Because Wei Qiang did not appear, everyone can only talk about their own thoughts.

Of course, their true thoughts on this matter are very important, because this is related to Wei Qiang's decision next.

Wei Qiang's biggest contradiction is the view of their parents and the view of the other parent.

It can be said that on this diǎn, their ability to bear is limited.

It's like the college entrance examination in China, some people, before the college entrance examination, can't bear the pressure and jump off the building directly, while some people don't study well, but they have to get by, can you say, that person is more worth learning?

Two people have their own shortcomings, but when people die, there is no qiē, and it is simply impossible to contribute to society, and that or yes, may not contribute very much in the future, but they will definitely contribute to the construction of the country, which is the embodiment of his value.

So, now it seems that no one is easy to judge.

Ye Nan looked at the parents of both sides, the four of them, they had been here for so long, they didn't say a word, they just looked at each other, and their eyes were not so kind.

"You don't want to talk, so why are you here? Tourism? Ye Nan didn't want to open his mouth when he saw the other party, so he had to speak himself.

"In this way, I will say a diǎn, you are here for your children, and if you want to make your children better in the future, you must solve this problem now, don't think that a person's feelings are trivial."

Ye Nan reminded that neither of them was a lonely person, so they all agreed with Ye Nan's words.

In many cases, because of a diǎndiǎn relationship problem, there will be a big accident, even death.

This happens every year.

"So, say what you really think, if you can be together, you can let the two of them talk, if not, I will let them put down this relationship, and in the future, they will understand whether it was worth giving up at the beginning, but this should not have any impact on his life." Ye Nan said with a guarantee.

Both sides saw that Ye Nan was so sincere, and they both diǎndiǎn heads, and he could personally invite them to come, so he ≠dǐng≠diǎn≠ Xiao ≠ said, .2≡3.o→s_(); It's already very sincere.

Wei Qiang's father shook his head helplessly, he originally planned to persuade Wei Qiang after seeing him, but after coming to this island for so long, he didn't see him at all, which shows that he is now strongly opposed to his attitude.

He is a literati, so he still has some understanding of this matter, and he was the first to speak.

"My idea is very simple, I can't find a businessman, because, I think, the mind of a businessman has been shackled, and even, in the face of interests, sometimes, will be confused, for the sake of the future of the child, for the next generation, absolutely not to find a businessman, especially a big businessman." His attitude is very clear, and this diǎn should be the experience he summed up from the book.

The current society is completely different from the past, the people of the past were very trustworthy, but now many people are for profit, and the so-called credit has long been forgotten.

Of course, many people may have some problems in this way and that in the beginning, which is what he dislikes the most.

Because of this matter, he did not want his son to associate with a man with a family business.

Ye Nan diǎndiǎn head, "I know what you mean." ”

His attitude is very clear, as a literati, his words are very concise, and others can understand it very easily.

"Tell me what you think?" Ye Nan turned his head and asked the woman's parents.

"I am a businessman, and in the future, all my property will be handed over to my daughter, and my business is so big, it is impossible to hand it over to one person casually, so I ask that this person must be able to help me, preferably in wealth."

This matter, the parents of both sides, are opposed, such a thing, Ye Nan rarely encounters such a thing, however, in society, there are still such things, of course, among them, there are some things that the other party does not know, so there will be such a result.

If he knew the identity of Wei Qiang's grandfather, let alone a literati, he would be an ordinary worker, he would be able to accept it. After all, this person's identity can not only bring him some benefits, but also allow him to stand firm in various industries, and no one dares to touch him.

This is the simplest idea of a businessman, which is to stand in front of interests.

After Ye Nan heard this, he just smiled slightly, this idea, there is diǎn, what kind of society is it now, and it is still redundant, there is no need for this at all.

If the child is not filial, whether he is rich or not, there is no use at all, as for the family business he said, this is not the main problem at all, he wants to sue the other party that he is very rich, and the other party's son may be looking at the money.

"It's all over." Ye Nan saw that both sides were not talking, and looked at both of them and said.

"Yes!" The two of them said in unison.

"Alright, then, it's time for me to speak." Ye Nan thought about the ideal, starting with this businessman, after all, his requirements made Ye Nan feel incredible.

"Your idea is very simple, that is, to find someone who can inherit your career, and it is best to join in."

Ye Nan said simply and clearly.

"And your idea is not to find a businessman." Ye Nan said to Wei Qiang's parents.

They diǎndiǎn head.

"I haven't talked to Wei Qiang about this, and I don't know what path he will take in the future." Ye Nan told the truth, although Wei Qiang came to this island and felt bored, he didn't go to Ye Nan once to tell his thoughts.

"He likes literature, and in the future, he will definitely be the same as us, or even better than us." Wei Qiang's father explained.

"It's just a guess on your part, when I see Wei Qiang, I'll ask about it." Ye Nan interrupted him.

As a parent, it's understandable to speak for your child from time to time.

"I've investigated, that kid is not a businessman." The other party quickly gave his own judgment.

"In the business field, it is simply a miasma, and I don't plan to let him enter the business field." Wei Qiang's father directly objected.

"So what's the point?" The other party's attitude is also very tough.

Ye Nan shook his head helplessly, before this could be adjusted, they had already begun to quarrel, and this matter had a tendency to deteriorate.

"Now listen to me, I'm done, you can express your opinions, remember a diǎn, you are here for the children, not for your so-called thoughts."

Ye Nan can understand that as a parent, sometimes, he will force his ideas to his children, and even, let the children complete them, but they have no desire to complete them.

This is very unfair to children, and children, in such an environment, often live not very happy.

And Ye Nan is now going to change their mind.

Now they are not willing to give in to Mai Mang, and what Ye Nan has to do is to let go of their thoughts and let them decide their own lives.

"Your quarrel has no effect, it can only exacerbate the conflict between you, so that this matter cannot be resolved in the end, and the victim is definitely the children of the two of you."

Ye Nan continued to explain.

Both sides are not talking, because Ye Nan's words are very reasonable.

The reason why they want to come is to solve this problem.

"Now, I just want to ask, can you completely let go of your view of diǎn, I mean, completely let go, and think about it from another perspective." Ye Nan looked at them and said his simplest thoughts.

Empathy, this matter, for many people, is easier said than done.

If we can put ourselves in the shoes of others, there will be no so-called contradictions in the world.

When the two sides heard Ye Nan's words, they didn't speak.

"As a literati, there is a kind of lofty affection in it, so you may think that everything is inferior and there is only a theory of high reading."

"And you, as businessmen, may be the principle of putting interests first."

Ye Nan hit the nail on the head and said the most basic position of the two people.

Over the years, they have been insisting on this position, if you let them change it, it is impossible to change it all at once, so what Ye Nan has to do is to make them feel that this idea of their own, although they have twenty years of experience, may be wrong, and this is fine.

"Do you know what is the most important thing for a literati?" Ye Nan turned his head and asked the woman's father.

He was silent, "Maybe it's their so-called reputation, it's all vanity." ”

Ye Nan turned his head and asked Wei Qiang's father, "What do you think is the most important thing for a businessman?" ”

"It's integrity, but many people don't have it, but put interests first." He continued to speak his thoughts.

Ye Nan diǎndiǎn head, until now, neither of them, has not gotten better, and even the contradictions between them have intensified in general.

"Let me talk about vanity first, as a businessman, your performance is better than others, your business is more prosperous than others, you are richer than ordinary people, and you have confidence wherever you go. Not only do you have confidence, but even your son has confidence. ”

"I'm not wrong!" Ye Nan looked at that person, he didn't say a word, obviously, what Ye Nan said was true.

"In fact, as a member of society, the psychology of comparison can be had, otherwise, the society will not progress, but you have to see where this comparison is."

"The two of you will definitely have such a comparison mentality, and, depending on the situation, it is still the kind that is more strict." Ye Nan explained.

The two of them glanced at each other, Ye Nan could see some clues from their eyes, they may be regarded as an upper-class group, and this so-called upper-class society, in fact, is a comparison, and it is much heavier than the usual comparison. Of course, they will pay a certain price for this comparison.

It's just that there is no table xiàn yet.

"This is vanity, so don't talk about other people's vanity."

After Ye Nan explained, they came to that person diǎndiǎn head.

After talking about them, it should be Wei Qiang's parents.

They are literati, so when talking to them, you must be serious and think clearly.

"You think they lack integrity, or a lot of businessmen, they lack integrity, but a lot of the time, you are not honest." Ye Nan is very direct, because they will have some friends in this industry, and their friends, sometimes, will write something for them to evaluate.

If they don't have too much time, they will easily prevaricate and even use the very good, very good answer.

Hearing Ye Nan say this, Wei Qiang's father wanted to refute, but his mother shook her head.

Wei Qiang's father still didn't speak, because he knew in his heart that sometimes, he would lie.

"There is also a diǎn, you think, most of the businessmen in this city, have no integrity. If this were the case, the world would have been in chaos a long time ago, even more chaotic than the United States. ”

Ye Nan said, his eyes did not leave their demeanor for a moment, he wanted to know that the other party thought so.

"The so-called traitors are not businessmen, and they often harm other people for their own benefit." Wei Qiang's father continued to explain.

"There may be such a possibility, but not all businessmen are like this, otherwise, this life will not be messed up long ago." Ye Nan also knew that businessmen were very treacherous.

In Mohai City, Chen Shaoyang, the young chairman of Chenfeng Group, is a treacherous person, and he can calculate, but he met Ye Nan, and in the end, he had to regret this fate.

However, this qiē is all caused by himself, and has nothing to do with anyone else.

"Let me put it this way, your works describe the positive energy of society, but this society is not what you write, and there are some other dark sides, you don't know, let alone write about it, and even if you do, you may not write it."

The two of them are thoughtful diǎndiǎn heads.

"This is already considered dishonest, and besides, you are involved in a spiritual life, and once the spiritual life is affected, it will be difficult to change it in the future." Ye Nan is very direct, this theory, they should not have heard of it, however, Ye Nan said it, and both of them agreed with the diǎndiǎn head.

Spiritual life, and material life, it is essential.

"So, if you want to say that you are deceitful and dishonest, you are also part of it, and your deception is not small, it is mental torture."

Ye Nan said exaggeratedly, however, such a thing has not happened before.

"So, the Shanghai between you and them is basically the same, one is material, the other is spiritual."

"Think about what I said, I'll go and invite Wei Qiang." (To be continued.) )