For a person who is in pain, her painful and sad mode has been activated, and to persuade and comfort her, you can't use the traditional model.

From childhood to adulthood, everyone will suffer a lot of setbacks and produce a lot of pain, and there will be many people to comfort her. This makes her clearly know what kind of reaction she will get from her friends when she shows her sadness, and since these things are clear in her heart, they will not touch her in the slightest, that is, the more she is persuaded, the farther she will go on the road of pain.

The only way to change this situation is to break her painful and sad patterns and rebuild her happy patterns, so that she feels that such a small setback is actually a happy vignette, a prelude and inevitable to a happier one. In this way, she will face it all happily and less painfully.

The best way to break her pattern of pain and sadness is to play her cards out of the ordinary so that she can't guess what you're trying to say, and then she thinks about what you're trying to say.

Once she starts to think, then her attention is distracted from the pain, and she slowly forgets the pain, which pulls her out of the pain pattern and then unexpectedly helps her to build the happiness pattern.

The process of persuading her to start when she was distracted can be summed up in one sentence: take advantage of her illness and kill her. This is also the world-famous potential guru Anthony Robin's potential course on how to shape a positive and happy mindset.

I decided to use this way to save Qian Anne from her unhappiness and laugh at myself: there are flowers that can not be broken, but they must be protected into spring mud.

When we got home, we sat on our respective balconies and continued to produce gold, and I think she must have produced more than I did, for she kept her mouth shut, and I tried to speak to her from time to time, but I stopped talking. It's not that I don't have the courage, I think I'd be willing to do a lot if I could make her feel better.

Of course, these things don't include money and life, and our relationship isn't enough for me to give up either of the two for her, let alone the two together.

My desire to speak is that I am organizing language, and the destruction and reconstruction of such a pattern requires rigorous logic, and logical thinking is precisely my weakness. Seeing that she was producing more and more gold, I gritted my teeth and stomped my feet, and rushed hard.

"Do you know about the outside of the plug?"

She simply ignored me, immersed in her own pain.

"Then have you heard of the old man outside the Saiwai?"

She is still stepping up the pace of producing gold, completely ignoring that I have stopped producing and is spending gold.

"You always know that the old man has a horse, right?" I shouted loudly, it seems that I have to use my lion roar skill, I hope there will be no side effects after this roar, I used it once when I broke up half a year ago, and the result was that my throat hurt for half a month, and the doctor checked that my tonsils were severely inflamed, and they had split into two halves, and I took medicine for half a month to revive it.

She slowly raised her head, her eyes full of questioning doubts.

"One day the son of the old man went out riding his horse, and he fell off his horse, breaking one of his legs, and the horse ran away."

The confusion in her eyes was even worse, but I knew she was starting to listen.

"The old man was so angry that he fell ill and lay on the bed."

"What the hell are you trying to say?"

"The old man was cured, and he tried to look for a horse, but he couldn't find it, and people laughed at him, saying that he had raised a horse for nothing, and that his son broke his leg.

"Hey...... Are you finished? ”

Later, when the army recruited, his son did not go because he broke his leg, and the other healthy young men in the village were recruited. During the war, most of the sons of the people in the village were killed, and only the son of the old man was better alive because he had a broken leg and did not go. This is called: Seon loses his horse, and he doesn't know if it's a blessing. I'm done. ”

"Nerves." She gave me a blank look and didn't speak.

I touched my head, smiled awkwardly, and continued: "Life is very impermanent, no one knows what will happen in the future, the most important thing for us is to cherish everything in front of us, let the past pass, just like closing the door, we close the door behind us, and we will never open it again, because we have to put more hope on the door in front of us."

We must keep opening the doors in front of us in search of a better future. Instead of trying to open the door that has been closed behind it and is completely impossible to open again. ”

Speaking of which, I deliberately stopped.

"Why don't you say it?"

"Do you know what the old man said at the end of the story of Sai Wen's loss of his horse and Fei Fu?"

"You're so nervous."

"He said, "Where blessings and misfortunes depend, and where misfortunes and blessings lie."

"You're such an unusual nerve."

"Hey ......"

We stopped talking again, and began to produce gold, and just as I began to feel that the method had failed, and was about to greet the eighteenth generation of our ancestors who invented it, she suddenly sighed lightly, and looked up at me, without that look of pain in her eyes. "Thank you."

"Thank me? Thank me for what? I didn't do anything. ”

"Thank you for being a psychopath for me."

"Hey ......"

"Oh, I misremember, not once, but three times."

"Uh...... You ......"

"Thank you so much, I know what to do." She said it seriously this time.

"Did you figure it out?"

"That's it."

"When did it work?"

"Just now."

"Who got you through?"

"You."

"When you receive the grace of a drop of water, you should repay it with water, so should you say something?"

"Yes...... To others I will. To you...... No, you don't. ”

"Hey ......"

"On the way to the police station just now, you deliberately rode the car from the big pit, right?"

"Uh...... It was an accident. ”

"Accidents? But my butt hurt because of your accident, what should I do? ”

"This ......"

"Don't you feel guilty at all?"

"Uh......"

"Then should you do something to atone for your sins?"

"Shall we close the door of the past?"

"I don't have enough strength to close it."

"Then I'll help you close."

"The door has been shattered."

"Uh......" deceived people so much that I decided to fight back.

"I was wrong, and I decided to atone for myself."

"What do you want to do?"

"Where did you get shocked? Let me see, is it serious? Is there any purple? ”

"Hey ......"

"That'...... I'll rub it for you. ”

"You...... Stinky rascals. The puppy she held to her chest to comfort herself was thrown away.

I caught it, put it on my nose and smelled it, "It doesn't stink, it smells so good." ”

"You...... Then you can touch it. She suddenly took off her coat, revealing the white cut-out sweater she was wearing inside, snow-white, she was really a hanger, and she was beautiful in everything.

No way? Did I hit the jackpot? She actually let me touch her buttocks? God will still honor your old man on the first and fifteenth day of the new year, oh no, I will burn it for you every day in the future, and I wish you a long life.

"That's not right...... Why are you undressing? ”

"If you don't take off your clothes, how can you let others see it."

"Wouldn't it? I'll rub it for you, and you still want others to watch from the side? "You don't have to be so open, right? It's enough to show me alone, and besides, if I rub it and we both get on fire, then we're better off without others, aren't we? What a simple child.

"I mean, how do you make people see: You're insulting me?"

"You...... You can't go overboard, do you? ”

"Not too hot, not at all."

"Uh...... And that's not ......."

"It's indecent." It's really disrespectful, I didn't finish my words, she called, I thought she was a simple child, it seems that she is single and impure. It's over, her name is going to ruin my innocence, how can I marry in the future? Oh...... No, how do you marry a daughter-in-law?

"I'm guilty, I'm very guilty, and I'm really going to be upset if I don't do something for you. You can tell me what I want. "A manly man can bend and stretch, and he is not as knowledgeable as a little woman.

"What's wrong? How did you become so well-behaved all of a sudden? ”

"My kindergarten teacher praised me, saying that I was a good boy who knew my mistakes and could correct them...... "The situation is stronger than people, and there is no way."

"Is it sincere? Don't force it......"

"It's more true than Chen Zhen, not reluctant."

"Bring your phone, then."

"What?"

"Didn't you say I could do anything I told you to do?"

"......"

"Who's coming......" she put her hand to her mouth, making a gesture of indecency.

"Take it." If a hero doesn't suffer immediate losses, won't he just be soft? I can be hard, I can be soft, I can shrink freely, see what you can do with me?

"Who's your best friend?"

"What do you want to do?"

"Nothing."

"Why don't you still hold my phone and ask? You wouldn't be trying to call him, would you? "Oh my God, what the hell is this vixen trying to do? I really couldn't guess what she was thinking.

"That's smart. Say it. ”

"Resolutely don't say it."

"Really?"

"Don't talk about killing it."

"That's good...... I called your dad and said you were a hooligan. ”

"Uh...... Brother Pig. "Brother Pig, I'm sorry, this vixen is too ruthless, I can't resist it, forgive me for recruiting you. I finally understood why the Shang King's country was ruined at the hands of the fox spirit Daji.

"Is that it?" She gave her phone number.

My phone is stored in Brother Pig, of course she recognizes these two words. I didn't answer, but she knew from the look on my face that she had found the right place.

"Now, you pull your ears hard with your own hands, and then you say into the phone, I'm a stinky rascal, say it ten times." As she spoke, she used my phone to broadcast my piggy's call.

"Hey...... It's a bit too much......"

"Okay then...... I think I'd better call your dad. ”

"Count you ruthless." I swear to save my phone number in the future, and I will never have to call it to save, what a painful lesson.

"I'm a stinky rascal, I'm a stinky rascal......" The phone was connected, and I couldn't say anything, I could only say these few words. She said it ten times before she hung up the phone.

She laughed at my embarrassment.

I laughed along with her and laughed because I knew that her mood had changed and that I had succeeded. Although this success came at my great sacrifice, I think it was worth it to see her so happy.

There are so many clowns in the world who sacrifice themselves in order to win a smile from us audiences, and I feel honored to be one of them temporarily, to scandalize myself and make her happy.

To paraphrase a sentence from Wu Mingshi, the thief who stole her laptop: This is true, not coquettish, all this is just for fate.