Chapter 524: The Final Choice
Ye Nan said, turned around and left, and now, he already knew what the parents of both sides meant.
He wants to explain this matter to Wei Qiang clearly.
The reason why Wei Qiang is so painful is that he doesn't know the true thoughts of both parents, he just judges the problem based on his own thoughts.
However, according to his own thoughts, he wanted to talk to his parents, but he couldn't get along, so he was very painful.
In adolescence, sometimes they tend to be very excited, and sometimes, for the sake of small things, big mistakes can happen.
And this time, if it weren't for Ye Nan, Wei Qiang would still be depressed now.
As young people like them, sometimes, it is possible to kill yourself without thinking about it.
And this is also the main reason why Wei Qiang's parents, after hearing Ye Nan's explanation, came to Linglong Island as soon as possible without too much hesitation.
"Wei Qiang, I already know what both sides mean." Ye Nan said straight to the point.
After Wei Qiang came to this island, he began to work with the workers, and the working atmosphere here is very harmonious, and his life here is also very comfortable.
He even liked the life.
Although he was not very old, among these people, he could not feel the age gap.
And according to his understanding in the past few days, he admires Ye Nan even more, he is not only a doctor, but also a capable person, who can actually establish such an island, and the development is so good.
"Oh, Mr. Ye, you say."
At this time, Wei Qiang, as if he had changed when he first came, was smiling when he spoke.
This is something that Ye Nan has not seen before, he saw the change in Wei Qiang, nodded, and felt very good, as long as he opened his heart, everything was not a problem.
"In the past few days, how have you experienced here, their thoughts, I already know, now, I will go out and explain to them." Ye Nan is very direct.
He nodded, "I actually know some of their thoughts." ”
Ye Nan also nodded, Wei Qiang is also a smart person, he knows everything about his parents' thoughts, but he just doesn't know what the other party's parents think.
After Ye Nan explained the thoughts of both sides, Wei Qiang thought about it seriously.
Ye Nan told him before that before going to meet them, he had to think about it, otherwise, when the time comes, there may be a quarrel.
And Ye Nan didn't want them to quarrel, whether it was Wei Qiang and his parents, or his girlfriend's parents.
Wei Qiang nodded, "I already know how to do it, go, go see them." ”
Wei Qiang said, walking in front, Ye Nan nodded, it seems that in the past few days, he has changed a lot.
When the two came to the port, Wei Qiang's parents stood up and walked in front of their son.
His mother, seeing that her son was radiant, and, compared to when she came before, she didn't know how much better, she was in a very good mood, and his trust in Ye Nan increased by another point, before, he had treated his son, and now, on his island, his son has become different from before, and even, more cheerful than before, which is a good thing.
"Mom and Dad, you're here." Wei Qiang said with a smile on his face.
Wei Qiang's father nodded, he could also feel this change in Wei Qiang, he glanced at Ye Nan, he felt that Ye Nan's ability was unimaginable to him.
This son of his, who was very introverted before, that's why he had such a problem, and after the problem happened, he didn't know how to solve it at all, and in the end, there were some psychological problems, and now, he is cheerful, and in the future, when he encounters such a thing, or something similar, he will have his own way.
The transformation of a person, the main thing, is the transformation of thinking, and now he has become lively and cheerful, and this is a good thing.
"Next, listen to what Wei Qiang said, after he finishes speaking, you are expressing your opinions." Ye Nan looked at the four people and said.
This matter is very important, because, all things are because of Wei Qiang, now, Wei Qiang expressed his thoughts, if they can accept it, then this matter can be solved very well, if the other party can't accept it, or his parents can't accept it, there is no way to solve this matter.
Kindness.
Wei Qiang nodded.
"I've figured it out, I'm going to live on this island for a while, if Xiaorui is willing to follow me, come to this island and live with me, as for the future, I haven't thought about it yet, but I will definitely not follow the path you said, I have my own ideas." Wei Qiang is very direct, such words, before, he has never said it, now, he has changed.
After his parents heard this, their brows furrowed slightly, he knew his son, he was very capable in all aspects, if he entered the literary world, in the future, he might be able to win the Nobel Prize, but now, he chose his own career, and he didn't even know what direction it was.
Wei Qiang's parents glanced at each other, they saw the change in their son, but they were still very worried about his future.
Ye Nan saw that his parents were very worried, and said, "I want to know, did your father object when he learned that you were going to choose this literary and artistic path?" ”
Ye Nan has been in contact with Wei Nian for a long time, so he is still very clear about Wei Nian's undemanding character, so he asked like this.
According to common sense, Wei Nian's current status is so high, and his son must be a high-ranking general of the army, and he cannot be a literary worker.
Anyone would be surprised to know who his father was.
Wei Qiang's father thought deeply, he thought that up to now, maybe he insisted on being wrong, at least, in the matter of treating his son, it was wrong.
It seems unlikely that he wants his own ideas, and that he wants to force him.
Wei Qiang's father nodded, at this time, he no longer insisted on his ideas, because, he saw the changes in his son after meeting Ye Nan, perhaps, this cheerful personality is much better than what he forced him to take, at least, when he encounters any problems in the future, Wei Qiang will not retreat, will not go to a dead end, this is the benefit of a cheerful person.
"I'll give you Mr. Ye a face, I don't care about this matter for the time being, but, within two years, if you don't have a sustainable career, you must go home and listen to my arrangement." Although Wei Qiang's father gave up his insistence, he still had some worries, so he proposed a two-year agreement.
"Two years is too short, at that time, I didn't even get married, five years, at least five years." Wei Qiang immediately retorted, he knew that two years, according to his current situation, it was impossible to act too prominently, so he set five years.
According to Wei Qiang's own thoughts, within five years, he will definitely be able to take an unusual path, and moreover, he will make his parents proud.
"Okay, five years is five years." Wei Qiang's father nodded, since his son said so, give him five years, he is so smart, within five years, he will definitely have his own deeds.
"Yes. Yes, the contradiction between you is resolved. ”
Ye Nan nodded, being able to solve this problem is the most important level for Wei Qiang.
Ye Nan turned his head to look at the other two people and said, "What do you think?" ”
"We firmly disagree, I am just such a daughter, in the future, my business must be taken over by him, I don't want to give my life's work to others."
Their attitude is very tough, this is the difference between businessmen and literati, what they insist on is forever inseparable from interests, but this matter has nothing to do with interests.
"What you think, I also know, if your daughter is tied to business, I believe that she will not be happy in this life, so you still have to think about it and think about it."
Ye Nan continued to persuade them.
"We've worked hard for half a lifetime, and when we're old, no one will take over these businesses, and even if I die, I won't be able to swallow this breath." The other party is very insistent, and he feels that he cannot compromise on this point.
"A businessman is a businessman, and choosing a son-in-law must be linked to interests." Wei Qiang's father shook his head helplessly, he himself was not very optimistic about businessmen, and now, the other party actually said such a thing, of course, he was even more angry.
"What's wrong with me as a businessman, what's wrong, it's much better than your hypocritical remarks on the Internet." The other party is not reluctant.
"Don't quarrel, there's no point, the main thing now is to solve the current problem." Ye Nan heard that the other party was very persistent, so he had to think of other ways.
At this time, Wei Qiang stood up, and when Ye Nan saw him stand up, he didn't continue to speak, but listened to how Wei Qiang explained.
The most important thing about this matter is how Wei Qiang explains, as long as his words can be accepted by the other party, the problem is not a problem.
"Uncle, I know what you think, you think, your business is your half of your life's work, but, your daughter is with you, what is it, if your woman comes to a marriage in the future, because of business, come to a marriage, do you think, will he be happy?"
Wei Qiang asked directly.
Everyone knows this problem, whether it is in history or now, as long as it is because of business friendship, in the end, there is no real intimacy.
There are many things like people temporarily succumbing to their own business and their own interests, but in the end, there is only one result of such a thing, and that is the breakdown of the family.
"Do you think your business is important, or is your daughter's future important?" Wei Qiang continued to ask rhetorically.
When this sentence was spoken, the other party was speechless.
Everyone knows that some people have paid a lot for business, and maybe, their children can't take care of them, and if you really want to face this business is important, or when the child is important, it goes without saying that the child is the most important.
However, sometimes, some people, who are also hard-hearted, think that business is important, and will sacrifice their daughters.
He fell into thinking, this question is very important, because these are the two most important things related to him.
One is the happiness of his daughter, and the other is his own business.
"I think my children are important, son, and that's a great thing you said." Wei Qiang's girlfriend's mother has never spoken, and now, he has to speak.
Because, now that it has reached the stage of stalemate, she also understands her husband, and he has also said about this problem, but it has never come to fruition.
The so-called no result means that the other party does not say it, but keeps saying that it is thinking about it.
This question has been raised again, and it was Wei Qiang who raised it.
If you don't give a satisfactory answer, you will come here today in vain.
The other party didn't answer for a long time, and at this time Ye Nan opened his mouth and said, "This question, you hesitated, in fact, that is to say, you have already given the answer, your hesitation shows a point, your daughter, in your heart, is at least on an equal footing with business." ”
Ye Nan explained.
People hesitate to deal with certain things, in fact, he has already given the answer, it's just that he doesn't want to say it.
If his daughter is finally married because of business, she must not be happy, even if in the future, he will hand over all his business to his son-in-law, then in this life, he really has nothing to show off.
"There are two things that are very important to you, but you have to think about another problem, that is, your business can bring you wealth, this is material life, but you have a good son-in-law, your daughter has a good family, you feel very happy, this is spiritual life."
Ye Nan had heard the true thoughts of the two people before, so he had this remark.
"It doesn't matter if people live and live materially, whether it's good or bad, what matters is spiritual life, what matters is whether they live a happy life or not."
Ye Nan saw that the other party did not speak, and continued to persuade.
"What kind of life do you think you want in the future? Material abundance and loneliness, or happiness and material superiority? ”
Ye Nan raised such a question.
In fact, according to Ye Nan, there is no need to think about it at all, his daughter is the most important, after all, material life is not the most important.
It doesn't matter what his business will develop into in the future, although this business has cost him half his life's effort.
Ye Nan was silent for two seconds, saw that the other party was thinking, and continued, "If you still can't figure it out until now, then there is no need to talk about this matter." ”
Ye Nan has already told him all the truths, and if he can't figure it out, Ye Nan really has no choice.
"Wei Qiang, I can only help you get here for this matter, just wait for him to answer." Ye Nan turned his head and said to Wei Qiang.
Wei Qiang nodded, his eyes looked straight at him, and Wei Qiang's parents admired Ye Nan very much, and his analysis was very reasonable, and at this time, he also thought that his son should not interfere in his pursuit of his own happiness and career.
After being silent for a while, he spoke, "I don't care about this matter. After he finished speaking, he shook his head helplessly.
Hearing this, Wei Qiang was very happy, he compromised, and his happiness was coming soon. (To be continued.) )