317. Persuasion
317. Persuasion
Because of Bang Sha's incident, Qin Haonan figured out many things, when he decided to fund Bang Shah, Meng Qingqing once told him that not anyone in a difficult situation deserves sympathy. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Although he and Meng Shasha have ended, the problem between him and Meng Qingqing has not been resolved, and it is true that Meng Qingqing's anger will not disappear at once.
In the afternoon, Qin Haonan invited Meng Zijun to eat out, and he told Meng Zijun what had happened in the past two days.
Meng Zijun was surprised when he heard this, "I didn't expect this Bang Sha Sha to be such a person." When Qingqing was young, I was always busy with work and didn't have time to pay attention to her joys and sorrows, so I bought some toys and the like for her, and it turned out that her childhood was lonely. The only good friend is still full of calculations for her. ”
Qin Haonan said dejectedly: "Yes! A friend who has liked to snatch her toys since she was a child has left her with a lot of hurt and also left her with a psychological shadow. If I had known this, I should not have funded Bangsar Shah in the first place, and even if I did, I wouldn't have let her know who the sponsor was, and I wouldn't have done what I am today. ”
"Yes! Bang Sasha likes to rob Qingqing since she was a child, and now she wants to rob her boyfriend, and you also follow Bang Sasha's advice to rent Bang Sasha as a girlfriend to go home to see her parents for the New Year, Qingqing must be uncomfortable, she is helpless to be robbed of toys when she was a child, because she is young, her parents are not around, and she can only be sad by herself when she is bullied, now, Bang Sasha can't compare to her, her boyfriend is still remembered by Bang Sa, and there is a possibility of being snatched away, how can she not be angry? ”
"What is Bangsar Shah? How could she snatch me, I don't have any relationship with her now, and I won't have anything to do with it in the future, so this problem doesn't exist. ”
"But Bang Sasha has ambitions for you, and you also gave her a chance, Qingqing is a person who is very pure in her feelings, and she can't not mind this matter."
"Dad, I don't know what entanglements Qingqing has with this Bang Sasha, I didn't mean it!"
"It's okay that you didn't do it unintentionally, if you did it on purpose, Qingqing would have broken up with you. I can't tolerate you either. Don't you know Qingqing's character? Her attitude towards people is very direct and clear, if she likes it, she likes it, and if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. It won't drag mud and water. ”
Qin Haonan was a little embarrassed, he had a deliberate element in it, he actually knew that Bang Sha Sha and Meng Qingqing were incompatible, but in order to test Meng Qingqing's reaction to him, he deliberately used Bang Sha Sha to stimulate her, but he really didn't want to hurt Qing Qing.
"Dad, I'm also a single-minded person, I've worked with you for so many years, have you ever seen which woman I'm with or is it unclear? Didn't you? I've been waiting lonely for Qingqing to grow up, she finally grew up, but another friend who had played with her for so many years confessed to her, and he told me that when she decided to choose Li Yahui, can you understand my sense of loss and frustration? So I had the idea of testing her in that situation. ”
"Hao Nan, of course I understand what kind of person you are, otherwise I wouldn't have agreed to you to have a relationship with Qingqing, I didn't say that you were unforgivable, and the nature of this matter is not bad to any extent, but for Qingqing, she has to have a buffer period for her to slowly let go."
"Yes, but I want this time to be shorter, so I want you to help me persuade Qingqing."
"I can help you persuade Qingqing, but I won't take it as an example! You have to pay attention to your relationship in the future, don't make such low-level mistakes again, and don't have sex with other women. Ambiguous. ”
Qin Haonan smiled bitterly, "I don't have anything to do with Bang Sa. I made it clear to her from beginning to end that it was just a deal. ”
"But Bang Shah doesn't think it's just a deal, what does she think of you, you don't say you don't know, you won't be so dull, right? Although I have never seen Bang Saa's attitude and eyes towards you, it is completely conceivable that a poor little girl who has never seen the world is not tempted in the face of a man like you, not to mention that you are still kind to her, and she is such a scheming girl. ”
"Yes, yes, I was wrong, I shouldn't provoke her, but if I deny my feelings for Qingqing because of this incident, so that she can't forgive me, I am too wronged."
"If you don't correct a small mistake, it will become a big disaster, eat a trench and grow a wisdom!" Mencius said.
In the next two days, Qin Haonan kept his promise and did not call Meng Qingqing again, Meng Qingqing was reading quietly at home alone.
On this day, Mencius and his daughter had dinner together.
Meng Zijun said: "Qingqing, Bang Sha Sha told me about Hao Nan, he asked me to persuade you, I think Hao Nan is also unintentional, and he knows where he is wrong, so don't keep holding on to it, give him a chance to reform himself."
"Dad, I know, I won't deny him all because of this incident, but I still have a little disappointment, and I also have a little regret, regret why can't the relationship between me and Hao Nan be clean and have no stains at all?"
"Silly boy, you have been clean and clean without any stains! You don't have to be too hard-working, and you don't have too much perfectionism, there is no absolutely perfect relationship in the world, you have to go through some ups and downs to grow up, and you can mature early. In a way, that's not a bad thing. ”
Seeing that his daughter was silent, Meng Zijun said again, "Actually, you are angry because of what Bang Sha Sha did, you feel that you were bullied by her when you were a child, it was a last resort, and now, you are still disgusted by her again, so you feel uncomfortable, if you have been angry with Qin Haonan because of this matter, then you are making Bang Sha Sa's satisfaction, so you and Hao Nan continue to do well, is the most powerful counterattack to Bang Sha, let her try her best, and she can't shake the relationship between you and Hao Nan, she does so much, nothing can change." ”
Meng Qingqing smiled disappringly and patted his father's hand, "Dad, thank you, I know all these truths you said, I will cherish my relationship with Hao Nan, I don't think about it anymore, but I can't let Hao Nan feel that I forgave him so easily, I have to let him remember a little longer, tomorrow I will go to my grandmother's house, don't tell Hao Nan my whereabouts, just say that I went out to play with my friends, and after I get to my grandmother's house, I will also send a text message to tell him, let him know that I am safe, and I will not be angry with him, I just don't see him." and dry him. (To be continued.) )