304. Talking about marriage
304. Talking about marriage
"Hao Nan, it's not just that we are idle and bored and want to hold our grandson, so we are urging you to get married, I am afraid of seeing your father's sudden heart attack, we are older, this body is not as good as before, and we went accidentally, do you want us to leave with regrets?"
What my mother said is also the truth, my father really almost went that time, although my father didn't say it, in fact, he also hoped that his son would get married and hold his grandson earlier.
Lu Shuangping continued: "You see, after getting married, the role has changed, no longer a child, the responsibility is heavy, and all aspects have matured, and taking advantage of the good quality of the children born at a young age, for women, having children at a young age will recover their bodies quickly, and they also have the energy to take care of children." Don't say anything else, look at Meng Zijun and Yu Xiaofei, they were only twenty years old when they were born Qingqing, you look at the current Meng Zijun and Yu Xiaofei, less than forty years old, so young, the child will go to college, Qingqing and her mother stand together, and those who don't know think they are sisters! What an enviable thing this is! If you look at those people with gray hair but children who have not yet reached adulthood, it is very tiring to look at. ”
Qin Haonan was so hurt by his mother's tirade that he dropped the bowl and said: "Mom, you just say that it's not okay to break the sky, don't say it, today I tell you clearly, don't talk to Qingqing about this matter in the future, I have asked her, and she also made it clear that she will not graduate or get married, I have to respect her ideas."
"Hao Nan, your daughter-in-law hasn't married yet! You're used to her, you don't want to be a man with rake ears. ”
Qin Haonan dropped his chopsticks, "Mom, if you nag like this again, I won't come back to eat in the future, can't you let me eat quietly?" If you really want it for my good, you don't care about the things between me and Qingqing, especially don't care how I treat Qingqing, don't you want me to be good to her? Do you want me to be happy when she and I quarrel every day? What if I rake my ears? As long as I want, Qingqing is happy, we both like this way of getting along, we think it's good, why do you interfere? ”
As he spoke, Qin Haonan picked up the car keys on the table and walked out of the house.
Qin Guoliang also said loudly: "Yes! You worry about it every day, just do some thankless things, you are not tired, I look tired and panicked, my son is usually so busy outside, I finally go home for a meal, you are nagging and buzzing in your ears, this still makes people not eat? Don't talk about him, my heart can't stand it. Look, this time you your son, right? ”
Lu Shuangping was also so angry that he was relieved, "Yes, I'm worrying blindly and thankless, I won't care about his affairs in the future." This stinky boy, her wings are stiff, she doesn't listen to me, she knows that she listens to Meng Qingqing, I have long said that this Meng Qingqing is young and not suitable, I think she is young, but she has a big idea! ”
"Lu Shuangping, don't say this again, now that your son and Meng Qingqing are getting along, what else do you say Meng Qingqing is not suitable for this, do you want to completely fall out with your son? I think this Meng Qingqing is good, don't say that Meng Zijun is kind to our son, this Meng Qingqing, her father is so rich, but her dress is unpretentious, and she is not arrogant or impatient, such a person is worthy of our son, not only can endure hardships, but also can face a good life without losing himself, most of the young people now are very impetuous, and there are very few people who can keep their hearts like this. The son has vision and can take a fancy to Meng Qingqing. ”
"You all say that she is good, for me, a good woman, first of all, you have to do the duty of a woman."
"What is a woman's duty?"
"Get married and have children!"
"Your thinking is too backward, and you can't communicate with you in the concept of a typical rural old lady."
Qin Guoliang also left the table.
Lu Shuangping was very devastated, and it was his own for a long time. That's it, from tomorrow, she will no longer care about her son's affairs, she will go to square dance with those old ladies in the community.
Since eating the New Year's dinner that day, Meng Qingqing has not gone to Qin Haonan's house again, she is afraid that Lu Shuangping will force her to express her stance and promise to get married during the winter vacation in the next year.
Meng Qingqing now gets along with Qin Haonan very happily, and there is a great advantage of falling in love with a man who is much older than himself is that he will take care of and understand himself, and spoiling her is like pampering a child, Meng Qingqing lived on the nose of others in his last life, in this life, although her father also doted on her, but because her father's health was not good, most of the time Meng Qingqing cared about and took care of her father, and now she can enjoy Qin Haonan's love and spoiling like this, Meng Qingqing thought, maybe the most beautiful love is like this!
But the fly in the ointment is that she is afraid that Lu Shuangping will urge them to get married, so she tries to have as little contact with Lu Shuangping as possible and does not give her the opportunity to ask herself directly.
Fortunately, his father had a good attitude towards this matter, and he also opposed Meng Qingqing getting married so early, with his father as a strong backing, Meng Qingqing felt a little more stable.
That day, Meng Qingqing asked his father, "Dad, thank you for not agreeing to let me and Hao Nan get married next year, I don't want to get married so early, but Hao Nan's mother seems to be very persistent in this matter." ”
Meng Zijun sat on the sofa and took a leisurely sip of tea, "Knowing a daughter is like a father, I know that you don't want to get married so early, and I am reluctant to let you be someone's daughter-in-law so early." ”
"Yes! It's better to be a daughter, I can do whatever I want in front of my father, I can do whatever I want, and being someone's daughter-in-law is not so free. So I have to enjoy a few more years of being a daughter. ”
Yu Xiaofei also said: "Qingqing! Many women are very yearning for life after marriage, and when she really gets married, she knows that the days before marriage are the most beautiful and nostalgic time. ”
"Mom, do you regret knowing Dad?" For so many years, Meng Qingqing has always wanted to ask her mother this question. She regretted it again, after all, this is the biggest pain in her mother's life.
Yu Xiaofei said calmly: "I once regretted it, but it's different with you, I'm very happy to have you as a daughter."
"Fate plays tricks! Originally, you and Dad were the most compatible pair. ”
"Qingqing, Qin Haonan is a good man, it's not that he will make money, I will say that he is good, the most important thing is that he is very good to you, and the result is to live, this is the most important thing, I am much more relieved to see him so good to you, Qingqing, when you meet the right person, you must cherish it."
"Yes! I think so too, Haonan is very good to me, but her mother wants us to get married earlier, I don't want to get married so early, but I feel sorry for Haonan. ”
"Does Hao Nan also want you to get married sooner?"
"Hao Nan said that he respected my opinion, but in his heart he hoped that we would get married sooner. So he did it, and I felt even more guilty. ”
"Qingqing, I think you should stick to your own ideas in this matter, I don't approve of you getting married so early, every age has things that need to be done at every age. Study well when it's time to study, and get married when it's time to get married. As for Hiroo, I'm sure he'll understand you. (To be continued.) )