Yan Shuxue naturally didn't come up with anything.

Doubts are doubts, how can things that you didn't understand in your previous life be able to think clearly for a while.

Yan Shuxue looked at Shen expectantly, she inexplicably felt that her mother could give her the answer.

Sort of, a gut feeling.

Shen touched Yan Shuxue's head and said to her: "You have to remember that this "Female Commandment" and "Female Training" can be passed down for thousands of years, and we women must abide by it well, otherwise, this world will not be chaotic." ”

Yan Shuxue heard a lot of this kind of words in her previous life, at least the female gentleman who always had a straight face that her stepmother invited after she entered the door taught her this, and the nurturing grandmother sent by the Jingwang Mansion before she got married also told her so.

As for her father and grandmother, she has never asked her to act according to these things in her previous and present lives.

Before being reborn, Yan Shuxue was an obedient and good boy, and she accepted everything she heard.

After being reborn, Yan Shuxue felt that this was the root cause of the tragedy in his previous life, and was extremely resistant.

Now, these words came out of her mother's mouth, but Yan Shuxue inexplicably felt that they were different from what other people said.

Yan Shuxue nodded as if she didn't understand, and continued to look at Shen with a confused expression.

Shen sighed again and said: "These two books are true, but if you can't understand them, you can only say what others say." If he resisted a little, he faced the world's criticism and reputation. In this world, we are born as women, and we are no more wanton and chic than those men from the beginning. ”

"But, mother, you ...... It seems that the ...... did not follow" Yan Shuxue finally asked with difficulty.

It was the first time for Yan Shuxue to openly question her mother's parents, mixed with a lot of self-blame for being weak and disrespectful to her mother.

Shen raised his eyebrows and said with a smile: "Oh? So tell me, which one did my mother violate? ”

Yan Shuxue saw that her mother didn't care about her disrespect just now, she was simply discussing and encouraging herself to express her opinions, so she also had the courage to say it.

Fortunately, there are only two of them here, mother and daughter, ink paintings, lotus incense, green grass, and green branches are firmly guarded outside the door.

"Mother, you didn't listen to your father, and you ...... grandmother," Yan Shuxue said hesitantly.

From the bottom of her heart, she felt that her mother should not be submissive, swallow her anger, and let her father and grandmother persecute hersion.

However, if you don't, it's clearly a violation of the "Female Commandment"?

In addition, in addition to piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, my mother usually likes to adjust fat and powder, dress up, and always look picturesque and radiant.

The same only pay attention to virtue and character, save and simple...... It's a bit of a big gap.

Shen Shi seemed to see the entanglement of his daughter from home, his fingers lightly touched the table, and said lightly: "Do you think that if your mother does this, she will not be regarded as abiding by the "Female Commandment" and "Female Training", and by doing so, she will make herself a reluctant angry bag?" ”

Yan Shuxue nodded.

Shen Shi was still smiling, but his smile was clearly starting to be a little bitter, and his dark and bright eyes were also dyed with a little melancholy, "It's not strange that you think so, after all, everyone in the world thinks like this." ”

Sighing leisurely, Shen raised his hand to rub Yan Shuxue's hair, and said earnestly: "Xue'er, study in the future, you have to be more hearty, you are not a child anymore." ”

Despised ?!

Yan Shuxue glanced at her mother-in-law, and then lowered her head.

When she was studying, she just followed her father's requirements to become a talented girl, learning some poetry and songs, piano, chess, painting and dancing, although she memorized a lot of things, she didn't think about it with her heart, and she was always in a state of confusion.

"Female Commandments" and "Women's Training"?

Everyone said that girls should learn, and they should learn.

When punished, the elders said that it was violated, so they could only kneel down and admit their mistakes and be punished.

As for what's inside, what exactly?

Who cares.

Shen looked at his daughter's wistful look, and couldn't help but think of himself at that time.

Speaking of which, when her mother, Mrs. Wendinghou, said these words to herself with a free and easy face, she didn't feel anything wrong, and even took it for granted.

However, later, because the old Mrs. Wendinghou was too fierce and uncompromising in some things, she did not live well in the end and died early.

When Shen was young and vigorous, he ignorantly acted with those seemingly unreasonable truths......

There have been successes and setbacks, but they have lived happily and never broken their bones.

Once, she thought that life should be so happy and revengeful.

It wasn't until later, after Yan Jinfeng did those things that she absolutely didn't want to accept, that she realized Lao Wen Dinghou's mood at that time.

It can be said that Shen is very conflicted with Yan Shuxue.

On the one hand, I hope that she will be mediocre and mediocre, according to the lifestyle of most women, three from four virtues, take her husband as the sky, manage the concubines in her husband's yard, be a qualified housewife, and have a stable life.

On the other hand, I don't want my daughter to live this kind of life that I hate in the future.

Therefore, the Shen family has never forcibly interfered in Yan Shuxue's upbringing, otherwise, how could Yan Shuxue have been like that.

When the Shen family found out that their daughter was about to be destroyed, they realized that what Mrs. Wendinghou said was a good relationship.

was about to struggle with how to turn her daughter's temperament around and let her slowly accept these views, and her daughter miraculously changed her temperament overnight......

Shen couldn't find a reason, so he could only tentatively assume that it was the reason for Master Nine Days.

Although, I still feel a little ridiculous.

Shen shook his head and shook off those memories that were too long.

Then, he began to slowly explain to Yan Shuxue word by word.

Yan Shuxue listened very seriously, sometimes amazed, sometimes suddenly enlightened.

For the first time, I found that what had been passed down in black and white for thousands of years, and if I understood it from a different angle, I would get different consequences.

For example, the first part of the "Female Commandment" is despicable.

The explanation that Yan Shuxue has learned has always been that as soon as a woman is born, her status is lower than that of a man, and she must understand her own humility......

However, Shen's explanation subverted all the previous cognitions she knew before.

In Shen's mouth, weakness only means that women are born weak, so many things that men can do can not do, which is a congenital disadvantage, we must always keep this in mind, make up for it through acquired efforts, and avoid any physical conflicts with men.

In other words, this is to let the women remember their weaknesses and not suffer unnecessarily......

That's okay?!

……

……

Yan Shuxue felt a little messy.

It's no wonder that his mother, who lives happily and happily, is not angry with anyone, but still has an unparalleled good reputation in the circle of noblewomen in Kyoto.

No matter how much his father was dissatisfied, he didn't really do anything to his mother.