to her indifferent character, she is very light, and she doesn't put too many things happening in the world into her heart. She said that what happens in the world is better off having nothing to do with her.

"Look at what you bring!" She didn't say hello, and ran straight to the lunch in my hand.

"I guess it's all your favorite food!" Hand it to her.

Zihan slipped out the bags one by one on the coffee table, looking for the delicious food she wanted.

I don't know if all women are the same, whether they go out to make soy sauce or attend a banquet, they have to be delicately painted, and at home, they will never apply powder at will.

The hair is so casually found a clip to fix on the top of the head, the clothes are also randomly found to be such a thing that will never be worn out but has a very comfortable material, and the soles of the feet are sucking a pair of pink slippers with cartoon patterns, except for the eyes are still the same, the rest of the woman who basically can't find the shadow of the woman after leaving home.

"Already off work?" I sat on the couch.

"Yes!" Zihan didn't raise his head, and put a shrimp in his mouth with two fingertips.

"What about Mr. Lin? The phone doesn't work! Zihan said.

"In the company!" I say.

"Are you all right?" Zihan chewed as he turned his head to ponder my words.

"It's okay to talk about it!" Again, I can't find a more appropriate answer than that.

Probably Zihan was not very satisfied with my answer, because it didn't contain the information and results she wanted, but she couldn't find the next words for a while.

"Xiao Luo, can I ask you something?" Zihan put down his chopsticks and looked up at me.

"What's the matter?"

"Can you stop being awkward with Mr. Lin? I don't think she's normal this time! ”

"I didn't have an awkward relationship with her!" I was empty-minded.

"Then why are you living outside? Now is the time when she needs someone to accompany her. ”

"Although I am divorced, I have not agreed to the divorce at all! But at that time, Lin Batian was forced. I paused, feeling that it would be easier to say the results directly.

"I know that, but." The latter words, Zihan didn't say it.

"So, I said I didn't promise a real divorce."

"Although I don't want to leave, it's not a way for you to keep going like this?"

"Zihan, there are some things I really want to say to Lin Xi, but her rejection of me makes me really unable to speak, I know that these successive things have hit her hard, and even I feel that her personality has changed back to the way she was before she got married, it doesn't matter, you don't have to say that I know it, but she doesn't accept it at all!"

"I think there are a lot of things you haven't said, don't be upset when I say this, Mr. Lin gives the impression of being arrogant and indifferent, but you have always given people the impression of being more arrogant and indifferent, so more things are that Mr. Lin is guessing your thoughts, she has given me a lot of text messages in the past few days, I think she still expects you to say something to her in her heart, even if it is a few words of comfort. You don't agree that divorce is just a result, but women pay more attention to the process, what do you say? ”

"Maybe!" I'm chewing on Zihan's analysis of his wife's psychology.

"Mr. Lin also has a lot of problems, especially loves to be clean, and her things are rarely touched. Especially. In that regard, why don't I text you and see it? Zihan probably meant that he was embarrassed to say it because of the difference between men and women, so he took out his mobile phone and showed it to me.

I took Zihan's mobile phone, and the inbox was basically full of witch text messages, about dozens of them.

I found the text message that Zihan was going to say, it was very long.

I can't accept the fact that he has sex with other women, I want to be disgusted and want to vomit when I think that he has ever entered the body of another woman, I can't stand him touching me anywhere now, and I want to get him down the toilet when I see him. ’

"Xiao Luo, I think you may not have noticed this, and Mr. Lin will not tell you, my purpose is to let you know that if you have anything to say to her, maybe I can help you with something!" Zihan interrupted my thoughts.

"Oh." His own response is also tantamount to suing Sù Zihan for acquiescing to Lin Xi's speculation and imagination, but can he say that there is no such thing? And who can believe it? What's more, if you have done it, you still have to deny it with your conscience?

"I'm full, it's time for me to go back!" Let's divert the topic, these mental activities of my own will be expressed on my face, I don't want to be so embarrassed in front of Zihan.

"You go back, accompany Mr. Lin, she must be very uncomfortable now when you leave, and her phone can't get through until now. She is home alone, and no one is at ease! "To be honest with Zihan's request, I don't know if it's feasible, I can't blame the witch, but maybe it's the witch.

"Then, if you have anything you need me to convey, or if it's inconvenient for you to say, I can tell Mr. Lin!" What Zihan read from my expression was my acquiescence.

"I don't have anything to say, Lin Xi should know my temper, maybe I will talk eloquently in front of others, but now I can count a few words a day with her." I thought about it, if I really want to say anything to the witch, I should also say it to her and let others convey it, especially Zihan, then the credibility will be greatly reduced, after all, her role is a lobbyist.

"That's your question, what kind of life do you say you're living here? I can't say a few words a day, the two of them just eat at the same table and sleep in the same bed all day long, and they don't do their husband and wife homework, I doubt how you can get by! ”

"She's done with all the messy work and it's almost eleven o'clock, and then she comes back and goes to sleep, she doesn't understand my work, I don't understand her work, what do you say?" I interrupted Zihan's muttering and explained in one breath.

"Xiao Luo, I think the key to this matter lies with you!" Zihan may feel that he can't restrain himself, so he has changed his attitude to a relatively sincere attitude. "If you admit a mistake to Mr. Lin, I don't think it will be like this if it's profound, right?"

Zihan may have hit the nail on the head, it is undeniable that I haven't said a single sorry to my wife since the beginning of this incident, which can explain nothing other than that my lack of real consciousness is caused by my own mistakes.

"You've seen the text message too, even if I say I'm sorry now, it's useless, that's not what she likes!"

"I'll tell her this, but you also think about what I just said, of course, I also know that the pressure and cynicism that their family gives you makes you very unhappy, and you must be very angry, which should also be related, but you should also know that everyone in Mr. Lin, including me, still hopes that you can develop well, but no one thought of it, if you don't want you to develop, what else will Mr. Lin do with you? You tell me? ”

"Let's go see your sister first!" My mind is messed up, and I don't want to reason with Zihan anymore.

"Alright then!" Zihan's enthusiasm was blocked back by my insensitivity, so I was a little helpless.

For the whole night, I sat on the hotel couch and didn't move much.

It is estimated that Zihan's words didn't work very well in front of the witch, so there was no phone call.

That's to be expected.