303. Talk about marriage

Let's eat! But Lu Shuangping always likes to talk about the marriage of Meng Qingqing and Qin Haonan.

Everyone was eating, and Lu Shuangping came again, "Originally, like our family's current economic conditions, Haonan will not be able to support his wife and children in the future, so Qingqing will not need to work in the future, and it doesn't matter if she studies at this university now, but since Qingqing wants to study, let her continue to graduate!" After all, with a little more culture, it will be good for children's education in the future. ”

Mencius said: "Of course it should be finished, the three or four years of life are not short, not long, but the opportunity and time to go to school cannot be missed, as for whether she needs to work in the future, that is another matter."

Qin Haonan understood his mother's thoughts, and he also knew that Meng Qingqing would not only not give up his studies, but also would not give up the opportunity to work in the future.

He hurriedly said: "Qingqing University is a key university, and it is not something that ordinary people can be admitted to if they want to, so of course such an opportunity cannot be missed." Don't you have a lot of skills! ”

"Yes, you can't miss your studies, but I've heard that college students can get married as long as they are old! The school has no right to interfere. Qingqing will be twenty years old next year, otherwise when Qingqing has winter vacation next year, we will do the marriage of the two of them! ”

Meng Zijun paused, "There's no need to be in such a hurry, right?" Although the state only stipulates that marriage can be obtained within the legal age, and the school has no right to interfere, Qingqing is still in college after all, which is not good for her studies or on her classmates? ”

"I don't think it will make a difference! Qingqing got married when she went home during the winter vacation, and after the vacation, she could continue to go to school without affecting her studies! As for the discussion of the students, this will not be! They have a marriage certificate that the matchmaker is getting married, and besides, I saw some college students on TV holding weddings in school! Today's young people are able to accept such things. Qingqing is not the first one, there are many college students who are married! ”

Of course Meng Qingqing disagreed, but she couldn't directly oppose it in front of everyone, she lowered her head and secretly pinched Qin Haonan, who was sitting next to her.

Qin Haonan understood, and said to Lu Shuangping: "Mom, what are you talking about during the New Year?" Isn't this early until next year? Come, eat vegetables. ”

As he spoke, Qin Haonan put a chicken leg in his mother's bowl.

Qin Guoliang also saw that Meng Zijun's father and daughter did not agree to this matter, so Lu Shuangping wanted to say something, he quickly interrupted and said: "Oh, I don't seem to have taken the medicine this morning, you go and help me get the medicine, this medicine has to be taken on time."

Lu Shuangping heard that he stood up to get the medicine, thought about it and said suspiciously: "That's not right!" I remember that you have already taken it, and I personally brought you the medicine! ”

Qin Guoliang looked dazed, "Really? You seem to have really eaten it when you say that, you see my memory, I have already eaten it but I forgot it, thanks to your memory. ”

Qin Haonan said: "Dad, you can't take this medicine indiscriminately, it's not good to eat too much, Mom, my father's memory is not good, you have to stare at him every day, when to take it every day, and how much to eat?" How many times? Make no mistake about it. ”

Lu Shuangping's mind was successfully drawn, and she was now only concerned about the old man's physical health.

"How did you become so forgetful? Okay, well, I'll keep an eye on him and take medicine in the future. You can't take the wrong medicine. ”

This day passed perfunctorily, but since Lu Shuangping had such a thought, she would not stop.

On this day, the family of three was having dinner, and she brought up the matter again.

"Haonan, you go and discuss with Qingqing, and when you have winter vacation next year, you and Qingqing's affairs will be done."

Qin Haonan said: "Mom, I was inviting Qingqing and their father and daughter to dinner that day, didn't you see it?" Meng Zijun did not agree with Qingqing getting married so early, and Qingqing himself was unwilling. ”

"Why didn't Meng Zijun agree? As a parent, if it is for the good of the child, shouldn't he let the child get married earlier? ”

"Mom, the situation of their family is different, their father and daughter have been dependent on each other for many years, this daughter has finally grown up, and Meng Zijun's body has just improved, he may be reluctant to marry his daughter so early!"

"What is the reasoning? He is reluctant to let his daughter marry earlier, so does he want us to wait like this? How can they be so selfish? I don't want to think that you are so old, we are also old, we want to hold our grandson earlier, is this too much to ask? ”

"Mom, what's the hurry? Isn't it just two more years to wait? ”

"Yes, yes, I'm the emperor and the eunuch is not in a hurry, you don't want to think about it, many people who are as old as you already have children, and you still have to wait for marriage here."

"There are also people in their thirties who are still single! I don't know how to say that I already have a marriage partner! Qin Haonan said.

"Hey! The water flows to the lower places, the people go to the higher places, why don't you keep up with the good and look backwards. When you go to school, you have to work hard to get high scores, when you do business, you want to make a lot of money, and you can't be willing to be the last one when you get married and have children, you have to scramble, you know? ”

Qin Haonan was really out of step in the face of his mother's theory, he begged his father for help, "Dad, you quickly persuade my mother, she is a little crazy like this!" How can getting married and having children be compared to work and study? Since the person I like is so much younger than me, I have to accept this reality, I can't just think about myself, I have to think about her, she is still a college student, or a child, just forcing her to get married, she is not happy, we have a bad time after getting married, what is the use of getting married? ”

Qin Guoliang also said: "Yes! Don't force your children, what's the difference between two years earlier and two years later? Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, you don't have to worry about it, I can also see it, that day Meng Zijun really didn't want his daughter to get married early, you said that people are selfish and don't think about you, people will think so, say why are you so selfish and don't think about them. ”

Lu Shuangping still couldn't figure it out, "Hey! You say, that Meng Qing young man Ji Xiao is not sensible, how can Meng Zijun, as a parent, be like this? Isn't it a good thing for children to get married early? How could he disagree? ”

"It's a good thing for you to get your children married early, but it's not necessarily for others." Qin Guoliang said.

"It is said that getting married early and getting rich early, why is it not a good thing to get married early? The benefits are many. ”

"What's in it for you? Isn't it that you and your father are retired, you are idle and uncomfortable, so you want to hug your grandson, you are talking in my ears every day, my ears are calloused, Mom, if you are idle and uncomfortable, go and square dance with those old ladies in the community, don't stare at me and Qingqing all day long. (To be continued.) )